At what point in your life do you feel that no one else can be trusted?

When I was a child, I relied on my parents, but my parents had an old day. It's not practical to rely on relatives and friends, they can help you once or twice, but they can't help you for a lifetime. Let's rely on the other half, many facts have proved that it is obviously not very reliable.

Even if your partner is very wealthy, relying on each other completely will make you undignified, you will be disliked because you don't have a job, and over time, even you will become unconfident and insecure. Especially women, if they have no job and no income, and are completely dependent on their other half, they will have no self-esteem and no sense of security. When your significant other leaves you, you will be at a loss for what to do.

I just went to college this year, with a good imagination of the university, I started my college life, there was nothing bad at the beginning, the roommates were very friendly, and there was nothing bad to get along with, I thought I would live well, but slowly I found that college life was not easy at all, and the roommates were fine, but other things were not satisfactory, and I didn't look for things but I found them all by myself. I was very depressed, I did a psychological test and was summoned by the psychology teacher, the psychology teacher was not as good and gentle as I imagined, chatting with my mother at night, telling her that college life was not so good, but my mother didn't want to hear it at all, she was very sad at the time, she always felt that it was the reason why I didn't sleep well, she always felt that nothing would happen, her incomprehension made me particularly irritable, friends are in different places to adapt to their lives, although the roommates are very good, but they are not familiar, at that time I felt very pitiful, I had nowhere to say anything on my stomach and could only digest it by myself, and at that time I only had myself to rely on.

This kind of thing often happens, for example, when you are working, you need to cooperate with each other, but the other person doesn't listen to your command, and the things are very angry, and you can't wait to do it yourself, so many times, many things, need to cooperate with each other, but not everyone thinks the same as you, which leads to disagreements and dissatisfaction.

A rich daughter, his father is a director of a listed group, it is said that her life will not be reduced to sleeping on the streets, and in fact, when his father suddenly left her because of an accident, and his father's foundation was also robbed, and this rich daughter due to daily pampering does not learn and has no skills, when the accident comes, she will not even survive at the very least, the so-called friends are looking at her father's face before she is called to come, When he lost his father, he had nothing, even more than the person who originally had nothing, so I think a person should have the ability to survive on his own at all times, and everyone who is with us is just a companion for a certain period of time in your life, don't rely too much on others.

Approaching the end of the period, approaching the cold winter, approaching the holiday. The roommates all went out to study, cold, and homesick. I couldn't read a book, so I asked my best friend if she went to the movies and she said she wasn't available.

Wrapped in a coat, he returned to the dormitory after reading Fanghua and found that he didn't bring the key, so he cautiously asked his roommate, but did not receive a reply. Walked outside to blow the cold wind, hit my parents, my nose was a little stuffy, I was cold and hungry, but my parents were mentioning money, and my helpless tone made me choke, saying that I would have to rely on myself after all, and they were also under a lot of pressure, I raised my head and pressed back my tears and said Well, I knew that I would hang up immediately**.

One night I had insomnia and couldn't sleep at all. I was so angry that I took a lot of sleeping pills, and I can't remember the amount. I felt bad in the middle of the night, I felt like I couldn't breathe, and I kept vomiting.

** to the object at that time, I lived in Wudaokou at that time, and he lived in the New National Exhibition. ** was pressed off, it turned out that he had another girlfriend at that time. I didn't think about asking my parents for help, they all have their own lives, and they don't have time to take care of me.

I don't have any friends in Beijing, and the call records are only takeaway and courier delivery except for my boyfriend at that time.

I started my business last year, and before I started my business, my friends and relatives around me blew the sky, saying that they must give me a lot of help. But I never took those words seriously. Because I know that this requires my own efforts and the help of those closest to me.

A friend who has been friends for many years only told me that he needed money and told him that he could sell the Journey to the West for some money, and my girlfriend also helped me a lot. To be honest, those who talk too much often don't bring you any real help, let alone help in the snow. At best, they are the icing on the cake.

You must have a correct understanding of the people around you, and this cognition will often reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles.

If you always talk about not practicing fake tricks, people will think that you are unreliable.

Because you usually have personnel, personality, etc., you can't give people too much trust, so you have to find your own reasons for the current situation.