What moment did you think your father actually loved you?

Updated on society 2024-03-21
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I like to sit on the couch with my parents and watch TV while chatting with them until midnight, because the time at home is very limited. He has always been proud of this because the daughters and sons of his colleagues like to lock themselves in their rooms and are not very willing to communicate. Every time she takes me out, she will say with a special face that my daughter loves to chat with me, and basically doesn't turn on the computer or play with her mobile phone when she comes home, and then enjoys the envious eyes of other fathers.

    Every time I was sent on a plane, I would definitely seize the last opportunity to educate me on the road, and then try to hide my reluctance to give up on the airport after I arrived at the airport, and I must give me a serious image of a father, and after getting used to his routine, I would hug him hard before leaving the customs, and then I could feel that he was obviously soft.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In the summer, when I get off work at half past six in the evening, as long as I don't get home at half past seven, my dad will call ** to ask me why I haven't been home yet, and sometimes go out to pick me up, although I always say no. Today I got off work late again, back home living room TV on, no one, my mother is playing with mobile phones in the house, my brother is not at home, I also said what about people, I thought I went out to buy cigarettes and didn't care, after a long time my dad pushed the door in, asked me which way to go, why didn't I see me, picked me up so far, it was such a hot day outside, I wanted to cry in an instant, at that moment I really felt that there was no one who loved me more than my dad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I went to school abroad, returned to China and interned in Shanghai, and went home once every 2-3 weeks, every time I came home, my father would let me soak my feet, and then carefully help me repair the calluses on my feet because I wore high heels, and carefully help me trim my nails. When I go out shopping with him, I like to hold him, and he always pushes me away and says: People will misunderstand when they see it!

    While happily closing his mouth. At home, I usually cook and go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and say to me like a child: I want to eat braised pork, I want to eat bean sprouts, I want to eat lettuce, I want to eat clams.

    I said okay, let's buy it, and at night I criticized each dish like a foodie for being salty, light, and sweet, and at the same time I ate more than anyone else. Dad didn't know how to cook, but my favorite gourd meat slices soup and farmhouse fried pork, he tried a few times and made it well, so I would ask him to cook by name, so these two dishes, he made more and more delicious. Every time I return to China for a vacation, I will directly give me two cards, a cash card and a credit card, and tell me, you can swipe it if you want, and your father will support you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My dad was very busy when I was a kid and barely participated in my childhood, and I was basically brought up by my mom. And Dad is also the kind of big man who is not good at expressing himself, and there will be no words like "I love you" and "I miss you" between us. During the holidays, I stayed at school to review and didn't come home, my dad drank too much and called me **, asked me why I didn't go home, I said I want to study hard, he said what to learn, should go home.

    I laughed, I knew he missed me, I said, I don't learn from you to raise me, raise me for a lifetime, before the words fell, he immediately said, I will raise you, raise you for a lifetime. I immediately wet my eyes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Companionship, given a lot since childhood, the more I grow up, the more dependent I feel on his side. Dad doesn't talk much, occasionally has a big temper but is gentle most of the time. Dinner alone, supper at home, huddled on the sofa in the living room, watching a movie or song variety show, and then the Pisces traits flood to tears.

    I remember this experience many times. From birth to today, my dad has been with me more than twice as long as my mom. The laughter of my childhood, my loud voice in a group of small friends, and my righteousness and pride, all of which were the confidence he gave me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He really focused on nurturing my mind from a young age. Patiently nurture me and guide me: to identify the true treasure with your heart - such as love, such as purity, to experience and pursue pure things, there is always that simplicity, and to cherish the pure love of others for you.

    When I was in high school, he said to me one day: Dad is not worried that you will be deceived by little boys in the future, because you have been loved by Dad like this. I used to listen to ghost stories at school and go home and say that I was scared, and my father said that ghosts are not scary, stupid daughters, some of them are with love and nostalgia, so they don't want to go and silently protect us.

    People are more terrible than ghosts, and you will understand later.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    A while ago, my dad was burned by steam, a large blister, asked him if it hurts, every time he waves his hand does it hurt or not, a trivial matter. Cook as usual, do whatever you want. After sending me to study, my mother complained to me on WeChat two days later that the eldest child in the family was saving face in front of his daughter, and now that my daughter is studying, striking hand guards, watching TV full-time, and making tea, I call my wife, haha, at that moment I think my dad is super cute.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    On my sixteenth birthday, my father took the whole family to a five-star hotel for morning tea, and said to me while eating fried rice noodles: "Daughter, I came here to eat today, not because our family is rich; It's not because of how delicious the food here is; It's that Dad hopes that you won't be at a loss when you go in and out of such occasions in the future. "I burst into tears.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Father's love is like a mountain, this is everyone's consensus! The father's love in my eyes is deep, and my father is my strong backing! As I get older, I feel more and more secure that I have a father!

    Although he has reached the age of forty, he can feel at ease with his old father!

    Even though the old father is old, even if he is retired and idle at home, he is a person who can't be idle, and he will always make all kinds of plans for his family! Nearly 70 years old, what we hope most is that he is healthy, happy, and can be himself! After all, the old father has been running for his children for more than 40 years, and in the past 40 years, the old father has always tried his best to work, in order to naturally give us a better living environment!

    The old father is old, and he is still worried about us, whose child is going to go to a tutoring class, the old father is always the first to pay the money, in his eyes, bringing grandchildren is also equivalent to reducing pressure on the children! The old father is most proud of his life is that he has children and daughters, grandchildren and grandchildren, he always said to his friends that he never envied their fine clothes and food, and the children are abroad, my old father feels that all the children and grandchildren are around is a great happiness.

    Sure. We all know that we are middle-aged, and we are ashamed that we have not become rich and have not achieved much, but my old father never felt that we had not done enough, but told us that money is something outside the body, and it is good to cherish the happiness of the moment! The old father's three views are wonderful, which also makes our life very relaxed and happy, we grew up in the atmosphere of love, started a family by ourselves, and are also walking the path of the old father.

    I'm here. No matter what happens, my father will always stand up and tell me that he is there! I have always felt that my old father does not have much savings, but he can take hundreds of thousands of dollars when my lover is sick.

    Father's love is like a mountain, and father's love makes us feel full of security!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A father's love is like a mountain. The father's responsibility is great, and he is the pillar of a family, like the fertile soil in the mountains, nurturing the green grass and the big trees with thick shade, so that the weak life planted in the mountains has clothing, food, and a house. A father's love is like a ship that travels thousands of miles.

    Filled with the purest love in the world, day and night, selfless dedication, let the old and young men sail to the harbor of hope, light, peace and happiness. A father's love is like heaven. No matter how the world changes, the hardships and hardships are borne by themselves, and the good things are left to the family.

    The father is the guiding light of the child, the father is the spiritual pillar of the child, the father is the pillar of the family, the father is the sky, the father is gone, the sky falls.

    After becoming a father himself, he inherited his father's love for his son. During the high school entrance examination, in order not to affect my son's studies, I didn't watch TV. Always keep an eye on your child's academic performance and identify gaps.

    When I was in high school, I wrote about 40 sheets of A4 paper for my son's reference. Of course, he was strict with his son. When I was in junior high school, I let my son eat at school and adapt to group life, even though my home was right at the school gate.

    When there is a deviation in the son's thinking, correct it in time and be sure to follow the right path. My son needs you in my heart, and I can sacrifice everything for my son, including my life.

    The son does not teach the fault of the father, and raises the child to be an upright person, an independent person, and self-reliant

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I feel that a father's love is like a mountain, and a father's love is deep, as majestic as a mountain, as vast as the sea.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Father's love is very abstract, some people have it, some people don't have it, and it is literally understood, father's love refers to the love that the father (or stepfather) gives to the child, so that the child can feel the warmth given by the father.

    The father (or stepfather) gives the child strength and self-reliance from a male point of view. Confident, inclusive. So that the child can feel a different kind of love than the mother's love.

    There is a kind of love, it is wordless, it is serious, and it is often impossible to tell it at the time, however, it makes you experience more and more flavor in the days that follow, and you will never forget it for the rest of your life, it is the vast and boundless father's love.

    Fatherly love is actually very simple. It's like liquor, spicy and hot, and it's easy to get drunk in it; It's like coffee, bitter and mellow, and it's easy to invigorate; It's like tea, bland and intimate, making people addicted without realizing it.

    Father's love is a ray of sunshine in the spring, shining on me warmly; It was a cool breeze in the summer that blew away the heat in my heart; It is a string of fruits in the autumn that guides me to success; It was a fire in the winter that warmed my cold heart. Father's love is everywhere!

    Even if you are a master of Danqing, it is difficult to outline your father's strong backbone: even if you are a literary master, it is difficult to portray your father's indomitable spirit; Even if the sea is inclusive, it is difficult to encompass the love of the father and your children!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In my eyes, I think fatherly love should be great, even silence and silence can bring you the best protection, even if you stand there can give you enough security to make you feel that you are not alone.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In my eyes, father's love is as majestic as a mountain, sometimes it is forgiving, sometimes it is great.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Once I heard my mom tell me that there was a**beat** to my dad, at that time it was still when I was studying, and then my dad received ** and then that** told my dad that I was hit by a car, and then in the hospital urgently needed the operation fee and then had to pay for it, my dad was anxious half dead, and then because he wanted a lot of money, he quickly called ** to my mom and asked me to raise money for two people, and then I happened to be with my mom, this ** deception was quickly recognized, and then my dad knew that he actually called** over and put that** scolded for a while, in fact, I felt that this deception was a very simple one, as long as normal thinking could be punctured, but at that time, my father was very worried about me, so he rushed to the doctor, and he wanted to get the money in a hurry. At the time, I thought my dad was silly, but he was also cute.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When I was a child, the conditions at home were not particularly good, I remember once my father bought chicken legs and came back, and then there were only me and my father at home to eat, and then we ate until the end there was a chicken leg left, and then my father let me eat it, and then I said let my father eat, and my father said that he didn't like to eat chicken legs, and when I was a child, I might think that my father really didn't like to eat chicken legs, but when you grow up, you will think, if your father doesn't like to eat him, maybe he may not buy it, But when you grow up, you will understand that Dad said that he didn't like to eat at that time, he just wanted to keep it for you, this is his love for you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    At this time, I will feel my father's strong love, because generally my father's love is always deeper, not good at expressing, not good at expressing that she actually loves her child very much in her heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    At first, I always thought that my father didn't like me, because my personality was not the kind they needed, and then at the same time, when I was young, I always thought that my father didn't like me, because he always blackened my face to me, and at the same time, I always thought that my father had a shoulder pain, and my sister didn't care about me, until one time after I came out to work, my father would always use it at night, whether I was working hard, or let me drink more water. And sometimes, even though my father himself is very hard, he can still put me and my sister and I go to school. I think my father cares about us a lot, because he doesn't like other friends.

    We went out together, and their father always called them **, and my father, he always called ** when it was already dark, and then at seven or eight o'clock he would call ** to urge us to go home. Although I sometimes feel annoyed, after thinking about it, I feel very secure in my heart, and then at the same time, I feel that my father loves us, because after all, he cares about our safety very much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My father is a taciturn person, and I rarely see each other when I was a child, and my father works outside, and I only have the opportunity to meet once or twice a year, so the relationship with my father is also relatively light, I don't know what to say, my father asks how my academic performance is, and most of the conversations with my father are these.

    Later, I also graduated from college and came out to work, went to work in my father's city, only to find that my father's work is so hard, I go out early and return late every day, but I don't forget to call ** to ask my family every day, I just happened to be out of work, and I also need a little more money, I don't feel very embarrassed, I have to work and get money from my parents, I usually tell my mother, I rarely communicate with my father, and I told my father that my father didn't say a word and called the money. In fact, I feel very guilty in my heart, I have to get money after graduation, I have time to go to my father on the weekend, my father is very happy to buy a lot of vegetables, my father is busy cooking, and he will tell me about his work from time to time, looking at my father's white head, my nose is sour, I know that my father loves us, but I didn't say it, my father's love is silent, I really make money, don't let my father worry, I can't let my father work at a great age.

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