How to educate and nurture children, and how to educate and nurture children

If you're asking yourself, I can't help it. If not, I hope the following passage is helpful to you:

To do a good job in children's education, we only need to do two things well: the strategic level and the tactical level.

1. Strategic level.

For example, if I ask what to educate children (some people may want to laugh when they see this question, but after you think about it seriously, they probably can't laugh), what is the purpose of your children's training? Is it for him to inherit the family business? Let him be a professional?

White collar? Engineer? If that's it, you're nurturing your children for yourself, and you're sending your children to education for yourself.

Have you ever cared about your children's happiness and happiness? Do you know what your child is really good at, good at, and interested in? You have deprived your child of the right to do what he loves and is good at in the future!

The problem at this level belongs to the problem of educational concepts, and it is a deeper problem, so there are indeed not many resources in society to educate and guide parents in this regard, and even fewer online. But there is also good news, there is a "talent paradise"**, in this regard has made a useful attempt, they have developed a set of long-term tracking and analysis of children's talent and specialty changes according to the multiple intelligence education theory, the purpose is to help children and parents more accurately understand their own talents, strengths, and establish the future development direction. If you don't have a better idea yet, check out this web.

It seems to be free.

Second, the tactical level.

At the tactical level, it is how to educate children, that is, what to educate and how to educate more efficiently. This is the strength of our society, and there are a lot of tutoring, tutoring, and interest classes on the Internet. You can choose according to your needs.

But there is one point, which also needs to be prerequisite. It is to teach children how to learn first. As a student, the first thing you should learn is 'learn how to learn', which is equivalent to pre-job training.

Most of learning happens through the brain, so it's important to understand how your brain learns and how to learn the fastest. Everyone's brain has its own unique learning habits and patterns, and this is the type of learning. As the most important research result of cognitive neuroscience (the study of how the brain learns), learning type has been promoted in the Western education community for a long time, but in China, it may be because of the excessive emphasis on hard work, such good results have not been applied.

It's a pity. If you search for learning type tests, there can be many, and the above-mentioned 'Talent Paradise' network also has tests in this area, and it also gives a report on the learning strategies of how students should learn for each type of learning.

One is to be independent and do your own things. Second, politeness, take the initiative to greet people, third, persistence, and perseverance. Fourth, be honest and never lie at any time.

Fifth, thrifty. Food cannot be wasted. Sixth, good things must learn to share.

7. Wisdom must find a way to solve problems when encountered. 8. Enthusiasm and initiative to help others.

First of all, it is necessary to discover and educate in time. Many parents may not notice that most of their children's bad habits start from the first bad behavior, and because parents do not stop it in time, they mistakenly think that it is reasonable to do so, so they go further and further down the wrong path. When children are young, they generally have no concept of right and wrong, they don't know that taking other people's things casually is "stealing", they don't know that making a lot of noise will affect other people's work and rest, and they don't know that littering is an act ...... destroying the environmentWhenever this happens, parents should deal with it in time to nip it in the bud.

Secondly, when the child is grossly negligent. When children make serious mistakes, they generally have a sense of guilt and guilt, and are often more receptive to criticism and opinions from others. If parents seize the opportunity to educate them patiently and meticulously, they will definitely receive unexpected results.

Third, when the child encounters setbacks. When children encounter setbacks, they are most likely to have negative emotions of discouragement, pain and despair, and parents will blame them, which will definitely make the children worse. But if parents show understanding, give comfort and encouragement to their children, and affirm their efforts, I believe that most children will regain their confidence and move firmly towards their goals.

Fourth, when the child is interested in something. A large number of facts have proved that many scientists and artists have achieved their careers because of their childhood interests. Edison is a prime example.

Interest is the best teacher. When children are young, they often have a strong interest in something, and at this time, parents must seize the opportunity to motivate their children to persevere.

Children's education should be taught according to the characteristics of the child, and if the child has leadership talent, the child's leadership ability can be cultivated.