What impact successful parents and incompetent parents can have on their children

Hehe, I think the landlord himself understands it very well, what you say is reasonable, so you should want to get the support of others. You should already have a plan for your future, and I wish you success. But it's not polite to shut up your parents, just ignore them.

Can't you hide if you can't be provoked?

Pessimism, before you were born, you already had unparalleled energy, but you haven't yet shown it.

Not everyone deserves to be a parent.

Then I think you're incompetent...You have the ability to decide for yourself the family environment in which you were born....

It is not easy for parents to have children, although they may not be successful in their careers, and they cannot give their children a good experience, but they cannot say that their parents are incompetent, they will be sad. It's good to hope that you can follow your own life plan. Prove that you have your own goals and dreams.

It would be nice to tell your parents clearly. They may say a lot, but you can also stick to your dreams and tell them with a calm heart that you want to do it for your dreams, or you will regret it in the future. I'm sure every parent will understand.

Because they don't want their children to live in a miserable life. They will still be proud of you until the day you succeed. We have to thank our parents at all times.

I don't think you should care about that, no matter what your family is, you can just make a difference on your own and do what you think is right. has achieved the ...... of filial piety to parents

Families with chaotic work and life cannot raise self-disciplined children. Parents are role models for their children's upbringing. Every move of parents affects the growth of children subtly.

With the popularity of the Internet era, parents spend most of their time looking at their mobile phones, sometimes in the early hours of the morning, and the affected children also follow the example of their parents, and gradually develop the habit of staying up late, unable to get up in the morning, and the phenomenon of being late for class has become commonplace! If parents have any rest habits, what rest habits will children develop, and the chaos of rest will make children unable to establish normal living habits and study habits, resulting in unsatisfactory children's academic performance. If parents want to cultivate their children's self-discipline, they must develop good rest habits for their children.

Parents are role models for their children's upbringing. Every move of parents affects the growth of children subtly. With the popularity of the Internet era, parents spend most of their time looking at their mobile phones, sometimes in the early hours of the morning, and the affected children also follow the example of their parents, and gradually develop the habit of staying up late, unable to get up in the morning, and the phenomenon of being late for class has become commonplace!

If parents have any rest habits, what rest habits will children develop, and the chaos of rest will make children unable to establish normal living habits and study habits, resulting in unsatisfactory children's academic performance. If parents want to cultivate their children's self-discipline, they must develop good rest habits for their children.

If parents have any rest habits, what rest habits will children develop, and the chaos of rest will make children unable to establish normal living habits and study habits, resulting in unsatisfactory children's academic performance. If parents want to cultivate their children's self-discipline, they must develop good rest habits for their children. Parents are role models for their children's upbringing.

Every move of parents affects the growth of children subtly. With the popularity of the Internet era, parents spend most of their time looking at their mobile phones, sometimes in the early hours of the morning, and the affected children also follow the example of their parents, and gradually develop the habit of staying up late, unable to get up in the morning, and the phenomenon of being late for class has become commonplace!

Poor temper, scolding children at every turn, which will leave a psychological shadow on children, never participate in children's activities at school, and do not often accompany children.

In fact, some parents are very tolerant of their children, such parents are actually unable to educate excellent children, and such parents are often very lenient to their children, and they are also more doting.

People often say that parents are role models for their children, so what kind of parents can educate excellent children, I think that parents respect the old and love the young, polite, these are able to educate very good children, on the contrary, if parents quarrel all day and do nothing and don't want to do anything, then his children will be the same as him, so such parents are not able to educate good children.

In front of children, the more parents do, the more incompetent the children become, and the more outrageous the parents are wrong.

It really is. The love of parents and children is far-reaching, and it is often easy to enter into a situation of gain and loss.

As an ordinary mother of children, I always try to arrange everything for my child, so that he is accustomed to thinking that everything is just going with the flow. When one day you can't do something, or you don't do something, it's often a child's complaint and responsibility. Because he thinks that this is your business and has nothing to do with him.

Take the matter of writing homework, every day I urge me to write, I insist on checking and filling in the gaps, for a long time, he thinks that this is his parents' business, he is responsible for writing it, and the rest has nothing to do with him. But one day, when the mother did not check the homework, or did not bring enough class texts, the child naturally began to blame the mother for not checking the reason, and it would definitely not be that he did not write or check it well.

This is just a homework, and the same applies to any situation: if you arrange everything for him every day, the consequence is that he doesn't have to do anything, and you are busy like a spinning top every day. But he's like nobody—the shopkeeper is in charge.

Thinking about it this way, the reason is that the love of parents is too spoiled. In the name of love, we take care of all the children's thinking ability, which creates the lack of children's independent responsibility.

Naturally, children are weak in action, commonly known as "Ma Bao Nan", children who rely too much on their parents will not be able to make their children mature after all.

Now that I think about it, I think that the sentence "the children of the poor are in charge of the house early" is quite reasonable.

Get out there and exercise him. Physical exercise, housework exercise, and the ability to do your own things from an early age, will it be the same?

Fortunately, there is still enough time and there is still a chance to cultivate. Adjust the way well, and no longer use it as a treasure in your hand, but exercise his responsibility more.

Parents are incapable of teaching their children. Then the teacher will help the child to improve. The child can still be very smooth idiom.

There are two sides to everything, and the ability of parents accounts for a large part. But children's intellectual curiosity is also very strong. If the environment is good and the family atmosphere is good, then the development of such a child in the future will definitely be good.

The parents are not highly educated, but the teachers are highly educated, children love to learn, love to think, and the family and surrounding environment are good, so there is no need to worry too much!

If it is better for parents to stay with their children and educate them to say that they are hurting their children, if they are better to be with their children, if they are not with their children. Without parental education, the child will be very betrayed and will be spoiled by the bad water of society.

Please don't use the word "incompetent" to describe "teaching children". Tutoring children is not the same as "teaching children".

My parents taught me to be optimistic, to be strong, to be honest, to be honest, to be kind, to be independent, and to be independent.

My mother would accompany me when I was doing my homework, she couldn't understand whether my homework was right or wrong, my father had a very low sense of presence in my schoolwork, he would praise me for my good grades, and when my grades dropped, he didn't know how to persuade me, and the phrase "read it well and get it back next time" over and over again. Never hit me.

It depends on whether your child has that love to learn. In fact, there are many things that adults can't teach. Only on his own. If he can't learn it, you can't learn it no matter how you do. If he is a smart child, he doesn't need to be taught by adults, he will naturally learn it

In fact, now children have the opportunity to receive education, and they can teach their children through school education, and parents can also communicate with teachers to see where they can guide their children in their daily lives, and if they can't, there are tutorial classes.

This has a lot to do with family style and family motto.

There are many factors involved in the answer to this question, and here are some possible reasons:

The competitive pressure of modern society is greater, requiring children to have higher knowledge and skills, and these knowledge and skills need to be better cultivated and developed in the process of children's growth.

The uneven distribution of educational resources, the quality of children's education and the opportunities have a lot to do with their family background. Parents of some children may not be able to provide high-quality educational resources, resulting in limited educational levels for their children.

Modern education pays more attention to the all-round development of students, which not only requires students to have excellent academic performance, but also requires students to have practical ability, innovation ability and social ability, which requires parents and schools to work together to cultivate and develop children's comprehensive quality.

The family structure and family education methods in modern society have changed, and many families are dual-income families, and parents' time and energy may not be able to fully focus on their children's education, which will also affect their children's growth and development.

In short, the competitive pressure in modern society is greater, the uneven distribution of educational resources, the change of educational concepts and changes in family structure and other factors may lead to the current parents to pay more attention to the education of their children, but this does not mean that the previous parents were not able to educate their children well. Every era and every family is different, and we need to develop a suitable education plan for our children according to the actual situation.

1.The habit of exercising.

Exercise wheels can enhance children's physical fitness, improve their immunity, and have great benefits for their physical and mental health. But this habit should be shaped by parents from a young age, so only when parents have the habit of exercising, children can slowly fall in love with sports. In addition, parents must pay attention to the fact that due to the very large temperature difference in the current season, if parents need to take their children to outdoor sports, it is best to bring a baseball shirt for their children, which can prevent the cool air from eroding his body and causing harm to his health.

2.Reading habits.

Books can improve children's experience, make students appear more aura and more outstanding, so parents should cultivate children's reading habits from an early age. So what should parents do? The most correct way is to teach by example, parents can take their children to the library at an early age, each holding a book and reading the article carefully, so that slowly the child will fall in love with this thing and develop habits.

In the future, even if they are not accompanied by their families, they will habitually read articles.

3.Strong will.

Some parents spoil their children when they are young, so that they are not severely hit, their self-control ability is very sensitive, and they cannot accept all unsuccessful, which is a very risky thing, and it is easy for them to distort their psychological state in the face of difficulties and setbacks. The best way for parents to hide their luck is to start practicing their children from an early age, shaping their self-control, so that students have a strong will, and it will also help them to step into society in the future.

4.Sense of well-being.

The construction of a child's happiness comes from his family, and the words and deeds of parents have a great impact on the child's happiness. Parents often say that caring words can shape the happiness of their children, and only this kind of children will be happier and happier and learn to cherish more. This kind of thing cannot be given by others, so parents must pay more attention to their speech and behavior to provide better standards for their children's development.

The impact of these things on children is very great, and they can only rely on the active education of parents, first of all, the habit of exercise, the habit of reading, the will to be strong and the desire to dig into difficulties, and happiness.

Like some daily Yuntong exercises, or the atmosphere of children's learning and growth, these things have a great impact on children, and others can't teach them, so they can only rely on their parents.

Exercise habits Exercise can enhance children's physical fitness, improve their immunity, and have great benefits for their physical health.

Children can't learn, will rely on and lack self-confidence. Children don't learn what they should learn when they grow up, and they have to pay a lot of money when they grow up.