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At first, it will be like this, and after a month, you will get used to it, mainly to make more friends, and having familiar interpersonal relationships will dilute the feeling of homesickness.
I was only 12 years old when I went out to study, and I was very homesick for the first half of the month, and then I got used to it.
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Anyone feels this way at first.
Looks like you've never been out of the house.
Don't worry, you should get used to it in a month at most.
You will find out how happy it is to be with your classmates to eat, live, study and play.
I'm almost three, but I still want to go to school whenever I get the chance.
I miss it so much, and I look forward to that kind of student life!
Really happy!
You'll get to know it slowly!
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Then think about it, a person who doesn't want to go home as soon as he goes out must be unable to get warmth at home or have no conscience, and forget his parents who gave birth to him and raised him when he goes out; Also, it's hard and soft-hearted, and I want to think about it in my heart, so think about it!!
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That's something to overcome, don't think it's so scary, I've lived in a dormitory for 6 years
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Some middle school students think like this: I finally broke free from the control of my parents, ho ho! It's so free! How interesting it is to be classmates! Living with classmates every day is a unique experience!
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Hehe, it's okay.
You can take your home** with you and give your home a ** when you feel homesick.
Make a few more good friends at school and slowly adapt to the new life!and soon it will be fine.
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Read books and communicate with your classmates.
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Think of your roommates as your family, and if you're not used to it, go home for a few days on the weekend.
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You can bring things from home, such as pillows and quilts, to school, and have the atmosphere of home.
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Useless people. I can't stand this little thing.,How can he go out alone in the future to break into the world.。。
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Slowly get used to it。You can also divert your attention, don't always think about whether you are used to it, and others may not be used to it. It's good when it's cooked.
Strangers that no one gets used to at the beginning know only when they get along.
I still remember when I was in school, there were 8 beds, 4 interior design, and 4 were from other classes, and I didn't like it very much, and I didn't want to live with other classes.
They always share things in their class, we will also share things in our class, and celebrate birthdays together, all things, I feel very happy, and I don't have the same reluctance as I did at the beginning, I resist the feeling of living with them, I feel very good, maybe I can make like-minded friends.
There is no friend who is very familiar from the beginning, you can try to treat her as your friend, and slowly get acquainted, I was also arranged in someone else's dormitory before, and there are many different habits.
For example, drinking water, we used to pick it up in the dormitory when we needed to, but they were the kind of people who saw that the water was about to run out, so they began to pick up the last bit of water in a bottle, and then drank it slowly, but I couldn't let this behavior continue to develop, so every time I asked them, oh I'm so thirsty, give me a little drink, they didn't say anything, they didn't let me drink it.
Later, I found out that I had been like this, and they also felt troublesome, so it was better not to take it, so they didn't do that. But in the end, we didn't have fun together, anyway, just try to accept it, compared to you all the time, others just came, they will be very diligent.
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Try to adapt to it, because accommodation is a test for you, and a learning career without accommodation is actually incomplete, because in addition to helping you gain friendships, it also cultivates your interpersonal skills, learns to care for others, and enjoys the warmth of being cared for. Maybe you will feel that the dormitory environment is not good, the roommates are very noisy, and there is no freedom at home, but these are actually there, and when you overcome it, you will find that the original accommodation is also very good. Come on, you can't live at home for the rest of your life, the flowers in the greenhouse will always grow, face the wind, I believe you can do it. Come on.
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If you really don't get used to living in school, then you don't need to force yourself, you can work hard to live at home, or you can rent a house not far from the school.
It's better than being depressed at school, suffering from insomnia and being unhappy every day, in fact, I don't like the accommodation at first, and I will slowly get used to it, and people always have to learn to adapt to the environment, and you can't let the environment adapt to you.
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It's been two semesters of accommodation, and I still can't get used to... Maybe you are more reluctant to group life, you have panic and chest tightness when you go to school every day, which is a manifestation of anxiety, high pressure, nervousness, usually you should relax and relax, you can do some exercise, chat with good friends to relieve your mood.
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If you don't get used to the accommodation, you can't do it, you have to adapt to the environment again, everyone is the same.
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If you can stay without accommodation, you can apply for non-accommodation. But you'll get used to it. Sooner or later, you have to live in college and live in college. Now let's get used to it.
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Young people must have the ability to adapt to the environment, and the accommodation may not be used to at first, but it will be okay after a long time.
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If that's the case, I think you should go out and rent a house so that you can have a better learning environment.
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I think if you really don't get used to it, you should go home and live, after all, it's a time of intense study, and you can learn better when you sleep well.
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If you are not used to living in a dormitory, you can choose to go to school on a day basis in high school and junior high school, or rent an apartment outside the school if you are at university.
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You have to overcome, don't think so much, try to relax yourself. It's just a place to sleep, that's how everyone sleeps, and you can too. On the bright side, don't be afraid, don't panic.
If you find the dorm room noisy, you can bring sound-isolating earplugs, or listen to songs with headphones. You can also listen to some radio, good night radio and the like, like listening to a story, so that you can relax.
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Everyone can't be born with the ability to adapt to the environment at the beginning, for example, when a baby is born, he doesn't adapt to the environment, so he always cries and always adapts slowly.
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At this time, you can adjust yourself, it may be that you can't adapt for a while, so you must adjust your mentality in later life and learn to adapt to the surrounding environment.
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You are a student, continue to live there, you are not used to living there, you have to go and adapt to it.
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After a long time, I got used to it, and slowly I got used to it. It's good to take it slowly, just don't think so.
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If you are not used to it, you have to adjust your mood slowly, because you can't change this reality.
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I'm really not used to it, so I just go home and live with the teacher, and I can't rest badly and affect my learning.
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What should I do if I am not used to living in accommodation? You can change to a dormitory, or rent a house outside, this is the solution.
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You have to learn to get used to the accommodation and learn to fit in with the group, which will be useful for you in the future.
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You have to learn to adapt to the environment slowly, and you can't let the environment adapt to you.
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You will get used to it by yourself after practicing for the time.
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It can be very difficult for you to adapt to the dormitory, and if the school has a psychological counselor, it is recommended to communicate with the teacher. Tell your mother about your true feelings, if you can do psychological counseling locally or online, and adjust your mindset to deal with emotions, it may help you slowly adapt to the environment.
What to bring to boarding school.
1. One pillowcase, one quilt sheet, one each; a mattress; 3 sets of pajamas and 3 sets of clothes for class to wear when going out (In case the clothes don't dry on rainy days, prepare an extra set.)
2. A small piece of laundry soap; washbasin (for laundry); Large plastic bucket (bath).
3. Towels and rags (for wiping beds and cabinets).
4. Toothbrush, small tube toothpaste. One cup with lid and one cup without a lid (brush your teeth and drink water); Papyrus, mm's.
5. a paper towel; 1 large bowl (for instant noodles).
6. Chopsticks and spoons. Dish soap, laundry detergent (packaged in small kegs), an octagonal hanger (to dry socks); More than a dozen ordinary hangers and hangers (pre-barrel machine washed outerwear).
7. Three to five coatpins (quilt).
8. A comb and a mirror. If you can't wake up in the morning, bring an alarm clock.
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It's also like this, I didn't stay more than one night at a time, and now I'm up by 1, and now I'm so helpless, I'm so dependent on my family, and I think about my family and I will do good things.
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Just stayed, it's so homesick, what should I do, affect my studies, I want to go home every day, but I can't help but help me...Make a few more good friends at school and slowly adapt to the new life!and quickly treat your roommates as your family if.
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Stick with it, you'll get used to it. In fact, it may be that you think you are not used to it, but in fact, you are used to it? If you grow up in the future, you will always have to live independently, so it is better to get used to it as soon as possible.
Don't think about it so much, it's a sophomore in high school. The third year of high school didn't have time to care about this. You can live at the school and ask your parents to see you once or twice a week.
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People always have to leave their parents, be stronger, it's better to post a few ** of your whole family on the bedside, maybe it will be better.
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I just stayed like this. But after a while, it won't, and then you'll find that the accommodation is actually pretty good. You think, the accommodation can save the time of going back and forth to study or do other things.
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Try to adapt to it, because accommodation is a test for you, and a learning career without residential life is actually incomplete, because in addition to helping you gain friendships, it also develops your interpersonal skills, learns to care for people, and enjoys the warmth of being cared for. Maybe you will think that the dormitory environment is not good, the roommates are very noisy, and there is no freedom at home, but these are actually there, and when you get over, you will find that the accommodation is also quite good. Come on, you can't live at home for the rest of your life, the flowers in the greenhouse will always grow, face the wind, I believe you can do it. Come on.
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It's okay to get along with your classmates in the dormitory, if you're afraid, you can ask your good friends to sleep with you, when I was in high school, whether it was when they were ghosting stories, or when it was very cold in winter, I slept with my roommates, in fact, you don't fit in with school, you can let your family come to see you occasionally, and slowly you feel at home, it's fine.
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Treat your stay as a new life experience. There should be a counselor in high school, should I listen to the teacher's advice?
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I'm also like you, I want to go home every day, I'm also emotionally unstable, I cry a lot, I'm more introverted and I can't talk to my high school classmates, I don't want to go to school when I get home, I cry at the thought of going to school, and now my mom has decided that it's better for me to leave the dormitory and rent a house outside. I suggest you do the same.,The dormitory really doesn't feel like home.。。。 It feels more like home outside...
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Don't rent, that's an escape. If you can't overcome this little difficulty, how will you mix in the future?
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The key is in yourself, and this kind of problem is solved by your own willpower ...
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Moved off-campus, but it was pretty much the same, and you had to get used to it.
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I'm like this too.,And I'm a junior high school now.,Girl.,Studying in the field.,It's been a long time to see my parents.,So now I'm also very troubled.,I want to die.,I cry every day.,I often wake up in the morning and the pillow is all wet.,So if there's a way, please help me.,Please don't say to adapt here.,I'm trying hard to adapt.,But it's useless.,I can't adapt.,Don't talk about communicating with classmates.,It's useless.,Homesickness has been said to almost every girl in the class.,But it's useless.,Don't say that I hit my parents every day**,Every time I hit**, I cry when I hear the voice, don't say keep myself busy, go do something, I am not in the mood to do things every time, I have been homesick, I have also communicated with my parents and teachers, it is useless, I want to ask my mother to stay with me, so that I can see her when I go home at night, it will be much better, now I go back to my uncle's house every night, I feel very sad not to see my parents, I want my mother to be by my side, so that I can see her at night and on weekends, but I don't know how to convince him, Now I feel that it is impossible for my mother to accompany me in this situation.
What to do? Help me, I really want to die, crying every day.
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Let's rent a room and ask your parents to come over.
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If you really can't apply to go home, cherish this opportunity to choose, physical and mental health is the most important. I'm a freshman now, I'm forced to live in a dormitory, I can't even go home on the weekends, I'm going crazy.
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I'm just in my first year of junior high school, and I'm not used to it, I want to cry every day when I go home, what should I do?
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You can apply, you live off-campus, just move out to live, tell your parents in advance, generally speaking, you can apply,
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Question: I changed to a new dormitory, which dormitory had a conflict with me before, and Teacher He, who has been openly and secretly saying bad things about me, is still upright, discussing this issue, and telling the teacher that I have nothing to do, just during class.
AnswerAlthough many people like to watch the excitement and listen to other people's gossip, everyone will not like the content of gossip involving themselves. When your classmate is saying bad things about you everywhere, some people may listen to her on the surface, but they will not regard this classmate as a friend in their hearts, and they will even hate this person in their hearts and alienate this person. After all, if you get along with her in the future, if you don't pay attention to whether you will be told again.
In this case, we should do our own thing, unite with our classmates, respect our teachers, and as long as we can persist in doing so, people will know what kind of person you are.
Don't get angry or lose your temper just because someone says about you, which will actually implement what that classmate said.
After asking the question, I just couldn't stand it anymore and ran away, so I asked my mother to pick me up.
One person said that I was self-inflicted, but I really couldn't accept it.
Answer: If others have been bullying you for no reason, spreading rumors everywhere, then this is a campus bullying incident, if the circumstances are serious, you can report to the school first, if it is still not solved in the end, then you can directly choose to call the police to deal with it.
You must stand up bravely, don't be afraid to swallow your anger, the more you regress, the more they will be excessive, as long as you take the right way to solve it, then it is legal and compliant.
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