People who understand psychology are annoying

Don't think like this, everyone has troubles, don't ask others what to do, mainly in yourself You can help your classmates appropriately, try not to say anything that is usually useless or bad, and you must be loud and loud when you ask questions in class, so that people feel that you are not guilty, usually you have to learn to communicate, if you don't know how to say it, smile lightly, and don't say anything about it It's okay to be long, look at how the staff is good and say that you learn a little, and finally I hope you are happy every day!

My advice is to do more meaningful things, and if you are not mature enough in terms of personality, why do people beat you? If you hit you, do you have to return it to be happy? Think about yourself, if something goes wrong, will others beat you for no reason?

Do more meaningful and worthwhile things, and care about your own studies or grandparents. Don't think about this kind of boring thing, and it will get better slowly

If you're going to stop violence from violence, you're going to get caught up in it, and the idea of violence is going to take root in your psyche.

Slowly, your personality will move closer to those gangsters, and there will be a period of time when you will no longer be bullied, and you can even bully other people who look down on you.

But after a few years, when you're going on to higher education, maybe you're talented and smart, and you're going to get in, but this personality will continue to create conflicts for you.

If you are mediocre in your studies, there is no hope of entering the society, the binding force of the society is worse, and the conflict of interest is more obvious.

Violence leads to more brutal violence, and there are judicial, economic, and so on punishments.

The advice is to restrain violent thoughts, calm down and study, and hone your willpower in difficult situations, until you have controlled the anger in your heart.

When reason prevails, you will look further ahead of the new learning environment, the new work environment, the new life environment.

It's just a psychological effect, you don't have to be afraid, just communicate with the people in the class.

Interpersonal relationships are a mirror, what you do to others, others will do to you If you feel that others always trouble you, and you have a bad relationship with your classmates You should review yourself first, everyone doesn't play with you because you know some friends like that and don't dare to play with you, or everyone thinks you are a bad student and don't want to play with you, or your family conditions are better and will attract more attention, are you very arrogant when you are in school? Do you feel that there is someone behind you to support you, and there is something inappropriate in your words and deeds?

It is not so difficult to establish a good relationship with your classmates, "helping others is fun", sometimes you give impermanent to help others, and everyone will feel your sincerity

Convince people with virtue. Let's learn Go!

Schoolmate. This problem really needs to be solved. It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist at your school. However, it is recommended that you think about why the people in the class are always alienating you and find your own reasons.

Absolutely, I personally feel that you are in a dilemma and want to get along with your classmates, but you can't disconnect from those who other classmates don't like.

I think you should first look at your own problems and think about why you can't get along with them. If it is indeed a classmate who deliberately asks you for trouble, you should be brave enough to ask, what is wrong with you?

At least I'm in this situation, and I'm doing it cold.

Also, you can listen more to **, which can relax your mind.

Let's look at the point. Actually, I'm also unlucky. Depressed.

This way of fighting is very childish, your heart is very fragile, so you will be afraid of retaliation, which means that you are not a bad child, I just want to tell you that no matter who beats you at school, or smokes, or forms a gang, it is very naïve, and I will feel very ashamed to think of this in the future, and the reason why no one pays attention to you, you know, is because no one thinks you are a student, thinks you are a gangster! You feel that the proud brother is actually the root cause of your trouble, and I hope you will cut off the relationship with them and be a student of your duty!

This kind of person may be emotionally fragile and lonely, and she is likely to see you as a spiritual sustenance when you promise to give her lectures and tutor her studies, hoping to get more attention and companionship. When she confesses and gets a response, she may cling to you even more and see you as an important person in her life.

Since your relationship is essentially one in which you help her study, she may not realize that her behavior is affecting your learning, or she may think that her behavior will make you feel good about her. Whatever the reason, though, her behavior has already bothered and stressed you.

It is advisable to communicate with her well, tell her how you feel about her, and at the same time make her understand that the relationship between your friends is essentially an academic relationship, not a romantic relationship. Hopefully, you will be able to continue your relationship as friends and thus resolve the problems between you.

The psychology is a little abnormal!!

Summary. If this kind of person is in his heart, he is unbalanced and jealous. Or will the comparison heart be stronger, what do people have, what does she want? All in all, it's villain psychology.

What is the psychology of such a person?

What kind of person is such a person? Please explain the analysis clearly.

Can't you see my problem? I can't find it now, and I don't know much about it.

I can't see your problem description.

You just told me about it, and I can answer it.

Tell me a little bit.

Then I'll post it again. I used to buy shoes for my parents and sister abroad and send them back, because they are very comfortable to wear, I sent them several times, but this made my aunt (my mother's sister) and her daughter see it, every time I send it back, they are looking for it on a treasure, and when they find a similar one, they say that I spend money indiscriminately in the country This shoe is a bargain, if you can't find the same style, they will tell my mother and my sister that this is a fake I bought on **! I won't let my sister wear it.

My aunt is not like this, she tried it and found it to be good, so she asked her son to buy it for her in the specialty store, and she didn't say anything like that. I can't laugh or cry! The shoes are from the United States, I bought them in a store in New York, I'm sick, run ** buy fake international courier for my parents and sisters to wear?!

But every time I send them back, that's it. I came back last year and met a few times now, and found that my aunt and her daughter were wearing Skechers (shoes), and I thought that if it was really bad, why would they buy it, and why would they slander me like that? What do they think?!

If this kind of person is in his heart, he is unbalanced and jealous. Or will the comparison heart be stronger, what do people have, what does she want? All in all, it's villain psychology.

Thank you, fortunately, my parents and sister ignored her mother's words, and now they still interfere with our family's life almost every day, and I also think, for the sake of my mother, because it is her sister after all, I will treat each other politely and stay away.

You are welcome. Respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but in fact, no matter what? It's good to be yourself, because if you think too much, you'll end up being the one who gets uncomfortable.

Clause.

1. Then there must be something going on that you don't know, it's useless for you to dwell on it yourself, and many questions have to be asked clearly.

Clause. Second, if the friendship between you is not because of such a small thing, then what are the happy, difficult, and all the things you have experienced before, and the relationship between friends lies in honesty, and there are questions to ask clearly, especially between friends, ** need to care about what embarrassing things are not embarrassing, if it is a good friend, what shameful things do you have he will not know. The point is whether you want to maintain your friendship or not.

Clause. 3. Sometimes friends meet each other, not necessarily because there is anything, sometimes they just want to meet and sit down, without saying a specific mode, sometimes there will be a topic when they go, and if they feel right, there will naturally be a show. Although he may not be able to tell you in advance what to do, but in fact, no matter whether you are a man or woman, sometimes you just want to find one, no matter when, as long as he or she is in need, needs you, needs you to accompany you, even if he or she encounters any problems that can't tell you, in fact, you just need to sit quietly, or say something casually to make him not so lonely.

Clause. Fourth, you can't know any particularly useful news just by just a few words, your friendship has to be maintained on your own, it's best to ask what happened between you, if you really can't ask, you can use QQ or send a text message, or help test it through the mouths of other friends. Could it be that you and him are good friends, and you are inexplicably separated and alienated because of such small things? That wouldn't be worth it.

People have troubles in life, rich people have troubles of rich people, poor people have troubles of poor people, healthy people have troubles of healthy people, without exception. If I can relieve the pain in a period of life, I can relieve and a pain, and the sweetness will naturally be enjoyable, and I will know what it means to cherish when I lose.

People live in the world, in fact, whether they are sad or happy, many times they are incomprehensible to others, however, people's situation often makes others' sadness or happiness obvious.

Be lenient with others, open up the future with a broad mind, create the future, natural selection, survival of the fittest. May the bright sunshine, youthful vitality, and comfortable smile always belong to you; May the best happiness in the world always belong to you!

I guess there was some misunderstanding between you. Of course, maybe not the two things you said.

What friends need is trust and understanding.

If you are friends, it is best to talk face to face, communication is the best communication, many problems, there is nothing to say, and no one will lose face.

If you don't want to look for A, you can look for B. It doesn't have to be two people who are estranged from you at the same time, maybe it's a coincidence? Unless they have a better relationship than yours or your approach does make them unhappy.

Also, be generous and proactive, after all, you don't want to lose your friendship. People invite you to play during the holidays, but you don't participate, so that others lose face, then you should take the initiative to give others a step. Otherwise, wouldn't people be embarrassed too?

You must know how to empathize with everything, if you take the initiative to wait for him to take the initiative to talk during the make-up class, it will not be such a result.

Never mind. None of this is a matter of principle. With an active one, things will definitely pass.

I hope you take the initiative once.

Psychologically, you are in a short-term depression, and the self-consciousness is too strong.

This should be related to the superficial suspicion caused by your recent study or life pressures.

In fact, your friend will not be angry and ignore you because you did not go out together, and from what you said about the situation, his invitation this time was also random, because he did not tell you the specific itinerary at all.

Getting along with your friends casually and naturally is more cherished and authentic.

Relax and divert your emotions, don't focus on a specific phenomenon, you can watch books, TV or movies that are not related to your studies to soothe your emotions, and then adjust your rest appropriately to reduce psychological pressure, don't care too much about what others think of you, so that you will naturally relax, and eventually you will find that your friends are still by your side.

Since it's a friend, they ignore you, you can take the initiative to talk to them, talk about exams, talk about some difficult homework, and the kind of things that are very popular and everyone is interested in...

If you recognize a friend, you have to take the initiative...

In fact, there may be many reasons for this situation you described: for example, he just found a friend with very similar interests and hobbies, he has been in a bad mood recently, he is a little tired, and his mood is relatively negative, etc., he may accidentally ignore his friend.

In fact, there is nothing to worry about, it's normal for friends to bump into each other, I think you're too sensitive If it's a couple who has this kind of idea of gaining and losing, forget it; But friends are too cautious, and you should be confident

It's not a big deal, but you can't hold it all the time, because then it's okay and it's a problem.

Hope it helps you too

Why do you think it's your friends who fade with you, not your friends?

I didn't go out on National Day, maybe it didn't cause any problems, but when I made up the class, there was no talk between the two, and you "felt" to fade, so you didn't wait for him after class; On Monday, he didn't tell you to hurry up and collect your things, and you left first; Afterwards, you didn't ask them why.

Do you think that friends should talk to you and get close to you first? Why can't you talk to him first and approach him first? Originally, it was very common to not be able to play with friends, and to greet and play when you meet, but because of the "feeling" in your heart, you don't talk to your friend in make-up class and don't wait for him to go together, maybe this makes your friend "feel" your light, and you don't communicate with each other, which can only be more and more distant in your heart.

As friends, if you have any doubts in your heart, you should explain them to your face, trust each other, and understand each other, instead of asking outsiders on the Internet as you do now!

Go find your friends. If you have to wait for a friend to talk to you first before you think it's not light, then I don't think you deserve a friend; If you go to find a friend, but the friend is alienated and you don't forgive you because you don't go to play with him, then he doesn't make friends like that!