Why some people never get the point of what you say

I don't think I can get the point of what you're talking about, and I think it's because his focus is very different.

Some people may just not hear your important points, so they may be different from their focus, and sometimes they are easily attracted by something they have experienced or they like.

There is also the fact that he may be deliberate, he may already know what the point of your speech is, but for various reasons such as jealousy, or that kind of grievance, he will deliberately avoid your focus and focus on other things.

So I think you have to analyze the specific aspect of this person, and you can't say that he may be a problem of comprehension, he sometimes does it on purpose.

Just like my boyfriend and I, it's tiring to get along with such a person, one possibility is that he really doesn't understand, and the other possibility is that he deliberately pretends not to understand and tries to get by.

A thousand readers, a thousand Hamlets, it's normal to get to the point.

For such a person, you just tell him the point. If you feel that you are tired, then replace them.

Xiao Yue has a question for everyone:

If you could only choose one study skill, which one would you choose? ”

For example: photography, English, programming, swimming, driving, rollerblading, financial management, dancing, etc.

If it were me, I would choose - precise expression.

Because people usually define you in their eyes by what you say.

As Luo Zhenyu mentioned in "Wonderful Sayings": In the workplace, or in contemporary society, the most important ability is the ability to express.

"I can't get your point" means that you don't really understand what others are saying, and your real intention is not understood, so you can't reach his point.

get英 [ɡet] 美 [ɡet].

v.Roger that; Receive; Obtain; Get; (Selling something) earned.

Example sentence: i don't know if i can get it clean

I don't know if I'll be able to clean it up.

Can't get my point. It means that you don't really understand what else you say, you don't understand the real intention, that is, you don't reach the point of others.

"get" here usually means comprehension, understanding, understanding, and "point" here can refer to laughter, or it can indicate what the other party wants to express and the point that the other party wants to say. "Can't get my point" means that the two are not on the same channel, don't know or understand what you are trying to express, and don't understand your jokes.

The get point is the core point, key point, key point, and main point of the other party's speech.

Others say you: can't get my points. It means that you don't really understand the other words, and you don't understand the real intentions.

That is, you are not up to his or her point.

Pidgin gang suspect, hehe.

When someone is talking, it is very likely that you feel his point, because the two of you are very different, so you can't understand it.

When we talk to someone else, we must be attentive. In this way, you will be able to understand the main points that people are talking about. If you don't listen to what people have to say, then two people can't talk together, and of course no one wants to talk to you.

In this case, when you feel that others are talking to you, you can't feel the end of others' speech, mainly because of your lack of self-confidence, and you are often panicked in front of others, why can't you grasp the key points of others.

Relationship into the flat period is a phenomenon that any intimate relationship will face, and the flat period is the key to determining whether two people can be together for a long time.

That situation is a relatively normal thing, indicating that the comprehension ability may be poorer, but in the future, as you interact with people more, it will naturally improve, and you will be able to grasp the key points.

If you don't talk, you won't talk, what's the point of a sentence? You just don't pay attention to what people say!

Then maybe you and him may just say that two people have three views or have different ideas at all, and you don't have to force it, it's good to have more experience slowly.

I think it may be that you didn't listen carefully to the other person, but as long as you listened carefully, it shouldn't be like this.

This is that your emotional intelligence is relatively low, and you can't grasp the point when you speak now, and you can't grasp the point when you are obedient, because you don't understand the psychology of others at all, and you can read more books on this aspect.

After marriage, for the sake of the family, women often choose to give up their favorite jobs and devote themselves to their feelings.

It is recommended that you pay more attention to what people say when you speak? , listen clearly before answering, avoid saying the wrong thing, embarrassing people, embarrassing yourself, and improve your speaking level.

I think this kind of thing can slowly cultivate experience, there is no way to solve it at a moment, you have to read more books, knowledge changes fate, and slowly you can talk to people.

Then you can talk to people face-to-face, or talk to your parents, and see what they say.

When I speak, I don't always feel the point of what people are saying. Causing others not to like to talk to you. That's because you didn't pay attention to listening and experiencing it.

How can you not hear what someone else is saying? The main problem of speaking should be reflected in the words. You don't have to listen to it, you don't want to experience it, so people don't want to talk to you.

Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, we have our own loved ones, there are people we love, and there are people who love us, so we should cherish the people in front of us for the sake of those who care about us.

It means that you have no fate with this person, so when he talks to you, you always can't find the point, so that others can't talk to you.

I think it's probably because this person is not on the same channel as you, each of us will have some misunderstandings, and everyone's expression is different, so you don't need everyone, you can understand your point of view.

When people talk to me, I always can't get people to speak, you and I don't stop when we talk, and people don't listen to it clearly, maybe people are in a bad mood and don't want to listen, so people don't want to listen to your speech, don't say it, and be willing to get people in trouble.

It has something to do with people's temper, you can't get the focus of others, maybe this thing is a bit too twisted, and ordinary people can't understand it.

This is the limitation of your thinking, I think you should open your heart and not close yourself off as a human being.

As long as you express what you want to express the most, it is enough to surpass him with slow practice.

What kind of experience is it for a girl to never get your point, it's like playing the piano to a cow. She never understands what you're talking about. She doesn't understand what you like. I feel so tired.

I feel like it's a very speechless thing that your girlfriend will never get your point. Because I feel that the worldview and outlook on life values of two people may have changed, and I feel that the common language of two people is becoming less and less, which may affect the feelings between each other, this kind of thing is very maddening. However, if you meet someone with a big heart, you may think that it is a way to strengthen your relationship with each other.

If my girlfriend never understands my point, then I will feel very helpless, but I will also be very happy, because such girlfriends are generally very cute, and then although there is a little helplessness, it is also acceptable.

What kind of experience is it for a girl to never get your point, I think a guy will say that she will never understand what you are talking about, she doesn't understand what you like, but only girls understand, it's that you are not patient enough with feelings, and you don't like me enough.

I feel like it's a very bad experience for a girlfriend to never get your points. Because I think that if two people have different laughs, there is no way to be friends, and if they can't be identical, then it is difficult to get along peacefully, and there will always be some contradictions.

If your girlfriend never gets your point, then it will be a very speechless experience, because you have said it many times, and she still doesn't understand what you mean, and if she doesn't understand you, she will feel speechless.

I think it's a very bad experience if your girlfriend never gets your points. Because your worldview, outlook on life, and values don't match at all, I think it's better to break up as soon as possible.

It's a very sad experience that your girlfriend never gets to me, because your girlfriend doesn't understand, and if you don't understand you, you feel very angry sometimes, and it's a very frustrating experience.

I think it's a very painful experience for this girlfriend not to appreciate my good qualities, because if she doesn't appreciate me, it proves that he doesn't like me at all.

That should be very uncomfortable, two people will have no common language when they are together, which will also make the relationship between two people worse.

The meaning of not getting your point: It means that the other party has no tacit understanding with you at all, and you don't know what you want to say.

It can also be said that the two are not on the same channel, and they don't know or understand what you are trying to express, and they don't understand your jokes.

The word first appeared in 2014, and the common usages are "can't get xx's handsome", "can't get xx's beauty", "can't get xx's cuteness", which means that you don't think so-and-so is handsome, beautiful, and cute.

get [get]

v.Obtain; Harvest; Become; Arrive; Become; Become.

What you said seems to be very reasonable, we have always looked at it from our own point of view, and then I think that boys are so wooden, obviously they all say it so clearly, or they still don't understand what we want to express, but I never thought about it, knowing that boys can't get this point, why can't girls say it more clearly, express it clearly, really, everything has to be empathetic.

Girls are naturally more durable than boys, and sometimes boys are done with things, and girls are just starting to feel (which is a fact). Therefore, if you want to make your "function" lasting and powerful, it is best to find scientific exercise methods on the Internet, and generally as long as you insist on exercising, you will have a certain improvement. Personal opinion, a bit verbose.

Hope it helps.

Either this girl has too high IQ, the jokes she tells are too cold, and the connotations are too rich, and you really can't understand it; Either the jokes the girl told were not funny at all, and there was nothing to laugh about. But this is not important, the important thing is that your IQ and EQ are too low, and the low IQ can be made up for by learning, strengthening knowledge reserves, enriching experience, and the subtleties of some jokes can be understood naturally. Low EQ is not very good**, but if you can't get the fun of women's jokes, you can always know that the other party is telling a joke, so just laugh with it.