My family is relatively poor, but is it appropriate for the woman to get engaged to me for four free

It depends on your customs. There is also the 4-5w gift money that the landlord said is given to the other party, so is the other party a dowry thing? If you don't marry, in other words, it's selling.

It's okay if you dowry. It also saves money on furniture and electrical appliances. Anyway, the local customs are different, like we are divided into two kinds, one is to give money, but just to an auspicious number, such as 666 888 999 or 8888 to not much, is to take an auspicious form, the other is for example, the woman's parents want a few w, for example, for example, to 10w, well, the 10w to the woman's parents, but their family must marry more than 10w things, if both sides live well, it is to take 10w to marry 13-15w of the car.

Generally, even if the woman asks for eighteen thousand, she will marry a motorcycle at that time. It's better to talk to the landlord in person. It means that the 4-5w bread given does not include the woman's dowry.

If not, please consider the landlord, after all, it is your own business. It's someone who has lived with you for the rest of your life. If you really like to think that she is the person to live with you for the rest of your life, don't talk about money.

Let's think for myself. Finally, I wish the landlord to become a family member.

Personally, I don't think it's very suitable, if you want the woman to get married, you can give a little more, but how much to give depends on your actual situation, and it's better to discuss it with your wife.

It's up to you. If you can pay and love her, you can pay it. After all, people have been raising their daughters for so long. If you can't, don't force it, especially don't burden your parents.

You can talk to your girlfriend about going downstairs.

In fact, you can't pay you back with the right or not, thinking that the bride price is not a legal requirement in the first place, and it is not protected by the law!

However, in our rural areas, you can't take this bride price!

So, if you really can't get it! You can go to your future parents-in-law! Sit down and talk to them!

I'm sure if they really knew how much you love their daughter! I won't be too embarrassed for you! ~

You promise them that you will work hard in the future! Honor their two elders well! Love this big family well!

I wish you lovers to be married!!

It's not suitable, marry your daughter or sell your daughter! Brothers are not afraid of the end of the world, where there is no grass!

Square peg. Don't get engaged anymore.

It doesn't matter, it's suitable or not, it may be a custom, you can discuss it twice, it can not only reflect the custom, but also reach the level of acceptance by you.

Your family is poor, but your ambition is not poor. You can work hard, and then give the woman a gift of 40,000 yuan. Her family may be looking at your sincerity. Try to raise her daughter no.

The gift money still has to be given, you have to give the woman some face, then give it, the daughter is yours, and it should be returned to you in the end.

As long as the wife thinks it is suitable, it is suitable, and there is also the premise that the wife is willing to repay the money together

You don't think it's appropriate, but the woman's family thinks it's still less, and her position is different.

I don't think it's a good idea. Doesn't anything but money show that you love someone?

If she likes you, she won't ask for your money. The blind date is another story.。。

Did she bring it back when she got married??? If you bring it back, you can barely 、、、 if you don't bring it、If you love her very much、、、 then I don't know what to do。

Do you want to see your girlfriend worth? It's worth it, and you have to marry if you smash the pot and sell iron.

Oh, you said, although I don't know much about the customs of the countryside, but for sure, after all, people have raised their daughters for so many years, and suddenly left, and they won't be yours after the meal.

We don't have to worry about money when we marry a daughter-in-law, it's up to my buddies!! You can do it without spending money.

This question is very tangled, so it depends on whether she has been with someone or money?

That's up to your mother-in-law

The standards are different in each place, and the differences between urban and rural areas are also relatively large in each place, and the amount of engagement money can be matched according to local customs. So if it is a gift of 10,000 to the woman, will it be too little? Let's take a look at the answer to the wedding chronicle.

1. Is it too little to give the woman 10,001 gifts for the engagement?

The gift of 10,000 yuan for the engagement to the woman will not be too small.

In the meaning of the gift, 10,000 represents the meaning of one in a million, representing the man's family's affirmation of the woman. It is worth noting that this gift money to the woman should be distinguished from the bride price, if it is a bride price, it is indeed too little, and the woman's family is also easy to have a grudge against the man's family.

In addition to giving 10,000 for the engagement fee, you can also choose the following amounts according to the family's economic conditions:

Yuan. It symbolizes that the married life of the newlyweds can be harmonious and beautiful, peaceful.

Yuan. 5 represents the meaning of the palm, and the 1 represents the new shirt and limb girl who is about to get married, so together 50001 means that the bride is the pearl of the woman's family, which is extremely precious.

Yuan. The engagement gold of 150,000 yuan has the meaning of thousands of purples and thousands of reds, symbolizing the festive atmosphere of engagement and marriage, and can get a lot of good luck for the newlyweds in their married life.

The engagement money to give 10,000 bride price to give less than 10,000 depends on your own file, I think the engagement money and the money of the bride price should be separated, don't put together, the bride price according to the line of the forest to take the bride price money.

This is not a marriage, this is a marriage!

You negotiate through your girlfriend, otherwise it will be a lifetime ...... in your small family in the future

It's not getting married, it's like buying a girl.

1 Engagement has no legal effect, so borrowing money can not be withdrawn from the marriage, this kind of agreement, written in vain, don't say engagement, that is, marriage, the man can also divorce, it is really meaningless.

2. If there is an IOU, the man can be legally required to repay the money.

3. Friendly reminder: Article 10 of Interpretation 2 of the Marriage Law stipulates three situations for the return of the bride price, the first is that the marriage has not been registered, so the man's family really makes a fuss about the divorce and asks for the return of the bride price, and if the man understands the law, he can ask for a full refund of 50,000 yuan.

Regardless of the name in which the money is given, it is essentially a bride price, unless there is an express gift agreement.

Reference: Judicial Interpretation II of the Marriage Law.

Article 10: Where parties request the return of bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

On our side, if it is the man who withdraws from the marriage, he cannot ask for the deposit back; If the woman withdraws from the marriage, the deposit will be refunded. I don't know what the customs are like over there.

If you don't get it, you can ask for it back.