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The immature flower of love that bloomed in high school If there is no careful care in the future.
It can only become a rose in your memory.
College is a watershed moment Think about it, is your life very different from your high school days? You have a more wonderful campus life, your party classes, your activities, new friends, classmates, so many new wonderful things waiting for you to experience. So why isn't he?
It's just that these wonderfuls are not shared by him and you, but by your own and cannot be integrated.
I don't go to college in the same city, I don't know what to say to you, what to say, can you understand it, or can you understand it? How much do you know about him?
There is really no need to mention all the things in the past. The ignorance of youth and frivolity cannot be regarded as a long-term love, and if you can, it is also the result of your careful maintenance.
said hurtful points, from your tone, I really can't see that you are defending, I just feel wronged, such a beautiful life, why, he doesn't let me enjoy it, and he still makes trouble for me? Even if he said to break up, you didn't feel that there was a problem between you, but you just felt that it was all his fault and that he didn't understand you. So there's no need to blame why, he always says you don't care about him.
In fact, you really don't give much of your energy to him.
What is love? Even if it is not the morning and twilight guard, it is also the care of the cold and warmth, and when others can't understand, you can understand each other, and when you need help from each other, you will pay without hesitation.
Whether it is love between you or not, you can only ask yourself, in your heart, which is more important.
If you still love him, talk to him patiently and untie the knot in your hearts.
If you don't love him, then let him live, and don't let another person suffer with you because you are afraid of loneliness.
Long-distance relationships are difficult, and if you want your love to continue to blossom and bear fruit, you must know how to give. As for how to give, no one can tell you, because in this world, it is you who knows the relationship between the two of you best, and only you can find the sentence he wants to say most in his heart and open all the puzzles.
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It sounds like you don't care about him yourself, thus causing a diaphragm.
Since you don't think he's important, relax. He proposes to break up and you don't know what to do, but you feel a little shameless. If you let you break up by yourself, maybe you will feel much better in your own heart, but in other words, it will become him psychologically uncomfortable, and the person who doesn't know what to do will be him.
It's all the same, you don't come together much, just let it go. It's the same for whoever breaks up.
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You're still young, so you don't know how to cherish your boyfriend's love for you, and he wants you to care for him. You like to participate in activities, if it is necessary then you tell him that you must go, otherwise you will hang, if it is not a very important activity, you have to try to learn to give up and make time for your boyfriend. Don't be so uncherished, in the future you will find it more and more difficult to find a boy who sticks to you every day, as you get older, it must be that the woman is more and more sticky to the man, but the man is becoming more and more independent and mature.
Then you will feel how hard it is to trap a man you love.
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There is no love in the world At least I don't believe it I feel like two people can get along with each other We live in an environment where there are many people with character defects, people are dependent Try to make other friends You don't try How do you know that your current boyfriend is not suitable for you Men are very jealous I have a friend Many people go to sing together I am single, and the others are one-on-one, and the friend's wife and I sat together at the beginning of his eyes were not right Later, he directly said to let his wife sit over and sit with him In fact, we are just talking Nothing, you can see how strong the jealousy is, if you are beautiful and temperamental, put you in another city I don't worry, I don't worry about it for a long time, I will think too much (I don't), I will be irritable and suspicious, and then remember that when you were together, you blamed his shortcomings, he was not confident, he would think that there was a better person than him around you, or there was a better person than him who was chasing you, and you would agree (this is just his cranky, It doesn't represent your behavior) That's how it has been, and now it's like this, there's another possibility, to reverse what I've said above, and I hope it helps you, thank you.
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Do you know? I was with my girlfriend in my senior year of high school.
I cling to her every day, and she always ignores me and says I'm annoying.
I don't understand, I gave up my brother because I was afraid that my girlfriend would be lonely, and if my lovers are not together, can I still be called lovers?
Later, I talked to many people, many brothers, and discussed for a long time, and came to a conclusion: men can't be too clingy to women, and women shouldn't ignore men all the time! (O Truth!) )
Really, when my girlfriend ignored me and played with her friend, it really didn't feel like it in my heart. I'm not afraid you know, I'm a man and I've secretly cried a few times! I even wonder if she loves me or not, and it's really uncomfortable if I don't make it clear.
Later, I was slowly persuaded by my friends, and she changed a lot, and she didn't ignore me like before. It's a good feeling to find a balance!
I think you really lack communication, he may wonder if you love him or not (maybe for a long time), and you don't show that you love him, so the two are getting farther and farther apart.
Alas, I suggest that you do something that you really think about yourself and can move him. Communicate with him well, ask him what love he wants, and ask his brother to persuade him.
It may be redeemed, but if you don't feel like it's necessary or he's really dead, there's no way around it.
It's okay to care more about it, and it's okay to have a **!
If you love him, I hope you can start anew and love him anew.
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It is often said that women are insecure, but in fact men are also insecure, they just don't show it – because society demands too much from men. In fact, men are children who need attention no matter when they arrive, so I think you should pay attention to him and care about him. Hehe, you still love each other!
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Explain to him and swear that it will not be like this again, if he agrees, it means that he still loves you, if you don't accept it, offer to be an ordinary friend, and then develop the result later, if not, you can only forget it.
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Hehe, you have to understand each other too! Love has an expiration date, and if you want to keep it fresh, you should pay more attention to it! At first, both parties felt hazy and fresh, wanting to know more about each other, but time can dilute everything.
It's been a long time, and I'm a little tired of it! You said that you were playful probably because you didn't know much about the concept of love at that time, and you didn't know what to think, just like looking at flowers in a fog. You calm down and think about whether you have had a good time in the past few years, he proposed to break up, and you can't say how uncomfortable it is!
After thinking about it, take the time to find a quiet place for a real heart-to-heart conversation. Don't let go and ask him what he thinks of you right now! Next, slowly change the word!
The road of love is long, and it is the mutual care, understanding, and ...... to face difficulties together, a lot of slowly appreciate it! Hope you get your wish!
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Dear friends, I can only say that you have not grown up yet, and it will take time and experience to prove that you are suitable. At present, there is a problem because you still have less communication, if you really care about each other, take the initiative to communicate and express your thoughts to each other. If it still doesn't work, think calmly.
is not suitable for each other.
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Love is a matter of two people. As a guy, I can understand why your ex-boyfriend behaved like that. At first, he must have feelings for you, but after a long time, he finds that you don't feel the same way about him, at least your attitude makes him feel that you are different from what he imagined and expected.
So it's inevitable to be disappointed. After going to college, the distance is there, and the original feeling is even lighter, and it may be ,......Or maybe he's given up.
I used to be ...... too
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Love is a type of greed. Covetousness for the opposite sex. With the growth of age, changes in social status and economic status will lead to --- change of mind, which is usually the so-called change of mind.
In fact, we have learned the laws of movement, and it is impossible to make love forever or to make a love perpetual motion machine. If you change a lot, I believe you will break up with him. This is the general mentality of the laity.
But that's not the case with marriage. If the marriage comes and goes, no one can stand it. Therefore, marriage is an agreement to be kept for a lifetime.
At the moment you are still young and should finish your studies. It's good to be sad about emotional things.
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In the final analysis, it depends on whether you can accept each other's shortcomings and understand each other when you get along, if not, then there is only one result, but you can't say nothing, you have to try to let the other party understand you, so that it can last for a long time.
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Start a new love, when you were in high school, you didn't know anything about love! Those are just your impressions of good feelings, good friends, playmates! Not to mention the responsibility!
At that time, you didn't have the capital to talk about love! Because love is a very realistic thing! After college, you will be assigned a job, and this is a big turning point in your life!
I went to a new job, a new city, a new colleague, a new environment, a new face at work, in life, at home and even more in life! People who have no long-term worries must have near-term worries! If he really loves you, he will come to you desperately and give up whatever he is not willing to give up, but he can't!
So that's not real love! How much do you know about him? Maybe now he doesn't have any other girlfriends!
Love is not sympathy! See if he's the one you really need! You might as well be separated from him for three months!
You can start a new emotion to feel it! If you feel that the beginning of the new is the worst experience of your life! Congratulations!
A happier life begins! If you feel like you can't forget the happy days with him during these three months! Then I suggest you can try to get in touch with him!
Because you're already in love with him! The above is your advice to my little sister! You have to judge according to your actual situation!
Wishing you eternal happiness!
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Love is when two lonely and liking people are together, loving each other. Once one of them doesn't love, love doesn't exist, there is no so-called love, the twisted melon is not sweet, it is good to gather and disperse, one party has proposed, and there is no turning back!
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It's not that you want to break up, just break up! Youth loss fee, you have to get it first!
That woman is cheap enough, she disturbs your life, even if you are friends, you can't be out of proportion, she is interfering with you. Your husband is also cheap, why does he not understand your mood so much, even if he and his ex-girlfriend are innocent, but you have to take into account your feelings, how can one side live as one side wants.
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