What are the manifestations of cowardly men, and the causes of cowardly boys

1. Cowardly men will not be assertive.

Not being assertive is the first manifestation of cowardice, for example, in the process of getting along with the two, a man can't stand up and resist anything when he encounters anything, and even let his girlfriend stand out for anything. This kind of weakness in life will eventually make your girlfriend have a frustrated attitude towards her, and eventually lose her adoring love.

Second, cowardly men will often complain.

Cowardly men are afraid to speak out in the face of arguments, but when they return home, they often start complaining endlessly, complaining about their environment, and complaining about the injustice of society as a whole.

For example, when he was fined for not obeying traffic rules, he didn't know how to reflect but would scold the corruption of law enforcement officers and the darkness of society behind his back; After the relationship is frustrated, if you can't learn a lesson, you will only scold women for ignoring the concept of chastity, and people's hearts are not ancient, etc.

3. Cowardly men will not learn and have no skills.

Some manifestations of men's cowardice are also obvious at work, they don't learn and don't have skills, they don't work hard to study their professional knowledge, and they don't have any enthusiasm in their careers. Such men often have no confidence in themselves, doubt that they feel that they are not good, and have a slight inferiority complex.

Fourth, cowardly men are more selfish and petty.

Cowardly men are also very "stingy" in spending money, just like many girls complain, when they go on a blind date, their boyfriend actually takes them to eat street food. This is really ungraceful, or it is a kind of risk that does not dare to make venture capital. The cowardice of such a man lies in the fact that he does not know how to judge in front of interests, and he loses big because of small things.

Men with these performances are really cowardly, and it is difficult to succeed in anything.

Men with weak personalities do lack masculinity, and even make women feel insecure. A really cowardly man always hides himself when he encounters something and never shows the courage of a man.

Be content with the status quo: Weak people will sneer and scoff at others when they see others' efforts, while they themselves are ignorant and content with the status quo and stop moving.

Without his own opinions, what others say is what he says, follow the trend, see what others do, and follow him to do it, but in the end he doesn't achieve anything, and he becomes self-defeating and complaining. Started throwing tantrums.

Afraid of performance, always looking for a safe haven: weak people are always reluctant to show their strengths, always hiding, hoping that others will find out for themselves.

(1) Produced by self-consciousness and sensitivity"Catatia"、"Phobias"For example, when a middle school student comes into contact with someone of the opposite sex, he or she is overly aware that the other person is of the opposite sex, resulting in excessive emotional tension and an embarrassing situation.

2) Family background: This is often the main factor that causes introverted personality. Parents are often indifferent and believe that in order for their children to be highly obedient, parents must keep a certain distance from their children. One patient said

When I was a child, my parents never encouraged me to be curious, they either scoffed at my questions or told me to be nosy and do my part. "Parents do not encourage their children to make friends or participate in any after-school activities, which they believe will make them better"Distraction", they lose interest in normal learning, so before stepping into society, teenagers' life circles are limited to school and home. Growing up in an environment where communication is lacking, the child is ignorant of general social skills, and when he first enters the society, he inadvertently offends some people, and these people's antipathy towards the patient makes him dare not try to communicate with others again, and at the same time completely withdraw from his own personal world.

3) Personality, which is related to experience, is formed in the practice of human life and the interaction between people and their environment. The living environment of people, specifically speaking, is people's family, school, work, etc., and the process of the development of the relationship between people and the environment is experience, and experience is also the condition for the formation of character.

Cowardly words can be understood in disguise as introversion that may arise due to self-awareness sensitivity towards people"Catatia"、"Phobias"When some people come into contact with the opposite sex when they are reading, they are too strongly aware that the other party is the opposite sex, resulting in excessive emotional tension and falling into an embarrassing situation. There is also a family background, and the environment in which I have lived since I was a child will cause this aspect. When you grow up, it's often the most important time, and it's just the time when your personality is formed, you have to try to get in touch with people, learn more communication skills, and shake off your psychological fears and psychological shadows

The cause of cowardice is generally caused by the influence of family genes and acquired environmental conditions, and if you want to change the status quo, you must start with self-confidence.

It is generally caused by family factors, and the mother or father is more cowardly in the family since childhood.

Caused by the nature of personality and family factors.

Not assertive. Why is it said that lack of assertiveness is a sign of a man's "weakness and incompetence"? There are two main reasons, one is that if a man is weak, then in the process of getting along with the two people, if he encounters something, he can't take charge of it alone, and he will even be willing to let his girlfriend stand up for him, and he won't dare to go up by himself; Another reason is that you can't make a decision, even if you go out to eat and book a restaurant, you can't do it well, either you are worried that you won't do it well, or you don't know what to order.

You say that a man who has no opinion is a sign of weakness and incompetence. The former is weak, the latter is incompetent. Of course, it is not necessary to be tough in love, at least to stick to the bottom line, to be able to hold on to the family at a critical time, and not to let the other half be hurt.

Complain often. What is complaining, that is, not daring to say it out loud but whispering it behind your back, often the object of complaining is the person close to you. Each of us has complained, but complaints are also different.

The first is that if a man complains to you occasionally, it means that he is just talking, and if he often complains to you, it means that he is weak and incompetent. Second, if you do something wrong and are punished but don't admit it, for example, if you break the rules and are punished, you complain about the rules and don't face up to your own problems, which is one of the manifestations of weakness and incompetence. The third is that you have been wronged outside, dare not speak up, and when you return home, you will be powerful and complain to you, such people are not only weak and incompetent, but also do not face up to their own problems.

Sullen and depressed. In love, do you prefer men who like to be positive and sunny? But not all of them are positive, and some people may be depressed all day long, as if nothing can excite him.

The formation of such a character is often caused by weakness, because of weakness, dare not resist, be suppressed externally for a long time, and over time will put yourself in a closed state. After a long time, I naturally can't be happy, and if it's serious, I may have autistic tendencies. If you meet such a man in love, of course, you can fall in love with such a man, which means that you know this problem, but at this time, you should pay attention to this problem, prevent him from coming to a dead end, and give him psychological counseling.

Often fantasizes about getting something for nothing. A man in love, if he is often lazy and lazy, is not willing to put in the effort to get what he wants, but often fantasizes there, hoping to get something for nothing. This is actually a sign of weakness, because he doesn't dare and doesn't know how to get what he wants, he has always fantasized about having all this, but he doesn't dare to take the step of action.

On the contrary, this is not the case with strong men, in their eyes, if they want something, they first think about what they should do to get it, and then they start to act on it. They will do their best for what they want to get, and they will never fantasize about getting something for nothing, because what they don't get for nothing is not a peace of mind that they have earned through their own hard work.

Men with these performances are really cowardly, and it is difficult to succeed in anything.

1. Cowardly men will not be assertive.

Not being assertive is the first manifestation of cowardice, for example, in the process of getting along with the two, the defeated man can't stand up and resist anything when he encounters anything, and even let his girlfriend stand out for anything. This kind of weak person in life will eventually make his girlfriend have a frustrated attitude towards him, and eventually lose his girlfriend's adoration and love.

Second, cowardly men will often complain.

Cowardly men don't dare to stand up and reason out loud in the face of arguments, but when they get home, they often start complaining endlessly, complaining about their environment, complaining about the injustice that the whole society will guess about them.

It doesn't have to be cowardly! There is a loss of energy out of love.

Men are sexually cowardly.

The purpose of men is to conquer the world, and the purpose of women is to conquer men. The target lead god is different, and the result is naturally different.

This is not to say that a man does not have the ability to conquer women, but this is not his goal, and conquering the world is far more difficult than conquering women, one of which must be family stability, or no family, once there is a family, men are complete losers, it is difficult to imagine that the male protagonist of a family who has caused a disaster will have anything to do in his career. So it's not that the male protagonist has to please the female protagonist, but the product of compromise under the goal of conquering the world, which has nothing to do with character and love. Those men who conquer the heroine properly are either too far behind the heroine, or they don't have much of a career, that's all.