Likes to imitate other people s patterns, is that good?

You say you have self-confidence, but it's not, it's because of the self-confidence that you find in the process of imitating other people, and you don't have it, and I think if you do something that you've never done, and you don't see something that you've never done, that is, when you don't have someone to imitate, your lack of self-confidence will show itself, and you may still be a person who lacks assertiveness, and of course you're smart and know how to imitate.

Human nature, id, ego, superego.

The essence of human beings is the basic common denominator of human beings, and in the simplest way to describe it, it is the pursuit of happiness.

The self is influenced by certain environmental changes, and this forms the outlook on life and values.

The superego is the restraint of some of its own natures, the behavior that manifests itself in morality, and the behavior that manifests itself is the superego.

Maybe you think that I am answering the wrong question, your values are the self, and it is obvious that there is a principle of coincidence, and this principle of overlap is the affirmation of others and the denial of yourself, and it should be said that you are not a mature person! Other others are not good at helping you, and I am not good at saying it, you have thought about it yourself, I suggest you watch "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", listen to the lyrics that you can hear clearly**, or light**, less noisy, you will be able to experience it slowly.

I think people who are used to imitating others are very smart.

And you're imitating the most prominent strengths of others.

It is good to absorb the strengths of others and supplement your own shortcomings.

Just don't forget what your original self was like.

In the final analysis, people have to be themselves.

Don't fall into the shadow of others and forget yourself.

Imitate the strengths of others and correct your own shortcomings. It's a good thing!

It's not a good thing to imitate someone else's shortcomings.

Everyone has different perspectives and behaviors, it's just that we lack discovery. Imitation is the pursuit of perfection, and imitation at the level of the external environment, although superficial, can also affect the development of inner potential in the long run.

I feel more meaningful to live in my own way! Imitate the good in others and make yourself more perfect! It's a good thing too!

Haha, this is very interesting, the reason why you imitate others may be that you don't think you don't, what you lack, in fact, life is very colorful, the same people, even if twins have different living environments, there are different situations, I think it's good to be an actor, you can experience different lives, I feel like I'm living several lifetimes longer than others, but what actors have to bear is something that we can't imagine most people, she looks very atmospheric on the outside, a strong woman, and there is sadness behind it, the same thing, different people have different results, No matter what the outcome, as long as you feel happy, everything depends on you, you are your own master, not a little girl who relies on her parents.

I don't think imitation is a bad thing, the ancients said: threesomes, there must be my teacher. In other words, the advantages of others can be learned, whether it is his life or temperament.

So you don't have to worry about it, just imagine that maybe some of the good things you have are also being learned by others.

So, you have to be confident.

Some people say that imitating others in this way means that we are losing ourselves more and more?

On the contrary, the purpose of imitating others is to discover the strengths and resources of the other party and form their own strengths and resources, because everyone has enough rich resources to use, but we lack to discover. Imitation is a journey of self-discovery and the development of more possibilities within oneself. Imitation of the external environment, although superficial, can also affect the development of inner potential in the long run.

1.Imitation is right as learning, and it is good to suit yourself. Idols are best watched as friends.

2.You can't lose your preferences, that's who you are. When you see a brooch that you like, buy it and bring it, and you don't have to think about whether others like it or not, because that's who you are.

3.It is a joy to be able to see the gap with others, and there is an opportunity to improve themselves, and young people should learn more hemp.

I'm also a girl, sometimes I envy other people's strengths, and I want to imitate them, but then I still find out that I'm actually the best, I like to be cold, and I'm so unapproachable in the eyes of others, but I still like me like this.

You are a smart person, a person who really understands the truth of learning.

American behavioral scientists believe that when a person falls in love, there will be a desire to learn the advantages of the other party's "homology phenomenon", the stronger the affection for liking, the stronger the desire to be similar, so many people who love each other, eating habits, hobbies and orientations will tend to be similar.

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A person imitates you can only show that this person is full of affection for you, and only when you like each other extremely will you imitate each other, and we need to cherish such a person, so that we can harvest a happy life.

When you like someone, you will always want to have a lot of similarities with him, as if doing so will bring you closer to each other.

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In fact, imitation caused by liking is very common in life, not only humans will deliberately or inadvertently imitate the person they like, but animals will also imitate the opposite sex to express their favor to each other and win the favor of the other party.

Because this kind of micro-behavior is so common in the biological world, some anthropologists have named this interesting behavior "homophilic neurobehavior".

On a date, especially at a meal, if you find you taking a bite of something, he follows it, you look out the window, he looks out the window. You take a sip of soda and he takes a sip of soda, which is likely a sign that he is going to confess to you.

In fact, this behavior is not difficult to understand, when he imitates your words and deeds. You will subconsciously think of yourself as you, as if then it will be easier for you to find common ground between you, and it will be easier for you to have that familiar intimacy with him.

With intimacy, then you will let go of some superfluous defenses or save some cumbersome understanding process with him, and feel that you are very similar, after all, it is easier for two similar people to be together.

In fact, it's not just people who are about to confess or have a crush on you who will imitate your actions, consciously or unconsciously, even people who have become a couple will always imitate each other's thoughts or actions.

This is the case when two people are together, and when two people are not together, one of them may recall the scene when they were together and keep imitating it, and will smile knowingly.

A good example of this is a couple's outfit, where two people walk through the crowd wearing similar or identical outfits, as if this can bridge the gap between the hearts of two people and make people feel more intimate.

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Some people always learn from others and imitate them in life.

People with this kind of behavior generally have the following kinds of psychology:

Appreciating others: They should learn from people they admire or admire, and make themselves look better by imitating them. For example, fans always look at the dress of their idols, come to the same style as a star, and pay special attention to the peripherals of idols.

Lack of self-confidence: When we are not confident, we don't know if what we are doing is right, and we are always worried about what others will say about our words and deeds. Therefore, herd psychology and imitation can reduce the distress caused by this psychology to a certain extent.

Whether it is appreciating others or not being confident enough, if a person always learns from others and imitates others, from a psychoanalytic point of view, it is because he did not establish a close connection with his parents in his early years, did not develop a stable true self, and when he grows up, he is always seeking recognition from the outside world, always meeting the requirements of others for himself, and ignoring his own real inner needs.

There is no problem with imitation, we all make ourselves better on the basis of imitation, but don't lose yourself in the process of imitation, after all, each self is unique and worthy of love.

Well, it means that you are very good, because no one will kick a dead dog, and generally being imitated means that you have become the person that others want to be. You may be afraid that others will overtake you. So you have to be more professional than them. Talent has always been imitated and never surpassed.

It's Christmas Eve.

I'll send you a beautiful apple, hope!

I think you should be a girl with a lot of personality, that's why so many people imitate you, and you should be very proud because you are unique!

I have also felt the same way, I think you should not care too much about other people's opinions, as long as you feel that you are happy, there is no need to care about other people's eyes, the most important thing is to be yourself!

One is to follow the trend, of course, some are good and some are bad. Most people do this because they want to fit in with everyone and not be abandoned.

There is also making fun of others, basing one's own happiness on the pain of others. Generally, the people who play this kind of trick are children in early childhood, so they don't have to care.

The above is a general summary, you can think about it divergently, and in the end it is because of these two reasons.

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