Could it be that the essence of society is to deceive, that is, to pretend?

Look at the children, do we often tease them when we have nothing to do, (a little bully), the children don't understand anything, they think it's to play again, it won't be good. What about our peers? Sometimes a small joke can erupt into conflict, and in order to avoid this kind of thing that happens too often, most people learn the so-called "pretending"!

I don't think this is an essence, just a means, a means to protect yourself and others, between strangers or people who are new to each other, often because they don't understand each other and because of one or two sentences to cause conflicts, therefore, "pretending" is also a kind of inevitability. How can pure feelings not be there? A lot of times it's two-sided, it's not so much that you don't think it doesn't exist, it's better that you don't believe in such a thing, or that you are too suspicious, many things, it's good to see the surface, there's no need to dig deeper, Guo Jing is stupid, but he's cuter like that, and it's easier to get the trust of others, isn't it?

Perhaps, we should not be too smart when we should be stupid in life! Personally, I think it's good to have 2-3 friends who can make friends, but it's easy to doubt if there are too many: "Are we really that good?"

Suspect... Get over it and trust each other!

Maybe all the faces that are shown in front of you through your eyes are "hypocritical", but you can't blindly think that the essence of society is so suspicious, after all, society is a group, composed of countless people, and people have feelings and family affection. It is undeniable that sometimes, this interpersonal relationship is like a hug, obviously so close, but you can't see each other's faces clearly. However, when facing our loved ones, we are still completely sincere.

Family affection can be exchanged for value, but value and money do not necessarily restore family affection.

It is the environment that has changed us, the ancients a long time ago were pure, although the war was moral, and the feelings were important. But nowadays, even if they are brothers, they will turn against each other, some people still don't support their parents, and their relationships are full of deception, and purity is no longer easy to shine on!

Deception, to be honest no one likes.

However, there are many deceptions. Sometimes, as you say, it's still very popular.

Sometimes, the reason for the deceitful person is to get some kind of benefit through deception.

Sometimes, it's the psychology of the deceived person. If you want to hear something good, it's obviously an ugly girl, but you always want to hear praise and hear people call you beautiful.

Deception, sometimes involuntary, some is instinctive self-preservation, and some are habitual, and they are used to telling big lies and empty words.

Being deceived is sometimes consciously voluntary, some are the objective needs of face, some are pleasing to the ear, and they are addicted to listening to big words, lies and empty words.

Deception is a cycle. It is an inexplicable transaction by Zhou Yu and Huang Gai.