Why do adults always fail to keep their promises?

This may be a common ill of homeschooling in China. Their intentions are good, and they want to give encouragement to their children, but when their expectations are met or completed, they basically don't think about the tool they used at that time - encouragement. Yes, most of them just use encouragement as a tool, use it and lose it, without thinking about using it up and cashing it out.

Maybe it has something to do with the specific situation of a family! If your family is qualified enough to meet a series of encouragement fulfillment, I don't think parents will deliberately avoid it, so they choose to avoid it and not cash it out. Because there is one, what about the second time?

What about the third and fourth times? Can you still afford it?

In fact, it's not just about money, sometimes parents don't want their children to really work hard just for something, they want you to be good, but they don't want to study hard for a mobile phone or something, and complete the task-based learning.

In fact, you have to think of it this way: the promises they can't keep today give you the conditions to fulfill them. (Because they encourage "It May Not Be Reasonable for You" to keep improving "Not You Volunteer, but Invisibly Achieved You"), so don't say thanks, at least don't complain too much.

Good luck!

Hehe, in fact, you have to think from a different perspective often, you can get the answer, and there is that as people get older, the more pressure they have, the more they think and do, so you still have to be more considerate. Another way is to communicate with your adult once to see where the reason is, so it's better! ·

Teach you a trick, the next time they want to ask you to do something, you will also promise him first, and when the time comes, you will not promise, when he asks you, you say that you have not learned from you, next time he will not easily agree to you, or promise you will definitely come true.

Understand, adults are sometimes very helpless, who doesn't want to do what they say?

Isn't that a lack of results?

First of all, adults talk a lot to children.

They don't actually listen to you, they just nod their heads and say oh, and when you ask for a promise, they may not remember when they promised you, and the children are more concerned about what they say, and if it takes a lot of effort for the adults to say yes, they will remember it very well, and the adults are actually absent-minded at this time.

It's a very common thing, it's very common.

Because parents are also busy, it is easy to neglect their children's education.

In fact, children have a long ability to imitate, how adults teach or how to do, children will follow suit, so remind all parents that if you decide to give birth to a child, you must be mentally prepared not to treat children as pets.

Your words and actions will have a big impact on your child's future.

If you want your children to be tolerant and generous, don't always count other people's things in front of them, and if you want your children to be honest and kind, don't panic, let alone encourage your children to help you lie.

It may be that the adult is too busy to forget, and you need to remind the adult in the process.

If you still don't keep your promises, you can ask them to keep them: because we are all responsible for our promises.