I have no feelings, but I am reluctant to break up, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-17
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In the past, hide it in the deepest part of your heart, don't touch it, and don't tell anyone about it. Although you once loved someone so hopelessly and desperately, and you hated someone so unforgettablely, one day it will all be clear. No one is irreplaceable, and the sorrow of loss will one day be filled by someone else, or it will slowly fade and disappear.

    The wound is a shame given by others, an illusion of one's own persistence, so don't get along with yourself, don't think that never forgetting, reluctant to give up can prove how strong your love is! When the person you loved had other happiness and forgot about you, all your sadness and self-harm became meaningless. I hope that everyone who has lost their love can be happy again, at least, they should be kind to themselves Perhaps, when we are old, we will find that what we can't forget when we are young may not be that person, but the ...... of the years we once loved

    I hope you can take a step back to look at the problem no matter what happens, if you always think of yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter, and you will never see the solution to the problem, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, if you can take a break from your story and sit in the audience to watch your own story, I think you will be able to understand more things! You must also know what you should do now.

    In fact, love is a kind of fate that does not clean up more chaotic, in your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, other people's answers can only be used as a reference for you, the final decision is still your own decision, you must not take other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who will know your own things better than you? You choose to go into love, that is, you also choose the ups and downs of love, there may be a day of breakup, since we choose a process from the beginning to the end, then, we have to face the process of love, separation is not a difficult thing to face, because two people are together for happiness, if separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what do we have to be sad? Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, we don't have the courage to escape from this world, we still need to live every day, so since we choose to live, then why not live every day?

    How about making yourself happy every day? When you don't plan to love someone else sincerely, please love yourself well! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself?

    Isn't it? With a calm mind to face all the things happening around you, you will find a way to live in peace!

    Have fun!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no emotion, leave the remaining memories to yourself and enjoy it slowly! Or bye-bye, for your good and for the other party's good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The cut is continuous, and the rationalization is still messy. Cutting through the mess quickly is the right choice.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After all, there have been feelings, and this can be understood.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the face of emotional problems, considering that it is forgivable to break up but reluctant, it is best to maintain a rational brain at this time, choose to make a decision immediately, the so-called long pain is not as good as a short pain, if the crack in this relationship is quite big, or the other party has made your unforgivable mistakes, then you are now enduring the pain in your heart and break up with him, you can still pursue your own love in the future, why plant it in his hands?

    It must be reluctant, after all, two people are better, and it is impossible for two people to be bad things during the period of getting along, there must be more sweet things, not to mention that the relationship is not something that can disappear all at once, then you have to weigh the pros and cons, at this time it is best to take out a notebook than a notebook, you list it in detail When there is a problem in this relationship, if you choose to break up, what harm will it bring you, and what benefits will it bring to yourself? So if you choose to continue to drag on like this, what problems may your relationship face in the future? What's in it for you?

    After you weigh the pros and cons, you will understand how to choose, because sometimes people just can't figure it out, and if they don't understand it, they don't see how much impact this thing does or doesn't have on her future.

    Especially we know that choosing a good relationship is crucial for your happiness index in the second half of your life, if there is a problem in the relationship, and it is irreparable, then you continue to drag on, it may be a harm to both of you, when you are unhappy in the future, you may regret not breaking up immediately, you may be more painful, so I think it is better to choose a long pain than a short pain, and you will stop the loss in time if it hurts for a while.

    What's more, feelings are not your one's business, but two people's business, the love between two people also needs two people to maintain together, the so-called love is two-way running, if a person has made a mistake, then why do you want to make yourself so sad?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the problem is very prominent, it is about the three views and personality, then you should carefully consider whether to continue to be together, if it is an ordinary trivial matter, you can discuss or tolerate each other, compromise, and solve the problem.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should look at how your partner treats you, and if he's okay, I think you can look at it for a while and then make a decision.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    At this time, it is necessary to communicate, what kind of problem is it, whether it can be saved, and if it is impossible to continue to be together, it should be let go in time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think you can wait a little longer, if you want to break up because of a conflict between two people, you can communicate with your boyfriend and solve this matter, don't, because you may regret your wayward breakup.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should communicate more with each other and don't break up easily, because it is not easy for two people to be together, so you must cherish your feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The best way is for the two of them to sit down and have a good talk, and explain the problems and misunderstandings between the two people clearly, and then they can continue to be together.

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