What if love turns into a hurt?

You can choose to love silently, forever.

Love will become hurt, the only explanation is that two people who don't love at all, or who are completely inappropriate two people fall in love, then this love will be very painful, and it will become harm, many times it is not that you say that you love each other, you will definitely get happiness, not all love is happy, the right person loves each other, that is a particularly happy and beautiful thing, and falling in love with the wrong person, that is a particularly painful thing, because you want to leave, but you love that person deeply, You want to continue, but you're stabbed all over by this love.

Isn't there a lot of people who use the hedgehog's love as a metaphor, you love the hedgehog, even if you love him very much, but you don't dare to hug him, the closer you get to him, the more painful it hurts, the more you are hurt, you love him very much, he loves you very much, but you are together is pain, there is no other feeling except pain, so in the end, what can you do, what should you do, whether to continue this relationship, or to give up this relationship, two people who obviously love each other, but why did it become such a result.

Everyone wants happy love, they all want the right love, they all want to be sweet and sweet together, but the reality is that it is very easy to fall in love, but it is a very difficult thing to get along, many times you can't get along with a person, you also work hard, he also works hard, but you are together, except for the occasional happiness, many times it is painful, so in the end your love becomes a knife, in the inch by inch of the wound in your body.

This is also the reason why everyone thinks that love is beautiful, but they are afraid of falling in love, people who have been hurt and hurt by love, it is difficult to enter the next relationship, it is difficult to believe in the next relationship, so the final result is that they are far away from love, they only love themselves, and no longer believe in love, because the once deep love hurt themselves and hurt each other. And if you don't love, you won't suffer this hardship, and if you don't love anymore, you won't have to suffer this hardship.

Because the efforts of two people in a relationship are completely unequal, one party pays more and has higher requirements for the other party, which will invisibly cause great pressure on the other party.

Because the relationship between two people is very deep, when there are serious conflicts and quarrels, it will make love deteriorate, which will hurt each other.

I care about each other very much, so sometimes I have very high requirements for each other. In the end, the other party may not meet their requirements, and they will be particularly disappointed.

Because a lot of people do things they don't like to do in the name of doing things for your good, and such things are harmful.

1.Don't take a person's past to doubt a person's essence.

2.If you haven't been through my journey, don't judge me for the way I've taken.

3.I was in a place where you could see when you turned around, but you never looked back.

4. Inspirational songs. Alone, if you don't push yourself, you don't know how good you are.

5.If you don't understand why I'm inexplicably angry, it can only mean that you don't know me well enough.

6.In the future, try to love yourself and not let yourself be hurt.

7.As long as you, I will, no matter who you are by your side.

8.You always love to show off your own small, and in the end only the latter remains.

9.We often take the expectations of others as our goal, but we forget our own yearning for change.

10.When we stop trying to love, we no longer understand what harm is.

11.Even if I am blind, heartbroken, and deaf, I will never forget you.

12.I finally made 200 million, one frustrated and one memories.

Love is a pure word, and it is the outpouring of one of the most beautiful and true emotions in the world. Love is the most special feeling of every person, it is the collision between souls, and it is the combination between body and mind.

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no speeding actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. Love deep is deep love, deep into our hearts, and treat the other half as if we were a part of ourselves. So plain, so firm, so desirable.

So love requires you to feel and experience with your heart, when you fall into the whirlpool of love, step by step, you love her deeply.

When we fall in love with someone, we will carve her into our bones, it is her when we open our eyes, and it is her when we close our eyes, and we are all in our minds all the time. Your world is made up of her, you will form a dependence on her, you can't leave her all the time, like every second with her, so you unconsciously love and become dependent, relying on your other half can bring you satisfaction, relying on your other half to bring happiness to yourself, relying on your other half to bring you happiness, relying on loving your other half.

But when a man is hungry he eats, when he is thirsty he drinks water, and when he is tired, he rests. How can men and women who are in love in their lives rest, who gives them time to rest, and who gives them space to rest. Some people may say, love is such a happy thing, how can it need to rest?

But I want to say that love is the most indulgent release of the beautiful feelings in the heart, in life with your other half to learn to support each other, interdependent life, but in life there are different opinions, there are different views, what to do if the discussion can't get results. The result is a quarrel, do you still have to rely on each other at this time, and who do you rely on? Or there is always one person who has no opinions, relies on one person everywhere, and when encountering difficulties, there is not even a person to discuss, then the other half must be tired of your lack of opinion, tired of not being able to be your own master.

Don't make people feel like being with you is taking care of you and you can't help her with anything! So sooner or later, one of the parties will get tired, quarrel, lose their temper, and there will be a lot of negative effects. The more negative emotions are generated, the more harm will be done to the other half.

This is also why there are so many breakup lovers and divorced couples now. It's because dependence hurts.

Deep love produces dependence, and dependence produces harm. When your deep love turns into hurt, that's when the relationship comes to an end.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love. Because, letting go is the ...... having everythingPlease love well when you cherish the loss When you let go, bless well, no one can tell you how to love this thing.

Please be an independent person, a strong person, a person who loves deeply but does not rely on your other half. You can love deeply and refuse to depend. Let love be effectively guaranteed.

Everything will pass, and there is nothing that hurts in your heart all the time It's just a matter of time Actually, you don't have to think about it so much, sometimes love is like this Suddenly love, maybe at what moment you encounter something, or think of something, love disappears Why take revenge Don't you feel very irrational and a little naïve? A mature person, the treatment of feelings is to take up and let go No one stipulates that as long as someone has a relationship with you, they will be with you for the rest of their lives Maybe he just appeared in your life, made you understand the truth of some things, and then disappeared If love is destined to be irretrievable, you should learn to get something out of this relationship This world is like this, you have to continue life if you lose anyone We won't be able to live because of who is missing The road of love is very long, But in the end, it doesn't necessarily lead to possession, if it is destined to be irretrievable, the only thing you can do at this time is to try to make yourself happy and tolerant The world is very big, the road of life is very long, the loss of a relationship is really nothing Loss, you can find it in another place, the process is very beautiful, isn't it enough?!

Time is the best teacher, what you should do now is not to think meaninglessly, but to devote your energy to student work, to make a big difference, so that you have to do it at the moment

I think it should be like this, if you make a mistake, please forgive me! 1

1.I used to think that treating someone I loved with sincerity would last forever, but now that I think about it, it's just a joke.

2.It's you who provoke me first, it's me who can't bear it, it's me who moves you, it's me who can't let go, you are tired and don't want to act, it's me who doesn't want to end the play, you leave, I take care of all the dramas alone, if we didn't add friends at the beginning, maybe we wouldn't even have memories.

3.The most heart-wrenching feeling in the world is not the loss of love, but the fact that you are deceiving me when I give my heart to you.

4.Sometimes doing everything for one person is not as good as doing nothing for others.

5.Once upon a time, I thought I had found the happiness I wanted, but when I gave it unreservedly, I realized that it had always been my wishful thinking.

6.There has always been only a good gathering, how can there be a good dispersion. In the end, liking turned into unwillingness, deep love turned into sadness, longing turned into upset, and initiative became cheap.

7.You passed by my heart for a while, but I stranded in my memory for a lifetime, I don't want to think about you, but in many, many small moments, I unintentionally thought of you.

8.I hate you, you walked into my world so easily, and then left my world, and walked so freely.

9.Whoever really takes who seriously, who feels sorry for whom, thank you for your ruthlessness, let me learn to die; When the tears flowed, I realized that separation was another kind of understanding.

10.I spent many years proving how much I loved him, but he used the same amount of time to prove how stupid I was, and there was always such a fool who once rejected everyone for one person, and ended up with nothing.

Maybe you take it too seriously, if you want to open it, maybe your heart won't be so uncomfortable, in fact, love is not what you think, don't think about it too complicated, love is very simple, if the person you love leaves you, maybe it will become hurt, but have you ever thought about whether the two of you were together when they were together, if you didn't even think about this and blindly stayed with him, maybe your love is wrong and not necessarily, if you thought about these at the beginning, How can there be a scene of injury, I hope you must carefully consider the next time you meet a boyfriend and girlfriend, whether you are suitable to be together, whether your personality is compatible, if you consider these and there will be such a situation, then the problem is either you or ta,

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has one.

Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.