What to do when love becomes a responsibility

When love becomes responsibility, you won't care about her beauty or ugliness.

Summary. The responsibility in love is to love each other, respect each other, and be responsible for the physiology and psychology of the other half.

The responsibility in love is to love each other, respect each other, and be responsible for the physiology and psychology of the other half.

And a person who is not responsible in love is nothing more than not loving and respecting the other half. Some boys have no plans to get married and have children but let their girlfriends get pregnant, which is irresponsible.

In love, it is a responsibility to love each other. Since you have become a boyfriend and girlfriend, you must learn to love and care for each other, which is a responsible love attitude. If you meet a boy who is in love with you, but never cares about your life, doesn't care about your work, and doesn't even know what your birthday is, such a boy belongs to the one who is not responsible in love.

It's the same for girls, they don't care about their boyfriends, they don't care about their boyfriends, they just like to ask each other to do things for themselves, but they never pay, such girls are also irresponsible.

In love, respecting each other is also a responsibility. Respect means that no matter what we do together, we must respect each other's intentions. For example, if two people go on a trip together, the man or the woman just arranges it according to their own preferences, which is disrespectful to the other party.

Or, it is also disrespectful for the man to rashly take the woman to meet his friends without asking the woman's opinion. It is also disrespectful for the woman to let the man ask herself and her girlfriends to pay without telling the man. Falling in love is a matter for two people, so both men and women must respect each other's opinions and feelings in love.

If you find that you hang out with your boyfriend, no matter what you eat or live, and he never asks your opinion, then he doesn't respect you enough.

Therefore, when girls are in love, they must be clear about the responsibilities of love, which can help many girls avoid meeting scumbags.

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The most important factor in marriage is love, a marriage without love is a marriage of death, to maintain the marriage must take care of love, so that love is long-lasting; One of the most important factors in maintaining a marriage is a sense of responsibility, since you are married, you have to take responsibility for the marriage, one party lacks a sense of responsibility, does things recklessly, and is unwilling to assume the loyalty, care, care, care and responsibility for the other party's parents and children raised together, will destroy the foundation of the marriage, and in serious cases, it will lead to the breakdown of the marriage. Love and responsibility are two elements of marriage, and one is indispensable. Follow-up:

You're right, are you married? Love can be met but not sought, do you believe in fate? Can feelings be cultivated?

Can an arrogant man walk into marriage with him? : I'm a person who knows the destiny of heaven, and of course I'm married.

The love that is dead and alive in the world is very rare, who has seen the kind of love that is dead and alive, and it is also in Korean dramas, love does not need to be vigorous, it is true when it is plain. In ancient times, marriages were arranged by parents, but there were also many couples who developed feelings through mutual run-in after marriage, and lived happily for a lifetime, Li Dazhao is a model, which shows that feelings can be cultivated! There is love at first sight, but most of them are unreliable, and love can be long-term over time.

If a man doesn't have a little self-confidence and no pride, what can he do in this life? Finding a man with a manly spirit should be the right choice. However, a man's arrogance is not arrogance, arrogance can be to outsiders, but not to lovers, and there should be soft bones for lovers.

A man who is only arrogant and does not know how to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade can only be said to be "conceited", and there will be no happiness if he finds such a man.

Love and responsibility don't have to choose, when you really love someone, when you love in your bones, you will naturally have responsibility, this kind of responsibility is not an order, but the heart is already there. In the past, I have heard some young people express such a somewhat extreme idea: "Life is meaningful to be with the person you like, if you face a person who has little feelings every day, and even you will feel bored when you see him, it is better than death."

At first glance, this may sound like some truth, but why do I say something extreme?

I believe that everyone is no stranger to these words and concepts, such as the shelf life of love, the seven-year itch, aesthetic fatigue, marriage is the grave of love, etc., although we do not have enough basis to say that everyone will encounter one of the above situations, but the reason why these concepts exist and are widely known shows that it still has a certain universality.

To put it bluntly, love is nothing more than a feeling and feeling, it is affected by many factors, and it is difficult to control with reason. You may fall in love with someone before you know it, and love them so deeply that you want to marry them for the rest of your life. But when you really live together, you may find a lot of his shortcomings, and you feel that you don't love him that much anymore.

What to do at this time? If you don't have children yet, you might be able to turn around and get a divorce in style. But if you already have a child, you can't let the child have an incomplete home for the sake of your perfect love, right?

If I asked you which is more important, passion or responsibility, would it be easier for you to come up with the answer? If you are irresponsible and derelict in your duties, then even if you have enthusiasm, your enthusiasm is not worth mentioning at all, and you will definitely not be able to keep the job. So by the same token, which do you say is more important, love or responsibility in marriage?

Marriage relationship, like labor relationship, is a contractual relationship, any contractual relationship, responsibility and obligation are the core, without responsibility, the relationship loses its meaning. Just as you don't work for a boss who only talks about your dreams and doesn't pay a salary, you don't hire employees who enthusiastically pat you on the back but don't work, if your partner doesn't share the housework, doesn't care about the children, spends his own income, and is not usually at home, he doesn't care what happens to you, and you definitely won't stay in this marriage. A person with a strong sense of responsibility, even if your love fades, will care about you and will continue to invest in your family, because he will fulfill his responsibilities as a husband or wife.

The shelf life of love is very short, those happy marriages are the husband and wife who have run in a comfortable mode of getting along, and established a deep emotional connection, they have a high degree of trust in each other and a smooth contradiction handling mechanism, and can stand on the united front to solve problems in case of conflicts, rather than blaming each other. This is related to the business ability of both parties, but also related to experience and experience, those who think that love has faded, marriage is not saved, most of them have not experienced marriage. In fact, the beauty of marriage is not that you find someone you love to stay with for a lifetime, but that you find someone you love and have been learning how to get along, and eventually you become an important pillar in each other's lives, but when you hold his hand, you no longer blush and heartbeat.

Can I understand that a married person has another relationship again? If yes, then this responsibility is also the love of the past, then this responsibility includes love and responsibility, and the other side is still in the love stage, then please choose the responsibility, after all, it was also your love, I wish you happiness!

My current lover is my favorite. There is no doubt about this.

First of all, if I didn't love her, I wouldn't be with her.

Love is not only a feeling, but also a responsibility. ......If you don't love someone, you shouldn't be with her, otherwise it's disrespectful to her. ......The reason why my current love is my lover is because she is my favorite.

Because of love, we will come together and be with each other until today.

Secondly, she is the person I feel most comfortable with, which is why I am with her.

In terms of all aspects of her condition, I am satisfied in every aspect. ......Because we were happy with her, we came together. ......Because we are satisfied with her, we love each other and treat each other as our favorites.

Because of this, my current lover is the one I love the most.

In the end, she was the most perfect of all the people I met.

In my experience, I have met all kinds of people. ......Of all these people, she was the most perfect person I have ever met. ......Although she is not perfect on her own, in my opinion, she is perfect enough.

That's why I chose her as my lover. And she chose me for the same reason. ......That's how we started to love each other and support each other to this day.

Therefore, my current lover is the one I love the most, and there is no one who can replace her!

No matter how intense the love is at the beginning, as the relationship deepens, you can no longer love each other as you did at the beginning. It can be said that feelings or hearts do not change. The so-called love can be said to be love.

Maybe in addition to appreciating and admiring, there will be certain expectations in the early days. There is even an effort to think that you have to gain before you can have doubts, but the premise that love really takes a long time is to know him. Preferably a "I'm good for you" relationship.

Therefore, true love is not to force that person to become what he expects, but to read the other person's heart, feel the other person's feelings, and try to understand the other person's grievances even if they do not agree. True love is when everyone can find themselves and restrain each other's uncomfortable feelings. Learn to be responsible for each other in love, not just the victory of one party's happiness.

So true love is not a promise of weathering, Chinese New Year, and Gotham.

The academy, the distant future, is to make a pillow for you to sleep on, but to give you substantial effort and satisfaction in the process. Being responsible for the other party is not to divorce and not continue to assign a name to the other party, but to actually live in the way that the other person expects. Men and women are very different from their preferences to their emotional coping styles in the face of stress.

What men need is to find calm and find the fastest solution directly. What women need is the comfort of the interactive process, and more of the process of needing to confide to release their feelings. Blindly treating the other person in the way they think or use by themselves, and eventually the other half will experience a double blow and feel like an enemy is being attacked in the back.

The responsibility of love is not just verbal, but a detailed attitude of acknowledgment and respect.

The woman gives him more space to consume, and the man patiently becomes the woman's tree hole and listens to her heart. The best love, the real responsibility, is not how much you think you give, but how much you give him. The difference in the views and thinking of two people, so in many cases it cannot be completely unified, and the responsibility of love is not to blindly give in to the breach of perfection, but to convince the other party in their own way, <>

True love is not just focused on a temporary wind and moon, but a lifelong marriage, and all the unions of marriage are not just sleeping together, if there is no blood relationship.

When two people become family, conflicts of interest can sometimes become the most awkward antagonism. The biggest responsibility of love is to try to give, but after mutual identification, a blindly defensive heart is harmful to the relationship, and even if you understand, you may not be happy. Only equal delivery by both parties is an act of showing the greatest respect and responsibility for the relationship.

At all times, what men need is respect and adoration, and what women always need is cherishing and pampering.

For saying that in love, we must learn to be responsible for each other, and the responsibility of love is first of all to be loyal to each other. And care about each other, consider each other's feelings, and create good conditions for each other.

Really love each other, stay loyal and sincere, and at the same time should love yourself and be responsible for yourself, if you are unhappy, you should break up.

Of course, you must learn to be responsible for each other in love, and the responsibility of love is that both parties must be loyal, and trust each other, and cannot do things that are sorry for each other, so that they are responsible for both parties.

Responsibility is not paid for what was done or what happened.

When two people have love, they are no longer separate individuals. Love is heart-to-heart, and when one person's heart has another person's place, the heart begins to miss, even miss.

Love is enjoyment, and everyone says that people in love are the happiest in the world. When I fell in love, I felt that he was a fate given to me by God, but when I broke up, I thought it was a mistake to be with him. It is the human heart that is complex and changeable, and the weird thing is love, love cannot last forever, meals will deteriorate because of the weather, and people will change over time.

It's just memories that last forever, the love in that memory. Love without responsibility is false love, false love, what kind of responsibility is love? The most explicit is:

Don't break each other's hearts. And the truth is: the person I love the most hurts me the most.

Love can never let each other down, and disappointment with a lover is a prelude to the end of love.

Love is the most precious emotion, and if you don't cherish it, you will only regret it. If you make a mistake, you can correct it, and if you take the wrong path, you can turn back, but love can't make up for it, just like a cloud of smoke, it will be dispersed after it. It's barely useless.