Many people feel tired after getting married, what are the reasons?

It is because the change of mentality and the change of living habits make many people feel tired, and marriage needs to consider the various affairs of two people's lives and the family members of both parties, and need to pay more time and energy to bear family responsibilities.

Before marriage is a person's world, after marriage is a two-person world, before marriage is full of happy expectations for the two-person world, after marriage only to know that there is an extra responsibility on your shoulders, before marriage you are a child, after marriage you are an adult to take care of children, so I feel very tired.

If the economy is not good, it is tiring to not be able to buy what you want, and it is tiring to do too much housework.

I think it's because the two people have begun to really run in, and the three views have also begun to run in. You also need to run the family and organize the affairs of the family. Families of both parents also need to be taken care of. So it's tiring.

After you get married, people will choose to have a child, in the period from conception to about a week of child, as a mother rarely has her own free time, nor can she travel at will, because of the inconvenience of pregnancy, after giving birth, the child has to breastfeed. This is the most tiring time. Of course, it's a pleasure to be able to spend time with your child.

However, as the child grows up and the child needs to go to school, as a parent, he will be more tired, serving the child with three meals a day, helping the child complete homework, and taking care of the child's daily life. It is naturally better to meet obedient children, and when you meet disobedient children, you will have a lot of idleness with your children.

This is the moment to feel how wonderful it is to be single. You just need to take care of yourself, do whatever you want, go wherever you want, and have the bonds of family and children. You don't need to worry so much about your child, suffer so much, and you won't be angry with your child.

But it's just a momentary thought, and most of the time, people still think it's best to have a family. Because the family will give you a sense of security, it will allow you to enjoy a happy life that you can't enjoy when you're single, and you'll also enjoy the joy of family that you can't enjoy when you're single.

There could be many reasons for this phenomenon:

2.The gap between expectations and reality: Before marriage, we usually enter marriage with romantic and beautiful imagination, but in reality we will find that marriage is not as good as we imagined.

We may face various material and spiritual problems, such as financial pressure, trivial matters, disagreements, etc.

3.Not preparing for marriage: Before getting married, we often don't think deeply about the challenges that married life can bring. If you don't have enough psychological preparation, it will make you feel depressed after marriage.

4.Insufficient communication and understanding: Couples may not have fully communicated and understood each other before marriage, or may not maintain good communication after marriage. This can lead to gaps and disagreements between them.

To solve these problems, couples need to establish a good communication environment and understanding, and be patient and sincere in the face of problems. At the same time, it is also necessary to share the work appropriately and not put too much pressure on yourself. Maintain a good attitude and maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, so that the marriage relationship can be more harmonious.