What if a 10 year old boy doesn t love school, isn t he tired of school, and feels uncomfortable?

Interest in learning is the driving force behind children's conscious learning, and interest is the best teacher. If children have a strong interest in learning, they will naturally not see learning as a chore. We often see that some children are very interested in computers, and they are willing to consciously take the initiative to read a lot of computer books, and their playful habits will be greatly improved.

Therefore, parents and teachers should look for and discover their children's interests from time to time, and guide and cultivate them to promote their children's healthy development.

The reason why many children don't like to study is that they always fail in the results and always have inferior test scores. Therefore, it is necessary to start from the child's actual situation, appropriately determine the learning goals for the child, and give practical and effective help, so that the child can achieve the goal he can achieve through hard work and get a successful experience. Successful experiences motivate your child to continue to work hard and make him keep improving.

A child's lack of learning is often related to his poor concentration. Classroom teaching requires attention to be maintained for at least 20 minutes, but some children can only concentrate for a few minutes, and there are many contents that they do not hear or understand when they "desert", resulting in poor grades, and gradually lose confidence and interest in learning, and then do not like to learn. Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate children's attention from an early age.

Some children are born with a lack of concentration, which requires long-term efforts from parents.

Many parents are eager for their children to become Jackie Chan, and arrange tutoring and tutoring for their children after class, hoping to get the purpose of improving their children's grades, but in fact, this can easily produce the evil result of half the effort. A child has enough to learn in school, and with a few hours of extra learning, it can be more than he can handle. This kind of "classroom-family" relay learning often makes children lose their sense of novelty in learning and start to get tired of learning.

Parents are the best role models for their children, and their every move can have a subtle and far-reaching impact on their children. Parents must be diligent in reading and strive to create a good learning atmosphere in the family if they want their children to love learning and not be playful. If parents are addicted to mahjong, TV, dancing, and socializing all day long, then it is impossible for their children to "get out of the sludge without getting stained".

The misdirection caused by the carelessness of parents in family education is also the reason why children do not like to learn, if a parent chatters all day long; "If your grades are so poor, you must be stupider than others, and no matter how hard you try, it may not be effective. Such words are bound to seriously dampen the child's enthusiasm and enterprising spirit, so that the child does not like to learn and becomes playful.

Peer influence is also extremely important. Most children are very immutable, as long as there is a good role model around, the child will have the inner motivation to hope for better, and gradually like to learn. This peer power is sometimes even more effective than parental preaching and scolding.

There are many ways to change children's playfulness, but the real key part is in the hands of parents and teachers, as long as parents and teachers have the right methods, serious attitude, and enough care and help to children, I believe that such problems can be easily solved.

Hello, the child's lack of learning may only be superficial. There are many reasons behind it, it may be that the study habit is not formed, there may be a problem with the learning ability. Many children do not do well because they don't learn enough, but because they learn too much and they get tired of school.

First of all, we must understand the main reasons for school boredom, so as to better help children get rid of school boredom.

What are the possible reasons for children not going to school, suspending school, or dropping out of school?

1. The child does not want to go to school because he is bullied by his classmates, and his psychology has caused great shadow and damage.

2. Parents attach too much importance to grades, and children are stressed and tired of school. Many parents attach too much importance to their children's scores, and when their children do not meet their required scores, they complain, blame their children, and desperately put pressure on their children to study. If the stress is too much for the child to bear, it will cause the child to hate learning.

Heavy learning tasks and mental pressure are too much for children to bear, and they will also feel disgusted by their parents' practices. Parents should not use scores as a criterion for evaluating their children, scores can only represent their children's learning in a certain period of time, parents should praise their children from different aspects to increase their children's confidence, rather than a single report card.

How to make children fall in love with learning and improve their academic performance?

The first step focuses on adjusting the boundaries of work and rest, networking, life, and study;

The second step is to eliminate the fear of school and social anxiety in the face of returning to school;

The third step is to guide children's interest in learning, learning motivation, etc.

If such a situation occurs, you should communicate with your child in a timely manner, and at the same time, you should let your child realize the importance of learning, let your child develop a good study habit, or let your child go to the construction site to experience a day of life, so as to educate your child.

If you are really not interested, you can also consider learning a technology, all roads lead to Rome, and you will succeed.

At this time, teachers and parents need to guide the child more, and they also need to help the child solve some surrounding obstacles in daily life.

You should educate your children well, and you should let your children suffer more, so that you can make your children change from their hearts.

First of all, parents should find out the reasons why their children are tired of school, and then communicate with their children in depth to understand their ideas, and then prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem, and at the same time urge the child to get rid of the problem of school boredom.

Parents should urge their children to go to school every day, if they often do not go to school, then the boredom will be more serious, parents can have a conversation with their children to understand why their children are tired of school, to solve this problem.

Parents should be very resolute in their attitude towards this kind of thing, telling their children that they should go to school no matter what, that they should adjust their children's mentality, and that they should listen to their children's ideas.

Parents should tell their children that this is wrong and ineffective.

If the child has not developed good study habits since childhood, as well as cultivating a good interest in learning, in this case, parents and children should work together to cultivate learning habits, improve the interest in learning, and create a good learning atmosphere for children. If the child encounters difficulties and setbacks in the process of accepting new knowledge, parents should also encourage the child more, affirm the child, give the child a blind and upright confidence, you can ask the child for a tutor, and sometimes even ask for a professional teacher's counseling to help the child overcome difficulties together, overcome difficulties, let the child improve the sense of achievement of learning in the process of overcoming difficulties, repentance and confidence, and at the same time cultivate the child's positive, optimistic and upward character.

Parents should communicate with their children in a timely manner. Let's talk calmly and find out what the problem is.

In the face of the child's tired of learning, actively communicate with the child, find the reason for the child's nutrition, and tell the child the consequences if he does not study seriously, and take the child to try the hardships of working under the scorching sun.

It is not uncommon for an 11-year-old boy to be bored with his studies and have a lot of emotional changes. In this case, it may not be a wise choice to forcibly send him to a renegade school.

First of all, it is important to understand why he is bored with learning. There may be some intrinsic reasons for him to lose interest in learning, such as learning content that does not match his interests, learning at a pace that is too fast or slow, or the learning environment is not suitable. It is important to try to have an honest conversation with him about his concerns and needs.

Secondly, explore other solutions, such as changing the way he learns or the learning environment, finding his interests and incorporating them into his learning, so as to increase his motivation to learn. In addition, parents can consider communicating with the school and teachers to seek their help and support to help them overcome their learning difficulties.

Only after a good understanding and trying other solutions, if the problem persists with severe emotional problems and learning difficulties, then professional psychological counseling or counseling may be required. But in this process, it is necessary to be patient and understanding, and give your child enough support and encouragement to help him overcome difficulties and regain his interest in learning.

What should I do if my child is resistant to going to school?

1.Know your child's status.

Fully communicate with the child, understand the various pressures and difficulties that the child is currently facing, support and accept, and let the child's negative emotions be released and vented.

2.Learn to decompress your child.

Combined with the child's ability, do not put forward too high requirements for learning, do a good job of logistics, and help the child to reduce stress in the limited rest time. At the same time, children develop time management skills that enable them to prioritize and organize their own learning tasks independently.

3. Give encouragement and recognition.

It is necessary to help children find their own strengths, sincerely give affirmation and encouragement, express understanding and support for their own shortcomings, and help children improve their self-identity.

4.Help your child cope with difficulties.

When there is no hope in your child's eyes, telling him to cheer up and not to run away is mostly futile. What he needs more is understanding, acceptance and empathy from the outside world. Communicate with your child to understand the problem, and then we can really start to solve the problem with your child.

5.Nurture your child's interest in learning.

Guide children to master the correct learning methods and be good at thinking, rather than passively accepting knowledge, so as to improve learning efficiency. When children have a sense of accomplishment in their learning, they become interested in learning.

6.Inspire your child's motivation and confidence in learning.

Every child has his or her own ideals about what he wants to be when he grows up. However, this ideal may still be far away, and the child is not currently motivated enough to learn. Therefore, parents should help their children set short-term learning goals and let them understand that only by constantly achieving short-term goals can they finally achieve their ideals and stimulate their children's learning motivation.

7.Bring your child closer to the teacher.

Let the child have a good emotional connection with the teacher, the teacher pays attention to the child, encourages and praises the child's performance, and lets the child know that the teacher likes him and the child will enjoy school more. Therefore, parents need to maintain smooth communication with teachers. Not only can you understand your child's performance in school, but you can also guide teachers to pay more attention to your child's progress and changes.

8. Parents should also help their children establish certain interpersonal relationships.

Poor relationships are a significant cause of boredom. Because students come from families with different cultures, economies, and cultures, their personalities and personalities are also very different. Some students are withdrawn and not good at socializing, and their interpersonal relationships are naturally not good.

If teachers and classmates are indifferent to them, they will feel more lonely and uneasy, and they will have negative emotions and even misanthropy. Therefore, parents should give more guidance to these children with personality defects.

This is to communicate with the child first, then understand why he doesn't like learning, and then teach slowly.

You should get to the root of the problem, why is the child resistant to learning, is it because the teacher is not good enough, or because there are some conflicts at school?

Parents should first find out the reasons why their children do not want to learn, and then solve the doubts in the children's hearts and create a good learning atmosphere for the children.

1. Understand why. First of all, it is necessary to understand the reason for the child's thoughts, and see whether the child is unhappy with his classmates, or he is not able to keep up with his studies too hard, or he simply has too much homework, which makes the child feel tired. Only by figuring out the reasons why the child does not want to go to school can parents prescribe the right medicine, explain the child well, and re-stimulate the child's interest in going to school.

2. Understand your child's stress. Parents should understand their children, and when they talk to their children, try to stand on an equal footing with their children, do not blindly blame their children, but should guide them correctly, tell them what the purpose of learning is, and that learning is not for anyone, but for the children themselves to be more relaxed and excellent in the future.

3. Children's "nature"**. Take children to nature, let them feel the vastness of heaven and earth, the majesty of mountains, the majesty of nature, and the shining of the starry sky at night. Nature can let the child open his heart, recognize his own insignificance, and help him get out of the small world that troubles him.

4. Accept children's school boredom. Accepting your child's school boredom does not mean that parents allow your child to avoid learning, but to express to your child that I understand the frustrations and difficulties you encounter, and I am willing to be your ally and work with you to face and solve this problem.

1. Accept and understand children's school boredom. There must be a reason why children are tired of school. When parents hear that their children do not want to go to school, they will yell at their children, teach them how to be disobedient, etc., in this case, it will aggravate their children's school boredom.

Therefore, when you learn to accept your child's boredom with school, you will be able to communicate calmly with your child and patiently ask the reason, which is the first step to solve the problem.

2. Give children appropriate encouragement and support. When the child's test results are not satisfactory, parents should give the child a little more encouragement, let the child know that he is not so bad, instead of blaming the child and making the child feel inferior. As long as the child is serious and hard-working, parents should give the child encouragement, even if it is a word, a caressing, a knowing smile will strengthen the child's correct behavior, so that the child feels that learning is a pleasant thing.

3. Parents appropriately lower their expectations for their children. Parents are too demanding of their children, and if their children have been burdened with heavy pressure, they will be psychologically unbearable, and they are likely to be bored with school.