How did you break off your relationship with your former friend?

<>How did I break off my relationship with my former friend? It's because of a boy.

Speaking of which, you may think of the storyline of "July and Ansheng", but sorry, it's really not. But it's pretty much the same. Just let me tell you the story.

When I was in junior high school, I was studying in a foreign country, and it was difficult for me to meet people from one place at school, and my friends and I were not from the same place. When I was in the second year of junior high school, there was a boy in the class, who was very handsome, and I had a good impression of him. A few days later, I heard that he and I were from the same place, so I took the initiative to talk to them, after all, the villagers still felt very cordial when they saw them.

Because we are fellow countrymen, we get along well. Once I changed seats, he and I became the same table, and usually the two of us talked in dialects. When we weren't at the same table, the head teacher was too willful, and often watched movies, or American drama action movies, and the bloody scenes really made me unbearable, and whenever I covered my ears and turned my head not to watch it.

He happened to sit diagonally across from me, and he laughed when I turned my head, and laughed at the same time as he hurt me, I really wanted to him, but he was still nice to me. Our Chinese teacher is known for being ruthless, I often can't memorize ancient Chinese and often take care of memorization. I cried when the little girl met me, and he was always by his side to comfort me.

After a long time, I developed a crush on him.

The psychology of a little girl, I like to be alone and always want to share it with my sisters, and my good friends in the class know that I am interested in that boy, but I haven't confessed it for a long time. Knowing that in the third year of junior high school, I had to transfer to another school because of some things, so I only secretly stuffed a note for him, but I didn't get a response. This crush ended without a hitch.

When I was in high school, I received a message from a friend from my junior high school friend who said that she was with the boy I liked, and I immediately blew up. Even if you're together, don't you know that I like him, you know that you also sent a special text message to inform me, and you also said that you don't want to lie to me, saying that you are very sorry for me, she also likes him and wants me to bless them. Then I wish you a happy life for both men and women.

This kind of friend is blocked every minute and never contacted.

The friendship of girls is still very simple, and I will naturally not treat you badly if you treat me well. Friendships between girls are also relatively easy to maintain, and as a girl, I deeply understand that even the best friends of girls will inevitably complain about each other, which is really not an uncommon thing. What contradictions can't be solved by having a meal, shopping together, and complaining to each other together?

But the bottom line for girls is that men can't move. My bottom line is this: books and men should not be borrowed.

If you move, I'm sorry, we have to break off the relationship.

I don't think a really good friend will ever break off a relationship. A true good friend will not weaken the relationship because he does not contact, will not refuse to associate because of a small profit, and will not turn his face because of a reprimand after doing something wrong. Friends who will break up with you only mean that they are not for you.

Of course, I'm speaking from the side that is not at fault.

There are not many real friends in the essence, only three or five friends, usually gags, poisonous tongues are ruthless, and it is good to stand in front of you at a critical time. It's not that you get tired of being together all the time to be good friends. I'm not the kind of person who dares to speak and can talk from all directions, so it's not surprising that I have few friends and I cherish every one of my friendships.

Two friends from junior high school, one went to study in another place when he was in the second year of junior high school, and now they are far away from me. But every time she comes back, we are still very nice, we have a lot to say, and we want to share with her my joys and sorrows, and make up for the void of her absence. And another friend, although they have been together in junior high school, and later in high school, they were also assigned to a class, but I don't know when our relationship has turned into a cold appearance of ignoring it, and now it is just a polite greeting to meet and greet.

Maybe it's true that there will be different friends at different stages.

Think about how we used to be very good, going to the toilet together after class, going home together after school, and going out together on weekends, why did such good friends become like this. It seems that she said that she can't stand me and I have other good friends? I was also very helpless, I forgot what kind of mood I was in at the time, in short, slowly we began not to speak, and now we will only greet each other when we meet like this, not chatting all over the world.

Friends say that this is the stage that people must go through in the process of growing up, there is always someone to walk with you, and there will be people who turn their heads in the process and find that she is not by your side anymore. This is also the process of growth.

In short, true friends can't be driven away, you can give each other your back, and share weal and woe.

When I think of friends I haven't been in touch with for a long time, I feel that the grind and noise is very heartwarming, because those past events will come back to the fore. Normally, I don't contact them, and everybody is busy right now. Life is in the world, and the journey is in a hurry.

Many friends come quietly, and finally leave quietly, leaving only that distant and vague memory. This is also the reason why everyone wants to take pictures of beautiful moments, and want to engrave the present moment in their minds as much as possible, so that they can savor it in the future. After all, people in their twilight years actually live by memories, and leaving as many precious memories as possible will also become a valuable spiritual wealth in life.

Everyone makes and loses a lot of friends in their lifetime, but no matter what, the impression they leave in their minds will remain for a long time. Even if some people haven't been in touch for a long time, before you know it, you will suddenly remember the emotion, pain, happiness and sorrow they bring. Every time I recall this, everyone has some mixed feelings.

What we feel is not the original mood, but the passage of time. Everything seemed to be yesterday, but when I woke up, it was already a different story. At some point, we will also travel to the past, imagine that these people are still around, imagine those memories being staged again, but when we raise our eyes and raise our eyebrows, reality quickly pulls us back, and this feeling of time and space confusion is what makes people feel so emotional.

The more you drink, the warmer it gets, the colder the water gets, and the same goes for friendship. Only when we are in constant contact will the relationship become deeper and deeper, and if we have not been in contact for a long time, the friendship will dissipate over time. But in modern society, friends suddenly break off not because they don't want to keep in touch, but because the pressure of life is too great, and many trivial things cause everyone to have no energy to bother others in the parents.

may occasionally want to contact the relationship, but he is afraid that others will think that he will disturb him, so in the end he can only choose to give up. The blind waiter thought about contacting friends who had broken off friendship for a long time, but because the time interval was too long, the other party might not be able to remember his old friend, so he could only put down his mobile phone and muttered for a long time. So it's not that I don't want to connect, it's that life has consumed time and energy, and friendship has been blocked by various factors.

For the post-80s and post-90s, in their youth, message communication was not so convenient. Everyone still uses the landline at home, and once they go out, they may lose contact, unlike today's children, whose mobile phones do not leave their bodies, and can be contacted at any time on various platforms or ** text messages. At that time, when the Internet was just popularized, everyone was still keen to connect on the computer and using social platforms, but now that I think about it, it was also a good time, although all kinds of materials were scarce, but people were full of affection.

Now that I think about the people and things at the beginning, many friends have lost contact, so what is it like to suddenly remember a friend who has been broken off for a long time? And when you think about it, do you still reach out to them? <>

When I was young, because I was energetic, I could meet a lot of new friends, and curiosity and freshness came to my heart, so I didn't care if my old friends would be disconnected, where are those best friends now, and how is my life? As we grow older, we understand more and more that old friends are the representatives of time, the review of youth, the knowledge of the roots, and the incomparable number of new friends. <>

If a friend who has been cut off for a long time is quietly covered and suddenly contacted, I believe that everyone will not be able to refuse, and they will continue to be contacted. It is said that when people get older, they become sensual animals, and they are extremely nostalgic for the past. But if the friends who have collapsed in the past are not the same people as themselves, they are not the same way, in fact, even after middle age, they are only general friends, not deep friends, nostalgic for the past, looking forward to the future, there are different paths.

A person's life is said to be predestined, but it is also rewritten by himself. The path that everyone walks is made by their own efforts and sweat. Old friends are the symbol and witness of the way they came, and all will be nostalgic and feel cordial.

Practicing them is actually equivalent to connecting with the former self, the former young teenager.

It's a shame to suddenly remember a friend you've been off for a long time, but there's a good chance I won't reach out to them.

When I lose a good friend, I feel uncomfortable, the pure state is very blocked, and the mood is also very low, this feeling may last for a long time, mainly depending on the status of this friend in my heart.

Be a good friend"That is the kind of relationship between two people, the kind that is very close to each other, the boy breaks off the relationship, and there is an indescribable discomfort in his heart, and he feels that he has lost something important in his life.

Or maybe it's like your habits for many years have suddenly changed, even if a long time has passed, it's still hard to let go of the thought of it, and it may be the most suitable for boys to drown your sorrows with wine.

But if you are like a girl, your best friend who has played well for many years breaks off her relationship, and when no one is in love, she may unnaturally cry uncontrollably, and she can't hold it back, and she finds another girl who has a good time to talk about her emotions, and that feeling is like losing this, her best friend is the only one in her life, and she will never meet a similar friend in the future.

Everyone has emotions, so when you are friends outside, you should learn to get along and communicate, and between friends, you should respect, understand, and trust each other. We should make more friends worthy of deep friendship, and we should also learn to give up some meaningless friends, after all, energy is limited, not many friends, but essence.

Conclusion] As the saying goes, many friends have many roads, and who doesn't have a few friends in life. As long as we know how to behave in the world and understand each other, know how to communicate with each other to eliminate misunderstandings, and try to keep friends within the scope of our friendship, because friends are also a kind of fate, may our respective friendship circles be unbreakable!

We all feel reluctant and sad about the lost friendship. However, the relationship between people is mutual, and if the other party suddenly breaks off the relationship with you, it may be due to various reasons, such as changes in the life of Chongshan, personality, interests and other factors. Therefore, first of all, we need to understand the other person's thoughts and feelings, and try to look at the problem from the other person's point of view.

Secondly, we also need to accept the reality that there are some things that we cannot change. If the other party has already made a decision, we should respect their choice and let both parties be relieved. We can choose to let go of the unpleasantness of the past and move on to find new friendships and relationships.

Finally, we can also reflect on our own behavior and attitude in the friendship, see if there are any problems that caused the breakdown of the friendship, and try to correct it. Not only will this help us better deal with lost friendships, but it will also allow us to become more mature and good in our future interpersonal interactions.

I once broke up because a friend borrowed money and didn't pay it back, and such a friend is not worth my heart.

Everyone will reacquaint themselves with some people with some losses in their lives, and I have had such an experience. A friend who borrowed money and didn't pay it back, I don't think it's worth it for me to get along with him with my heart, and breaking off friendship may be better for both of you.

Everyone can choose how to get along with people, but people who have lost credibility are no longer popular.

It was not long after I graduated from college, my job was just a little more stable, and I had saved a little bit of money. A friend called ** and said to borrow money, because I have known each other for several years, I was embarrassed to refuse, and the two agreed to repay me in the second month, and I directly transferred the money to him.

But when it came to the appointed time, not only did he not pay back the money, but he didn't even hit **. At that time, I was too embarrassed to ask for the account, and I explained to the other party in my heart that I might be too busy to forget, and then waited for more than a month.

He never paid me back, knowing that one day I had something to use money, and when I called ** to ask him for it, he still told me that I had no money to pay me back. I don't know what kind of attitude to use to face such a person, I can only say that my eyes are really bad.

The two slowly broke off contact, and I used some of the money to get to know someone again.

I have been beaten several times after that, but he always pushes back and is unwilling to return me. After that, I didn't ask him for him again, and I didn't take the initiative to contact me.

The two of them lost contact like this, and I re-acquainted myself with a friend with a certain amount of financial loss. This makes me a little upset, and it also makes me a little sad. It's true that a friend like him is not worth my heart, but I still feel a little sorry for my money.

In real life, as I get older, I become more and more reluctant to lend money to others because I am afraid of meeting people like that again. If I don't trust someone enough, I'm not willing to borrow money anymore.

Maybe growth is always accompanied by harm, but people will grow up one day.