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Truth be told, there's no substitute for making decisions. As an outsider, from an objective point of view, I don't recommend you to give birth. It's not about whether your boyfriend is worth entrusting, just about your current seemingly chaotic state.
The human mind is often prone to make vague decisions in a state of confusion. At this time, I still hope that you can analyze the current state in detail. I don't know, are you struggling with marrying your boyfriend or having children?
Does it mean that if you don't have children, you won't marry him for a while? I don't think there is a contradiction between getting married and having children, if you think this man is worthy of trust, then get married, but the current state is not suitable for having children, then don't have children. It's not that you can't get married if you don't have children.
Isn't it okay, don't want this child first, you work hard for life first, and then have children when it is suitable. There is no retribution or retribution, every girl will encounter the same or more difficult things as you on the road of life, but no matter what, we have to work hard to be strong, afraid that nothing can be changed, if your mother and you are afraid that marrying a man in the future will make you suffer, then why not protect yourself through your own strength, and your heart can really resist the harm of the outside world. So, children, whether to want or not, is not based on your current emotional state, but according to your physical condition, financial ability, and plans for the future.
Believe me, no one can hurt you, whether it is physical or financial, you have to make yourself strong through your own strength. Whether this man is good or not, it's not something you can control now, what you can control is your own destiny, so let's say, don't spend your energy on things that you can't master. Remember that from now on, whether you choose to have or not, you have to work hard to plan your life, exclude your boyfriend, and really plan for yourself.
Whether it's planning a good job, or working hard for your own career, in short, I hope you can have your own financial strength, a healthy and beautiful body, and a beautiful and rich life like those girls with strong hearts. And such a life is not built on the body of a single man, but on our own hands. Come on!
Choose a bright path for yourself
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Then shengbai, what do you think.
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If he loves him, you should believe him, if he really loves you and cares about you, I think from a man's point of view, he still expects you to give birth to your child. I'm just thinking about it from a man's point of view or taking it myself, no one else can do this kind of thing, a fork in the road in life, think about it carefully and then do it, and there is no turning back if you choose.
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1。The first thing you need to do now is to determine whether your ovarian teratoma is benign or malignant, whether it has any effect on the child, and whether it has an effect on future pregnancies.
2。It's saying that you are not married yet, and it is already difficult for the current society to support yourself, and you have to be responsible for raising children. Can you take that responsibility?
3。Are you not confident in yourself or not in him?
Figure out the above points and you'll know.
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God will retribution, which means: the emperor will live up to his wishes, work hard to do good and accumulate virtue, and there will be good rewards for paying; God is fair and just, the wicked have their own evil grinding, and the wicked will get the punishment they deserve after doing bad things.
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Well, it's up to you to complain. Pointing to the heavens and scolding the earth. It will definitely be retribution. So it's all up to you. You can't blame others. All your blessings. It's all about repairing in the previous life. Cherish the blessings in this life. This is important.
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Being hit by a car may just be an accident and coincidence! But whether you suffer retribution or not, it's better not to scold! Besides, even if you scold God, it won't help.
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God can't scold, you must respect him....I believe that God is fair, just, selfless, and honest....God has eyes, people are doing it, and the sky is watching....God will never wrong anyone...Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil....Where there is a cause, there is an effect......Human fate is predestined....If you don't do good deeds, God won't let go of ......It's not that you don't report it, the time has not come.
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Never slander the sages, there are Confucius, Lao Tzu, you can't make jokes about them, ***, ***, and the current ****, you can't say it, because these people have contributed to the country and society. By slandering them, you are undermining your own good fortune. I recommend you a book "The Four Disciplines of Lifan".
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It is recommended that you read the feeling of Fan Sixun and speak of reason.
Some people have done a lot of good deeds in their lives, benefiting others and benefiting sentient beings.
After death, I believe that there will be these shelters.
So saints, great people, good people, religious people, don't slander them.
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There is no evidence of retribution, but this kind of thing is better not to be scolded, and not to use yourself as a test subject.
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As the saying goes, people are doing it, and the sky is watching. Be a responsible, positive, down-to-earth, upward, and don't complain, there will always be blessings. And as a person who only complains, the situation will only get worse.
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You scold again now, and if you get hit again, it will prove that it will be, and if you don't, it will prove that it is just a coincidence.
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No, because the "heaven" in traditional Chinese culture, unlike the supreme gods in foreign religions (such as Yahweh and Allah), is not a personified existence, and there is no joy, anger or sorrow.
Heaven and earth are not benevolent, with all things as dogs", many people know this sentence, but do not really understand its connotation, Taoism believes that heaven and earth are just the space for giving birth to all things, there is no thinking and emotion, neither desire, nor desire, the existence and development of all things is natural, heaven and earth will only run ruthlessly and selflessly, silently promoting the development of "Tao", and the way of heaven and earth is the highest standard in the world, no individual can reverse and disobey, as the so-called "those who follow the sky prosper, those who go against the sky die", the survival of the fittest, It is the truth of nature, "to treat all things as dogs", not out of contempt and indifference, but precisely because of the equal treatment of all things.
For the "sky", you love it, you will not be looked down upon by it, resentful of it, and will not be particularly targeted by it, those who go against the sky have their own way of heaven to crush, and others will not care at all, China's God has no thoughts and emotions, how can he be as careful as those foreign Mao gods, and compete with mortals at every turn? So the subject is unlucky, God doesn't carry this pot o( o.
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There are many sufferings in the world, but they have always been good people, and they do not live long and the scourge will last for thousands of years! There are many people in the world who worship him and ask for him, but have you ever seen God do justice??? If anything, he is just a blind and deaf man who ignores the sufferings of the world! What if this kind of waste just scolds him?
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It's just a coincidence, I think as long as you don't do things that hurt nature and reason, don't be wicked and bad, there will be no bad retribution.
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Oh my God, what the hell is it. There really is. Find it out and I'll take a look. I just wanted to slaughter it and drink it.
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At present, the most advanced astronomical telescopes around the world have not seen him, and it is estimated that he will not hear the curses of the world.
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I've been wronged and wronged too much since I was a child, bullied too much, and hurt too much, but I don't see God helping me?
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It depends on whether you believe it or not, if you don't believe it, you are really unlucky.
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No, it's all a superstition.
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If you create karma, you will have a bitter retribution, no matter who the target is.
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No, countless people have scolded it since ancient times, have you seen it take care of it?
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Retribution is not something that ordinary people can measure, but according to the five precepts, even positive mistakes can roughly judge the good and the bad, and it is difficult to say which aspect of the accident has limited personal ability.
It is also possible to judge the defects of the person's good fortune in the other way, and we can see what mistakes the person has in the causes.
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Why, ma, God
The last is to be a gentle and kind person, and the old lady will love you ू
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No, they have their reincarnation, not the same as the common people.
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Yes, according to his karma, he will become a human being, and he will go to hell when he should go to hell.
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Yes, God does a lot of evil, and he will definitely die a miserable death.
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It's just that you're mentally fantasizing about him very well, and it's really not as happy together as you think, so I suggest you find a boyfriend and divert your attention. Just put him in your mind, don't try to pursue him, whether he's good or not, you're going to be disappointed.