Have you ever recognized someone in a split second?

Yes, but maybe you can't see it clearly, everyone is very esoteric. Sometimes the person who plays well with you has nothing to say and share, but maybe one of his actions, a look, and a sentence will make you see a certain shortcoming of this person, but this shortcoming is that you can't stand it as a friend, and you may ignore other advantages because of this shortcoming, but this shortcoming may cause you to have different views and different behaviors, maybe his three views are not correct, then you can't be friends, and a person's character will naturally come out. This sudden seeing of a person's character is a surprise, more of a disappointment, and it will linger in your mind, impressed, so if you see it through, don't make this friend.

It's not easy to see a person clearly, but because of something, this person's instantaneous attitude, words and deeds, people can see the unknown side of this person, especially the big difference from the previous cognition, only then will they feel that the person in front of them has been torn off a layer of disguise, and they will have a clearer understanding of this person. It's a pity that this perception is usually disappointed or even hopeless, and since then I have drawn a clear line in my heart about this person.

I remember when I was working in the field before, I went out at about six o'clock in the morning after seven o'clock in the morning, and I met a person suspected of having mental problems on the road who had been following me, I stopped him, I walked him, and then I ran crazy and I heard him chasing me behind me, I was scared, but fortunately it was close to the company, I ran into the company in one breath, and the person did not follow up. I was really scared to tell my boyfriend about it just to find comfort. As a result, my boyfriend said that this kind of thing can happen during the day, and you see if it is dangerous for you to go back so late at night.

I? In the evening, because the company was just starting out during that time, everyone got off work together at seven or eight o'clock every day, and then went to dinner, and colleagues with cars would send us home, what does it have to do with what I encountered in the morning? I sought comfort but was educated, At that moment, my heart was cold, and I had recently encountered some things in the same house, and I was really seriously considering whether this man was suitable to go with me to the end.

When I was a freshman, I went to buy materials with two roommates, a book of 11, and we went directly to prepare to pay, and suddenly roommate A said to the boss: "We bought three books together, it's a **, a book of ten yuan." "The boss agreed, roommate A paid 30, out of the bookstore, roommate A said to the two of us, this book is my price, it has nothing to do with you two, you still have to give me 11 (very serious expression, not a joking tone).

I didn't say anything at the time, silently took out my mobile phone and transferred 11 yuan to him, glad that I saw a person clearly in my freshman year, and I decided that this person was not worthy of deep friendship in the future, although this is a small thing, but the next few years proved that my original decision was not wrong.

Many, spending a lot of money to go to another city for an unpleasant trip to that friend you think you are. In the constant inexplicable cold violence and the infinite temper she must have created, and she had no respect for my parents at all. The sincere people who paid were all jokes, and I felt that after so many years of friendship, it turned out that it could be said that it was lost, just because I saw this self-righteous friend clearly.

Yes, it's all just what I think I am.

After work last night, I went for a run with my friends, and I didn't bring my mobile phone, and I found that my stomach hurt badly halfway through the run. So he said to his friend, "You go buy a wrap of paper for me, and I'll go to the toilet."

I waited for almost half an hour and didn't see him coming, his legs were weak, he couldn't smoke it, and there was no one in the toilet. I thought I'd kill him when I got out. When I walked to the door, I saw him holding the bun and said, "Why did you come out, the bun is cold".

I used to have a good friend and we've always been really good. Once, when I lost my living expenses and asked her to borrow money, she said no, and I thought she really didn't have it, so I didn't think much about it and borrowed money from the teacher. Later, my tablemate said, "My friend has money, so why don't I borrow it from her?"

At that moment, my heart pressed against the stone, and it was really uncomfortable.

Yes, because it's not difficult, maybe it was your thinking habits that constrained you before, and you couldn't recognize a person in time, but when you improve yourself, you can recognize a person in an instant.

I have also tried to recognize a person in a split second, because a person's greed and selfishness are unintentionally revealed. And no matter how disguised a person is, there will always be a moment to show his stuffing.

Yes. When I was in trouble and needed help, I saw my friend for what he really was.

I felt that way, and I recognized this person as my best friend for many years, and from that moment on, it refreshed my perception of him.

Yes. I usually play very well, I am in harmony with me on the surface, and I am praised to my face, but I am said bad things behind my back. I told the teacher that I didn't want to push it to her, but she actually took the initiative to let me give it to her.

When you are facing a desperate situation, you can see a person most clearly, and if this person can help you, it should be worthy of deep friendship.

In the process of a trip, when planning the travel route, I recognized whether it was someone who really treated me well.

When I'm in trouble, really help me, don't watch the excitement, and don't stand by. When your life is not satisfactory, it is the best time to see the essence of a person, and it is also the best time to distinguish fox friends and dog friends.

When it comes time to get them to pay back. I once had a friend, we had a very good relationship at the time, he asked me to borrow money and lent him without thinking about it, but when I ran out of money and asked him for money, he directly blocked my WeChat, and I haven't contacted this person since then.

Recognize a person when you encounter greater difficulties, and those who are willing to help you when you are in trouble are true friends, and those who hide when you ask for help should quickly cut off contact.

Only when you encounter difficulties can you really recognize a person, whether it is friendship or love, you can be well tested.

When you need help the most, this person who thinks he is your friend, not only does he not help, but he also falls into the trap.

The best best friend, in a difficult time, she ignored me and didn't pick up my **, in this case I recognized clearly, this person is not my real friend at all.

Yes, this man hooked up with my best friend when he was in the middle of the match, was with my best friend, and showed off in front of me.

Yes, there will always be obsession when falling in love, but often after that difficulty is overcome, an inadvertent collision will collapse the fortress that I have built, my boyfriend chatted with other women, I warned again and again, and then I don't know how, I decided to give up.

Yes, I used to have a friend who had a good relationship and lent him a sum of money before, but when I asked him to pay him back, he had many excuses, and then he broke off contact.

Yes, my roommate thought it was good at first, but he was aggressive every time, and those words pierced your heart like a knife, and the key is that he didn't feel anything. Even if you buy a dress, she will be picky, and maybe the moment he speaks, I think we may not be all the way.

I was very afraid of dogs, and once I went to school with my friends, and I met a very fierce dog, and she actually pushed me out, and my heart was cold.

Yes, for example, the interaction between friends. Sometimes I can see him slapping other people's asses behind them, and I just smile and don't speak.

Some. When one of my roommates secretly spoke ill of another roommate, I knew that this woman was not someone worthy of deep friendship.

Yes, I was misunderstood by someone once, and I wanted my best friend to help me prove and explain, but she chose to be silent, and she was very disappointed in her at this moment, and saw through this person.

For example, I recognize a person when it comes to borrowing money.

Yes He borrowed money from me and didn't pay it back, and then urged him to tell me that he didn't have any money, but when he went on a trip.

No. The people I met were very kind, they were the same on the outside.

Yes, when she smiled and said "no", I recognized her completely.

My best friend, super beautiful, I have been her flower messenger for a long time. But she was often harassed by a boy. And she has a soft personality and can't be tough, and I've always been her block.

One day it was like this again, and then she went back to the dorm to look for me, and was angry with the boy because she was being.

Then, this friend who was still crying just now said to the boy in front of me, "It's okay, I know it's just a joke." I'm so happy, I'm really fine! "I knew at that moment that we might be playing together again in the future, and I would go shopping arm in arm with her, but we would never be close again.

I am an extrovert. I'm also in that club, and I don't have any acquaintances. I feel that she has been wronged, and I have to defend her, which is what I should do as a friend.

When I decided to quit, I was ready to quit the club. Ready to be treated as a shrew by an unfamiliar person. But are you treating the person who comforts you when you cry?

These people, it's really terrible, she cried softly to you, but she quietly stabbed you behind the back, and this knife stabbed me in the heart, impartially.

Yes, it's really hard to be suspicious of someone you trust.

There was a man who was deep.

The land makes me feel this way, and that's my good friend. He deceived me deeply, and I felt at that moment. I have a deep understanding of what kind of person he is.

When I was in person, I was very enthusiastic about you, very good, but I often stumbled you behind the scenes. I really lost my eyes on such people.

I suddenly recognized my ex-boyfriend in an instant. Because of a class party, there was a boy in the class who drank too much and wanted to insult me, but I strongly broke free. Later I told my boyfriend about it, and he just said who let you go to this kind of party.

At that moment, I felt that he was really too cowardly, and he didn't even want to seek justice for me, and I still had something to do, so I broke up.

To recognize a person, I don't rely on one or two things, or even three or five things. To understand a person, you have to pay attention to all about a person. Instead of a few things, but the personality and dynamics of the whole person, collecting perceptual materials, and then making rational judgments.

A rational person's judgment on the object of judgment should already be qualitative.

In fact, there are many times in real life that let us recognize each other, for example, once the unit voted for the best employee, I usually have a good relationship with the colleague opposite, but that day because of the work awkward, when it was almost time to vote, I still voted for her, because I think we are a department, to be united, although today is awkward, but we are still colleagues.

Yes. She spoke ill of others in front of me, and I recognized her love for provoking people's hearts.

When I was deceived by a friend, I suddenly recognized a person in an instant, and I used to have a very good friend. I paid a lot for him, he borrowed money from me, I didn't say a word but he didn't pay it back, he blocked me, and not only that, but he orchestrated me behind my back.

The wine is not a true gentleman, and the wealth is clearly distinguished, and money can test a person's humanity the most. Once, a few of our friends went to a friend's house for a wedding drink, and a friend borrowed 500 yuan from me as a gift without any money, but he never paid me back, and I forgot about it. One day when the two of us were talking, I suddenly remembered that he hadn't paid me back the 500 yuan.

As a result, he said that he didn't borrow it from me, but from another person, so I turned on my phone speakerphone and asked him to listen to me call the person. The man said that he either borrowed it from him or borrowed it from me, and my friend said to me after hearing this: "Pay you back, you have forgotten it, as soon as he said this, I was speechless, and 500 yuan tested a person.

Therefore, when people interact with each other, they can always recognize a person through one thing at a certain moment.

No. I always feel that human beings are very complex animals, and they are always in flux, and it is not easy to recognize, let alone a moment.

Yes. My classmates had a very good attitude when they borrowed money from me, but now they don't pay back the money they owe, and their attitude is still very arrogant.

Yes, I have a very good relationship with my lower bunk, when she celebrated her birthday, the two of us wanted to go out to play, and then I was heard by a general relationship in the dormitory and shouted several people together, let my lower bunk treat, after eating late, I lived outside, the next morning the school had activities at more than 7 o'clock to gather, how to call her at six o'clock in the morning to get up, I and I have cleaned up the bunk, and called him to start all kinds of not help him clean up, take a taxi back to school, a few people in the dormitory who didn't go just got up, all kinds of faces, I didn't want to tell him to go, but I wasn't happy.

Yes One rainy day, I waited for my roommate to deliver an umbrella for two hours, and when I got wet in the rain, I went to the dormitory and asked me why I came back, and I was about to pick me up, but I said no.