Sincere giving, why is it always hurt in exchange?

Love is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, you should not want to get the other party in return if you give, if the other party also loves you, it will also pay for you. Whether you get it or not, it only depends on whether the two are happy. Since there is no return for giving, it proves that he does not love you.

Don't regret it if you pay, because you really love it. It is also a kind of happiness that gives you the opportunity to give true love. Isn't it?

Love is a kind of giving, not a kind of getting, and you shouldn't care about how much the other party can give you, because you have nothing in the first place.

There are no two people in the world who are born together, God is fair to everyone, never attached to any love, only with tolerance, understanding, trust to work together to build true love.

There is nothing difficult in the world, but I am afraid of people with hearts...

Take it easy, maintain an optimistic attitude, no matter how much you think about it, you still have to face it, it's better to eat, sleep, and you don't have to add extra burdens to yourself... Believe in yourself and you can do it ...

Life that's too easy isn't much fun, right?

Love is not a memory, a process, a result.

Love requires both parties to be committed, tolerated with each other, and care for each other.

Love is unspeakable, but it can be described in words.

Love can't be opened, but it can make you regret it for a lifetime.

Love has laughter and tears, bitterness and sweetness.

Love, sweet and sour, all kinds of tastes.

Love starts easily and breaks up painfully.

The love process is beautiful, but the ending is not.

Love needs to slow down.

Love runs too fast and falls.

Love is like a three-legged game for two.

Love requires a little bit of tacit cooperation.

Love is built in the hearts of both parties.

Love is not the only thing in life, but it is the focus of life.

Love transcends time and space and age has no distance.

Love brings two hearts closer to each other.

Love makes you desperate.

Love is a nonsensical joke.

Love can't be caught.

Love can't feel its presence.

Love can know its departure.

Love is only for two people together.

Love can't be perfect, but it's always something to look forward to.

Love is a type of happiness.

Love is a cup of coffee with milk sweet honey.

Love makes people powerless.

Love needs to be blessed.

Love requires mutual trust.

Love is not a game and there is no winning or losing.

Love must be faced seriously every second.

Love should be honest and don't run away.

Love has too much to learn, but too little to understand.

Love can't be repeated is not a game.

Love takes many, many things to learn.

Love is not difficult to say, it is easy to say, only love.

That only shows that you haven't given enough to impress the other person with your heart.

First of all, there is a certain problem with this view of emotion. If a person reciprocates feelings only because the other person loves them, rather than resonating with them based on real emotions, then the relationship may be based on hypocrisy and disregard for the other person's inner feelings. If the situation worsens, such a person may turn off the emotional output like a machine, or even find another person who loves him.

Secondly, people's psychological states and emotions are very complex and cannot be determined simply by who loves me and who I love. When we want to build a long-term stable relationship, we should base ourselves on genuine emotions and communicate with each other and share our own lives and futures.

Therefore, we should maintain an objective and rational attitude towards this emotional outlook, and try to understand and respect the inner feelings of others, rather than actively seeking to be loved and reciprocated.

Of course this is not the case, it's just that some people meet unladylike people and meet some scumbags or scumbags, and they feel that the pay is inversely proportional to the return. Generally speaking, as long as a person feels that the other person truly loves him/her, he will reciprocate and be deeply moved.

Some girls are more humble, especially in love, they always rely on their boyfriends, and they will agree to all the requests made by their boyfriends, and they will not refute their boyfriends at all. This kind of love is not very good, and it may make the boyfriend very arrogant and think that the girlfriend is inseparable from him. In this way, the more sincere you are, the more you will not reap the reward, but will suffer a lot of damage.

In the end, the boy will hate the girl, thinking that the girl's love makes him very stressed, so he will break up with the girl, so that the girl will be traumatized. Such a boy is very irresponsible, and he is also a proper scumbag. may end up being backlashed, and if you don't like it in front of the girls you like, you will be ridiculed by girls.

This is the retribution of evil, everyone has to bear the corresponding consequences for their past mistakes, and it is impossible to be good alone.

When you feel that your efforts are not rewarded, you should stop your losses in time, stop blindly paying, and learn to take. If you always indulge others, you will eventually be hurt, especially if a girl is easily addicted to a relationship. Love should be very beautiful, it should make two people better and better, not one person to give and the other to enjoy, this is not love at all, just blindly asking or blindly giving, not a single arrow.

Only when two people's hearts are tightly relied on together, they can understand each other's affairs, and they can understand each other's hearts, and this kind of relationship will become better and better.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, you should keep the bottom line in love, have reason, and don't let the other party trample on your dignity. When you find that the other party doesn't care about you, you should say break up and don't put up with it anymore.

Yes, if a person often gives in the relationship and does not compare it with the return, the person will be hurt a lot, and in the end he will feel that he has paid a lot, and he will be particularly disappointed and desperate if he does not get a good return.

Not all of them are like this, but it's also very common for many people to give a lot but be vulnerable.

I don't think so, only sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, and only when you treat others with sincerity will you be recognized by others.

We will complain about our lover when our energy is very low and our mood is low, and the other party's behavior, whether good or bad, will inexplicably provoke us to get angry, lose our temper, and complain about why they make their love so tired and so hard. When we come to our senses, we regret why we behaved so badly, so immature, but we don't know why we are like this, and we hate ourselves for being out of control. Think about yourself or the friends around you, in your love life, although saying:

I love him very much, and I am willing to love with my heart and give unconditionally. But why did the results all become ugly and unkind, leading to physical and mental exhaustion, and love so hard? If we give too much unconditionally, we will be called stupid, and if we give too little, we will be said to be calculating.

In fact, only by living independently and with self-respect can we have the strength and ability to love and give. And often, we will blindly give, we think it is good, we think that the other party will also feel good, but after paying, we will not receive the expected results, and we will have resentment. Have we ever asked each other?

How do you want me to treat you? Powerful love always starts with self-love, so that love has a lot of space, at least to release one's emotional shackles in love. Many times, what we love is not love itself, but only the shackles in the relationship, which promotes the pathology of self-attachment.

Ask yourself, when you give for someone, do you want to get something in the relationship? What is your starting point? Is it to satisfy your own desires?

For example, if you feel that you have given a lot of affection to your lover, and you only ask your lover to spend more time with you, but the other party can't do it, and you feel that you have paid more than you, will you want to break up? Is that the right thing to do? Is it too selfish, not considerate and tolerant enough?

At this point, you should check whether you are giving only for the sake of desire, because they are not with you and make you scared and bored? If you only think about these things, it proves that your efforts are really just a desire to reciprocate, hoping to fill the void of your fear of loneliness through the feeling of being with someone. Then think about it, can't he be with you more?

What is he up to? This is the most important meaning of love: to cultivate yourself by getting along with each other, to grow yourself, and not to indulge in any more.

Some girls are very dependent and want to be accompanied by someone to give flowers and gifts. If you can transcend these desires, love will be elevated, become pure, self-considerate, and have a clear conscience, even if the other person eventually wants to break up due to various incidents, your love is still great and precious, because you have grown through love. Remember:

Destiny is the result of your choices. We can live for others, but don't go against our own principles and desires in order to satisfy others, otherwise you will lose your happiness.

Why aren't you getting something in return?

Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

Find someone who can endure hardships together, rather than enjoy them together.

Find someone you can bear together, not one you can run away with.

Find someone who can be responsible for you, not for love.

Love is blind, life is realistic.

Because love is nothing more than human beings trying to escape from reality.

and derivative products.

To escape reality, I look for love.

In search of love, I lost my true feelings.

lost his true feelings, only to find that he had already fallen into false love.

Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

What do you think love is?

A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss?

Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese dramas, and I have read too many articles of the ruffian Cai.

This may be part of love, but definitely not most of it.

The subject of love is life, living together.

You can accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her (him) to bear all the pressure?

Can you give her the temperature of her body, but can you give her (his) direction in life?

Have you ever imagined that when the enthusiasm fades, hugs no longer have any attraction to you?

How do you go along?

Maybe love is a sad fairy tale.

Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets, and when we finish reading it, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything.

It doesn't hurt when we give up someone who loves you very much.

Because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, and it is painful when we give up someone you love very much.

Because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no relationship, when we fall in love with someone who does not love you, that is the most painful, because it is very likely that we have no relationship with this person and have no part. If there is fate, time and space are not distances, if there is no fate, even if they get together, they can't understand, you don't have to care too much about everything, and you don't need to force it.

Let's just let everything go with the flow.

Since I don't believe why he has to give sincerely, there are many ways to love, but don't blindly love and give. Love is about trusting each other, and if you don't trust it, you will feel very uncomfortable in your heart...Ask yourself: If this person really isn't worth your heart, don't push yourself too hard. I wish you happiness

Who doesn't want to be able to be rewarded.

However, it backfires, and giving is not equal to return, so they are not proportional.

If you put it on a mathematical formula, it is absolutely proportional!

However, if it is a relationship, many people can't say anything about the relationship!

So why care how much you give? How much did he or she reciprocate?

If you really love him or her, what is it to pay for him!?

If he or she is happy, won't you be happy too!?

If what you pay is only what you want in return, then you still pay sincerely!

This is life, it is the process of growth.

When you face a lot of things like this, it's not strange because you've long been numb.

Some things don't just have to be paid, they also have to pay attention to a little way and method!

As long as you give sincerely, it will definitely be rewarded, maybe not tangible, but it is also a kind of wealth.

Life will make us less youthful and vigorous, it will make us more mature and stable.

That's life! Don't sigh, don't grieve.

The sun will shine on your sky, making your sky even more dazzling.