My boyfriend is very rich and wants a 150w bride price for two rooms one for my brother , if he doe

If I were your boyfriend, a girlfriend like you, I definitely wouldn't want it, because I can't afford to help my brother. When you help your brother like this, you are not actually helping him, you are harming him.

I don't think you should break up because it's right for your boyfriend not to give it to you, after all, it's normal to marry you and give a bride price, but it's not normal to buy a house for your brother.

Your boyfriend is rich, and that shouldn't be the reason you ask him for that much money. Marriage is the creation of a new family by two families, rather than one family helping the other.

A girl, now the bride price money is really hotly discussed. The bride price money cannot be ignored, and the customs handed down by the ancestors for thousands of years cannot be broken, which is a problem to give more or less.

Excluding the custom of changing relatives in some places, the family situation of both parties is generally found out before marriage. It is okay to increase or decrease the bride price according to local customs. If you have money or want to show that you value other people's daughters enough, give them a little more, and everyone will be happy.

There is no money, everyone's mind is there, and it doesn't matter if you give less. Now that the conditions are closed, the bride price money is finally given to the newcomer, and few parents will keep it themselves, so it is better to be generous.

The woman should not have your family so rich, the bride price will give me such a little, it is not easy for parents to raise themselves, so that they feel that they are sold cheaply, or not valued by the psychology, you must know that the future days are the two of you, do not because the bride price money is just about to get married when the unhappy fuse is planted, resulting in the bride price after marriage for each other pigtails.

Man, don't compare, they are about to get married, other people's daughters who have worked hard to raise their daughters, just started to be filial to their parents, and they have become someone else's, since they are rich, they are not bad at this, after marriage, the two of them work together and will soon earn it back, not to mention that the husband may not really want you to make this money, it is through this to see the status of her daughter in your heart. Money is now the quickest way to measure things.

Don't pay attention to him, in some mountainous areas, in order to marry a daughter-in-law, they even borrow money to marry a wife, and even in the mountainous areas, they have to come back to 10,000 yuan, and they don't answer a mere 60,000 yuan, and you want to marry him and live a life, you are so good at talking now, you will be despised if you marry in the future, and 60,000 yuan is not too much, why should you accommodate them, not their accommodation?

Since he said so, you might as well go along with him.

To be honest, 60,000 is not much, and the bride price over there starts at 100,000.

But it's all a comparison of some people, and if you really love each other, you can subtract a little bit.

Is 60,000 yuan a lot of bride price? Let him think about it, he married a girl who was loved by his parents since he was a child, not the leftover cabbage picked by the vegetable market. If you can't take out the money for the time being, you can earn it, the days before marriage are a little harder, and the two of you work together after marriage.

The bride price of my family is at least 80,000 duba, because I am considerate of my boyfriend's family, dao

Let's just say that it's only sixty-six.

It's a good version, 60,000 6 also means that all the dowry is purchased, but the boyfriend's family has always said that the family has no money, and is only willing to give 36,000 according to their side, but the custom of our hometown is that the bride price is less because the woman has some physical defects or is not a serious person, I really don't understand why the boyfriend's family wants to be like this.

Listen to her, of course, you love vanity, woman

Indeed, I quite agree with your boyfriend's point of view I think you should negotiate the bride price again It is impossible not to have a bride price, but it is a question of how much, at least your boyfriend can afford it, otherwise your boyfriend will be in debt in order to marry you, and you will marry you Isn't it also you who will bear it together and will cause unhappiness between you for these debts in the future! I hope you've thought it through.

It's up to you, if he's your favorite, you're his. Even if he is poor, he should cherish it. If he is rich, you will not be happy in the future, and it will be miserable. Unless it's perfect!

It depends on your boyfriend's family situation. and your feelings for him.

Either it's bargaining with you to keep you from the bride price, or it's an excuse not wanting to be with you.

Summary. If you have a good relationship with your boyfriend and you don't think the $2,000 will make much of a difference to your relationship, then you might consider giving him $2,000. However, if your relationship is unstable, or if the $2,000 has a significant impact on your relationship, then you need to think carefully.

You need to communicate with your boyfriend and tell him what you think and feel in order to find a suitable solution. Whatever decision you make, make sure your decision is in line with your own values and principles, while also taking into account your future and overall relationship with your boyfriend.

My boyfriend gave 2,000 less dowry, and I said that it would be okay to give him 2,000.

If you have a good relationship with your boyfriend and you don't think the $2,000 will make much of a difference to your relationship, then you might consider giving him $2,000. However, if your relationship is unstable, or if the $2,000 has a significant impact on your relationship, then you need to think carefully. You need to communicate with your boyfriend and tell him what you think and feel in order to find a solution that is suitable for the world.

Whatever decision you make, make sure your decision is in line with your own values and principles, while also taking into account your future and overall relationship with your boyfriend.

Can you tell us more about that?

When dealing with the issue of bride price, it is important that both parties can agree and have common expectations for the future marriage. In your case, you are willing to give your boyfriend a bride price of two thousand dollars, which is a very considerate and generous act, but you also need to consider the following aspects:1

Communication: It's very important to have an open and honest communication with your boyfriend. You need to discuss why he has reservations about the bride price and whether it will affect your future marriage.

At the same time, you also need to express your opinion on the matter and seek his understanding and support. 2.Respect:

Every person and every family may have a different view of the bride price. It is important to respect the other person's ideas and try to find a solution that is acceptable to both parties. 3.

Fairness: You may need to consider fairness. If he has reservations about the bride price, does this mean that he may also have reservations about other parties (e.g., weddings, wedding receptions, etc.)?

Is this fair? 4.Financial Planning:

You may need to discuss together how to plan your finances. This includes your wedding budget, future housing, savings and investment plans, etc. 5.

Marriage Basis: The bride price is only one part of the marriage, and your marriage should be based on mutual love, respect, and understanding. If you disagree on the bride price, then you may need to discuss the foundation of your marriage in more depth and how to maintain and develop it.

Overall, your actions demonstrate your kindness and understanding, but the most important thing when dealing with the bride price issue is to seek a mutually acceptable solution and to ensure that this solution preserves the foundations of your marriage. Former defeat.

Summary. 2. If the other party's mother has words and deeds that damage your reputation, it is inevitable that your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will have conflicts in the future.

My boyfriend's parents don't like me, the reason is that I asked for a bride price of 100,000, his mother told my boyfriend to only give 50,000, my boyfriend told me that the bride price was only 50,000, let me compromise, I didn't compromise, his mother ran to other villages in three days, and told others at his door, his son talked about the object, the bride price was too much, and he said a lot of ugly things, ruining my reputation, his mother said that her eldest daughter-in-law didn't want the bride price, broke up, and now he is looking for me to get along well, he said that his parents will not get involved, Should I continue this relationship?

Hello, I am the cooperating lawyer of the consultation and have received your question.

In this case, it is still not recommended to continue.

Because from the man's family of origin, hidden harm has been caused to you.

1. In terms of the bride price, if you continue to be with the man later, it is not certain whether you can get the 50,000 yuan in the follow-up (as long as you compromise, it is really hard to say later).

2. If the other party's mother has words and deeds that damage your reputation, it is inevitable that your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will have conflicts in the future.

3. If this man only communicates with you according to the requirements of his parents, it means that the other party is not assertive enough.

To sum up: if you continue this relationship, it will be a heavy burden for yourself.

It seems that you are also thinking about your boyfriend, but you will also take into account the feelings of your parents!

You should tell your parents this sentence, your boyfriend can't take that much! My parents want a bride price.

It's nothing more than that he doesn't want to wronged his daughter, and now the old man usually gives the bride price money to his daughter! It mainly depends on the attitude of the man! If your boyfriend really can't get it, you can negotiate the amount of bride price you can get!

In this way, your parents will see that you are willing, and they will not mess around in this matter!

Now the bride price of 100,000 is really not much. When I got married, I went directly to the city to buy a house with the bride price, no one said anything, after more than six years, and then I worked in the local county, and bought a set in the county, and immediately renovated it, and I was ready to move in a year ago. The house in the city was sold a few days ago and earned more than 200,000 yuan.

<>No matter how sweet and affectionate you were before, if you can't talk about the bride price, it means that you are not suitable for marriageBecause the three views of two people are fundamentally different.

Even if one of you compromises, the issue will become a ticking time bomb in your marriage, and one day it may be ignited by one of your petty arguments. So it's better to find people who have the same ideas, and don't let this bomb be planted in the first place.

You feel that the bride price should be used by yourself, and your boyfriend thinks that you should use it to organize your wedding, otherwise your parents are selling their daughter. First of all, you need to be clear about the nature of the bride price. No matter how one thinks of the bride price as compensation for the upbringing of the woman's parents, or feudal customs, or something else.

From a legal point of view, it is a gift from the man to the woman because of the establishment of the marriage.

If the woman accepts the gift and becomes husband and wife, the bride price becomes the woman's personal property.

Therefore, the nature of the bride price is the woman's personal property, and the ownership belongs to the woman.

Secondly, the right to property.

disposition. Only the owner of the property has the right to dispose of his own property, and no one else has the right to interfere.

You can give the bride price money to your parents.

You can use the bride price as a dowry.

You can use the bride price money as a couple's marriage.

You can save the bride price money for your marriage.

You can also save the bride price money or buy what you like.

I think you should communicate with your boyfriend, and then discuss the bride price with your family, if you really love each other, the bride price can be appropriately reduced, and you should ask for the bride price according to the financial situation of your boyfriend's family.

If you love each other, discuss it to see if there is room for relaxation, if it's purely for money, there's no need to discuss, just break up with him, it's good for everyone.

I don't think you should break up, every relationship is very difficult, it is very likely that your boyfriend's family situation is not good, be more understanding.

You shouldn't break up, if their family conditions are really average, and you love your boyfriend very much, you can ask for less bride price.

Summary. I told my boyfriend's father that I wanted a bride price of 120,008+, but his father said to give 60,000+, why? Sister Huan.

It is better for the two parents to sit together and discuss the amount of bride price for marriage, or let the middleman make do with it.

If you say it yourself, it always feels a little inappropriate.

My mom whispered to me and told my boyfriend dad to get a bride price of 120,000.

He said that the reason for giving you 60,000 yuan is that they are the local price. The bride price is 60,000 yuan, so his family can't be more than others. The second reason is that their family's economic conditions are not particularly good, and they can't get more than 120,000 bride prices at once.

So offer to give you 60,000 dollars.

Is it appropriate for the man's family to be poor and self-inflicted?

This is the reason for my analysis, and you also have some knowledge about his family. Isn't his family's economic condition average?

So so. His family doesn't want to owe a lot of foreign debts because of your marriage.

Why. My boyfriend's dad doesn't like it, so he doesn't give me the bride price money I want.

Surely you've been to his house too. Can you feel that his dad is warm or cold to you?

I think it's mainly because of the poor family conditions. If he owes money, what will he pay back? He probably thought too much about this, so he cut off half of the bride price for you.