I find myself having a communication barrier, what should I do?

I don't like to talk much at home, kind of like you, but I wouldn't be like that when I'm somewhere else. I'm the class leader now, and this is all something I say and speak that I think is normal. Your own personality must be changed, I think your character must be more well-behaved, obedient, some things must have your own opinions, a stronger personality, and you must have confidence in yourself.

There is still a little less experience, stick to what you think is right, talk less, do more!

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.

A true friend is the wine of life. Although there are brothers, it is better to be friends.

Good friends are next to life, hell becomes heaven! The only thornless rose in the world is friendship.

No matter where you go, good luck will follow you along the way. Let's create a picturesque life.

Rejoice! Friends, no matter where you are, luck and happiness are always with you.

Yinhai is the note, the sail is the word, I wish you no worries and no greasy, take advantage of the wind and waves, and open up a great future.

Hello friends! I will never erase my memories and thoughts of you, please think of me once in a while.

Time can't dilute the wine of friendship, distance can't pull away the hand of missing, bless you, forever and ever!

I think everyone should stay calm and rational when they encounter this situation, think more and communicate with people they trust, which will increase their inner self-confidence, so as to make correct judgments, and also make our own lives better. 1. When talking, we must first know how to respond, if others are very interested in saying a lot of words, and you don't have any expression, it will make people feel very embarrassed or uninteresting, so that the light words can only end hastily, and there is no help to your language communication, so you usually have to respond to others in a timely manner when talking to others. 2. Communication attitude, respect the attitude of the other party when communicating is also very important, you should communicate modestly and friendly with the other party when communicating, and respect the other party when talking, keep leaning forward during the conversation, not leaning back, and can not lean on the chair, so that the whole person will appear lazy.

3. When talking, we should know how to listen patiently and listen to a point that should be paid attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, and listen to what the other party expresses clearly, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise it is like playing the piano to the cow, so that the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand. 4. Don't always be self-centered when talking, but also pay attention to an important point of the bureau, don't always think that what you say and do is very important, always take yourself as the center, and other people's is not important, this situation is to be eliminated, which can easily cause others to be disgusted, and will also leave a bad impression on others.

I haven't had such an experience, but I think that if this happens, there must be a reason, and we must communicate and coordinate with the relevant personnel, so that the effect will be better, and I will be more professional in the process of using it in the future.

Therefore, the ability to communicate is very important, and we must learn to improve our communication level in any situation, so that the problem solving effect will be ideal.

1.Try to be more considerate of the other person.

When you communicate with others, it is best to learn to understand others, if the other party's personality is more sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious, and if the other party is a more serious character, then when we communicate with others, we must fully understand and respect them, to communicate carefully and carefully, if the other party is a friend who doesn't know each other well, it is best to maintain respect for the appropriate exchange day of the day.

2.Learn to be respectful and understanding.

When we encounter problems that we don't understand, we should ask others for advice, respect others when communicating, don't talk endlessly, but learn to remain silent, let the other party express their opinions more, and when we encounter things we don't understand, don't rush to express them, we should learn to listen carefully, and give people a humble and serious attitude.

3.Communicate more about common interests.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to communicate their own topics of interest and like to express their knowledge to others, so we must first learn to understand and listen to others' opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone hopes that they can be understood and respected by others, and more exchanges of each other's expertise and knowledge are precisely to understand each other and have a common language with each other.

4.Pay attention to listening when you talk.

When communicating with others, it is necessary to learn to listen carefully and carefully, do not interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others, and only in this way can we reflect our sincerity and modesty and courtesy, so as to gain true friendship.

5.Try to praise others.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a kind of recognition of the other party's performance, when communicating with others, if we can properly express praise for the opinions expressed by others, this is undoubtedly to give the other party a feeling of respect and recognition, the other party will also very much agree with our understanding and respect for the town, at the same time the other party will also have a new understanding of us, effectively promote the happiness and smoothness of communication.

I think the best way to solve this problem is to strengthen your heart and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude.

And in life, we must know how to communicate and get along with others, so that when we encounter problems, more people can help us and work together to overcome difficulties and create a good life.

1. Use praise more in communication.

Only by praising others can you show your courage. Praising the merits of others will gain the respect of others, and at the same time, you will be more motivated to learn.

2. Communicate honestly.

In the process of communication, it is very important to be honest with the person you communicate with, and there is no concealment, honesty is an important step for you to deepen the cooperative relationship through communication. First of all, you can make the other party believe in yourself through your own honesty, and then drive the other party to be honest with you, and then promote the smooth and happy progress of communication.

3. State your reasons clearly when talking.

No matter what the problem is, why, how, what the reason is, etc., you must fully explain to the other party, even if there is no reason to act, you must inform the other party of your own considerations and ideas, and get the other party's understanding and support in action will be of good help to the development of communication and the development of the next situation.

4. Know how to listen when talking.

Listening is also a point to pay attention to in communication, when talking to others, we should take into account the feelings of others, but also listen to what the other party expresses, so that we can better communicate in language, otherwise the communication will not achieve the effect at all, and it is easy to misunderstand.

5. Don't always be self-centered.

When talking, we should also pay attention to an important point, don't always think that what you say and do is important, always take yourself as the center, and other people's is not important.

1) Communication disorders caused by differences in individual personality characteristics. Differences in personality, temperament, attitude, emotion, interests, etc., will become obstacles to information communication.

2) Barriers caused by differences in knowledge and experience. In information communication, if the gap between the experience level and knowledge level of the two sides is too large, the two sides often process the information according to the general understanding of experience, which widens the gap between mutual understanding and forms a communication barrier.

and 3) obstacles caused by differing attitudes, views and beliefs about information. The first is to recognize the differences. In management activities, it is still common for many employees and managers to ignore the role of information, which creates a great obstacle to normal information communication.

The second is the concept of interests. In a group, different members have different views on information and choose different emphases. Many employees only care about the information related to their material interests, but not about the organizational goals, management decisions, etc., which has also become an obstacle to information communication.

4) Impairment caused by poor language expression, communication and comprehension skills, and poor memory ability. When individuals pass to each other in communication, the same information has different meanings for different people's understanding, and employees in the organization often have different backs, different ways of speaking and styles, different understandings of the same things, and different personal understandings.

5) Mutual distrust and the fear of those in the ditch. Mutual distrust between the two parties can lead to deviations or delays in the transmission of information. In management practice, the success or failure of information communication mainly depends on the comprehensive and effective cooperation between superiors and superiors, leaders and employees.

However, in many cases, these collaborations are often hindered by the fear of the subordinates and the personal psychological qualities of both parties.

6) Obstacles caused by intuitive selection bias. Receiving and sending information is also a form of perception. However, for various reasons, people are always accustomed to receiving part of the information and discarding the other part, which is the selectivity of perception.

I'll give you a few suggestions that you can see as feasible:

1. Read more books, if you have time, you can take a look at Jin Yong's **, or take a look at some magazines, and recommend "Reader" and "Bosom Friend". Why do you want to read books, this is equivalent to practicing internal skills. Just know what I mean, don't say much.

Speak fluently or be able to talk rhetorically, you have to be something, right? Then do it.

2. Say tongue twisters for half an hour every day. Learn the easy ones first, then practice the harder ones!

3. Communicate and learn more with friends around you!

Fifth, you can read some communication books and learn some skills.

Hope you can improve your language skills!

Then do more and use your actions to gain the affirmation of others.