Is it too much for my girlfriend to ask for such a request?

My stepmom is 20 years younger than my dad, she has only been married to my family for 3 years, and my mother passed away due to illness when I was in college, I mean I wanted my girlfriend to please my stepmother.

Girlfriend said: Why should I please her? I didn't even use the word pleaser to my own parents.

Mutual respect is fine. She doesn't give birth to you and raise you, marriage can't help you, you won't see the child in the future, the child is still my parents, but she doesn't point fingers at your marriage, she has no right, her obligation is to take care of your father, this must be made clear. If you don't make it clear, there will be endless troubles in the future!!

If I don't please her, she will treat your father badly? Your idea is too naïve, she is good to your father, that is she willing, she likes your father, otherwise why would she marry your father?

Girlfriend said: It's not because you want to please her that she will be good to your father, but she is good to your father, that is what she is willing to do, no one forces her, if you don't please her, she is not good to your father, then her purpose of marrying your father is not pure. My girlfriend still has conditions, she said:

The new house must be written in your name, I do not ask to write my name, but it must be your name, if your mother is still alive, I have no opinion on writing your mother's name, but not now, this is my principle and requirement, your father's old house and property do not matter, he can give it to whoever he wants, but the new house must be your name...

Blank, this terrible void is eating away at my life! I sometimes think that if I could, even once, hold you into my heart, then this terrible void would be filled in its entirety. However, it can't be after all.

Other than that, I can't think of anything else in this world that can fill this gap. I have a lot, but my love for you swallows everything; I have a lot, but I would have nothing without your love! Without your love, I would be <> again

Life is also joyful, death is also a bitter sea of sinking. The sky is above, why do I embrace the world with a pilgrimage heart but always have no place to live? Why do you always give me a hundredfold pain after giving me a hint of sweetness?

With the blue sky above, is love the source of happiness or the root of misery? Why do we always punish the amorous beings of the world? The sky is above, who controls the cause and effect in the world?

Is all love and hate already predestined? The blue sky is above, why can't I change your mind after asking for all the gods and Buddhas in the sky? Why do you always turn a blind eye to everything I do?

The sky is above, is the marriage predestined? Can I change your mind? Should I leave it to my fate?

I don't think there's anything wrong with your girlfriend's talking, such a sane person, you have fun with her.

She has helped you analyze things clearly, what else do you not understand?

First, you must not interfere with your father's marital feelings, which is easy to cause gaps. Even if she is calculating your father, she has also paid her own energy, so whether it is for money or not, as long as your father is happy, you two can't care.

Second, you should also prepare for the worst of your father's property. Like you said, let your girlfriend slap in with your stepmother, how can you figure it out, your dad is so confused that he doesn't have his own opinion on dividing the family property, or is the relationship between you and your dad so bad that you need to maintain it through that woman? What is yours is yours, not yours, and you can't take it.

And then there's the inheritance law, isn't it still a little helpful?

Third, you must fill in your own name in your new house, and your girlfriend didn't let you write her name, so what are you not satisfied with?

To sum up, what your girlfriend does will give you a clear analysis, and you should use your brain more before you think it clearly.