What are the two minefields that men can t tread in married life?

First, it should be an extramarital affair. In this way, even if the two do not divorce in the end, they will not be able to return to the original state, and life will definitely not be too good. Second, the husband and wife have been in a cold war for a long time and are hostile to each other.

After doing this for a long time, there is no affection between husband and wife, and it is better to live comfortably alone.

Unfaithful to marriage, not painful to lover. In marriage, the price paid by the man for the betrayal of the marriage will be very large, and sometimes he will go bankrupt, and it will not hurt his lover, but it will also make him physically and mentally exhausted, and the two people may lose both in the end.

Domestic violence and the Cold War are minefields that cannot be stepped on, and violence between husband and wife is very undesirable, after all, violence cannot fundamentally solve the problem. The Cold War is also known as cold violence, no matter how big the knot and how angry you are, you can give each other a little time to calm down, but you must not have a long Cold War. It's over when it's cold.

I think in married life, a man must not betray and deceive a person who loves him, because this will bring a marriage to an end.

How to avoid possible problems in marriage life, let me talk about my opinion, first, men and women before marriage, there is love, is based on love in acquaintance and love and know each other, because many men and women are married soon after acquaintance, and there is no emotional foundation, if it is not based on love in the exchange, the relationship will be weaker and can not be tested in the demolition, I hope that men and women do not interact because of each other's economic conditions or with a different purpose, because such motives are not pure exchanges, After getting married, it is easy to have big problems, and then it will be too late to regret it. So be sure to think it through before you get married. Marriage is a lifelong affair, and marriage should not be treated as child's play.

Second, before getting married, when both parties are boyfriend and girlfriend, don't rush into marriage, you can live with each other for a while, you must first see if both parties have a common language, and whether both parties can tolerate each other's bad habits. Both sides look at each other's character. If the other party is a bad person, you can also break up in time before marriage to protect yourself.

It would be better if both parties had common interests and hobbies. 3. Since they are married, they must understand each other and help each other, think about each other, both men and women should not be too selfish, and they should treat each other as lovers, relatives and family members, share blessings and hardships, share more family affairs, and men and women are not tired of working together.

Understand each other's suffering and tiredness. If you don't do anything beyond the bottom line, some bad habits are more tolerant, of course, living together, some unhygienic habits still have to be changed, think more about each other, and consider each other more from each other's point of view. Fourth, when men and women have conflicts with each other's families, don't add fuel to the fire and make things bigger, at this time, for example, when my husband and my parents have conflicts, when everyone is impulsive, I don't want to speak and remain silent at this time, and when everyone is angry, everyone will naturally reconcile again, so that big things can be turned into small things.

Fifth, when the other party has illness and difficulties, do not dislike the other party, to help the other party through the difficulties, the partner who is blessed and enjoys the same difficulties is a truly good partner.

Whenever you encounter something, you must take into account the feelings of the other party, and often prepare some surprises for the wide collapse, and often prepare some gifts for the other party, if you have free time, you must also often prepare some delicious meals for the other party, and it happens that you even often have to take the other party out to travel with a smile, I think you can do this without stepping into the minefield of marriage.

After stepping into marriage, respect each other to take the ant preparation, to give each other some personal things to ease the space, do not destroy always together, usually more filial piety to each other's parents, two people go out to do more things that are conducive to the relationship, you can also create some surprises for each other will make your marriage particularly interesting.

Don't step into the marriage minefield in life, that is, to avoid not magnifying the other party's shortcomings, I want to attack his shortcomings, don't overpay and over-forbear, and learn to stop in moderation. Band touch.

Everyone has their own taboos in married life, most men's taboos include their wives getting too close to other members of the opposite sex, or their wives disrespecting their parents, or pointing fingers at their friends, etc., I haven't touched his taboos yet, after all, we both understand that there are some things that should not be commented too much.

Don't hurt their parents, and you can't say they can't, and you can't deny their abilities, no.

In marriage, a man should not go home all night, his wife will be very worried, insecure, don't treat his wife as a nanny, respect his wife's dedication, I didn't step on the pit, no matter how I go, I will tell my wife, take into account her feelings.