What s the most annoying thing about your family

The most annoying thing for me is that I live on the first floor, my upstairs is a rental house, the quality of the people who live in it is too poor, the adults often ping pong and ping-pong non-stop, and the children cry endlessly. I reported to the community about this, and it started again in three days. Finding the landlord to react, dismissed the tenant, and in less than three days, he lived in a migrant worker with a family, the children cried and didn't say anything, the adults often shouted and drank at home in groups of three or five, and cigarette butts and confetti were often thrown out of the window.

A family of three is happy and happy life is a very good feeling, but since last year my father took over my grandmother who lives in the countryside, life has ushered in earth-shaking changes, my mother is always angry after work every day, I can't get used to seeing my grandmother at home leisurely, but I can't see my grandmother sitting downstairs in the sun. This may be the traditional contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which makes me sad every time. Although my father reconciles the relationship every day, as the days go by, sparks will still occur.

Until now, the situation can happen at any time, and I will feel very uncomfortable when I quarrel, after all, they are all relatives, but now that I have grown up, it should be the responsibility of every family member to resolve family conflicts, so family harmony is the solution to troubles.

In fact, the thing that worries me the most is the contradiction between the brothers and the concubines, because people nowadays are too selfish and always want to take advantage, and some people want to fight for something, and they can't see that other brothers are better than him, they always want to take advantage of others to show their superiority. Fortunately, now we are living on our own ability, if you want to open a little, we can't afford to provoke, don't care, you are capable, you eat well, we don't blush, we just feel content.

My parents have been getting divorced recently and I feel very annoyed, my father is alcoholic, smoking, beating my mother, and making very little money, in my eyes I am a big rotten person, since I was a child, they have been arguing because of these things, and even fighting, but he sometimes treats us very well, saying that he hates him, and does not hate him, my mother really can't stand to divorce, I think my mother is justified every time she quarrels, but she speaks too badly, and she is very noisy.

The most annoying thing is that I am not confident in myself, I feel that I can't do anything, and I feel that I am useless. Everything can be done by someone else's hand, but for me, it feels harder than climbing a mountain.

Morning was the best time, but now it has become the most annoying time, every morning when I wake up, I always hear my mother's nagging, "get up for breakfast", "I can't afford to go to school anymore, I should be late", "It's a little cold today, wear more clothes". Can't I think of some of it myself? Please, Mom, don't say any more, okay?

The first thing I said when I got home from school was, "Have you finished your homework today?" and "Have you learned what the teacher said today?" ”。I'm really going to break down.

The most annoying thing is to encounter unexpected and difficult to solve problems, just like getting an illness, the illness comes like a mountain, and the illness goes like a thread. It's not that easy to solve the problem.

My grandmother passed away for several years, my grandmother left a house, when my grandmother was alive, she said that the house was sold to several aunts and had to share some money, and the rest of my father and uncle shared it equally, and there were several people who came to buy it in the past, and the price was still high, and my uncle just didn't sell it, and several aunts and my father said they wanted to sell it, and my uncle didn't say that the reason was not to sell, and he was noisy all day because of this incident.

It's hard to make money, and if you look at the last deal, you will die in a hurry. There is such a family owner here, who has taken a look at a kebab business, which makes money quickly, and opens with a few tables and a few catties of meat. After the opening of this kebab, the business was booming, and there was an endless stream of people who came to eat the skewers, and this scene was spotted by the neighbors, and it also went up non-stop.

The two families fought a ** war for hired customers, and they lowered each other's prices, so that no one could make money.

In fact, one of the things that annoys me is that every time I go home, my parents, seven aunts and eight aunts will tell me, hurry up and find a partner, you are not too young, and you will not be able to get married in a few years.

Children's marriage, if children can get married and live happily after marriage is our greatest wish as parents, children reach the marriageable age, can meet their other half, it is also a wish of parents' life!

When you are not married, you urge marriage, and when you get married, you give birth to a baby.

I was urged to marry by my parents, relatives and friends....Especially when the end of the year is approaching...

My parents are getting older, and I don't want to face the reality that they will leave me one day, only this worry.

<> there are a few moments when I am at home during the Chinese New Year that make me prefer to go to work rather than stay at home. The reason why these relatives don't like it is because these relatives nominally come to their own homes to pay New Year's greetings, but in fact they come to their own homes to compare, to brush their own sense of superiority and existence. For example, one of my relatives will ask me about my current situation when I come to my house for the Spring Festival, including whether my income is buying a house and a car in other places, and then she will hit me hard, saying how good her son is, and his income is several times that of mine.

There is also the Chinese New Year at home, my parents because I am over 30 years old, or remain single, they are worried that my marriage will often be nagged because of this, and even force me to go on a blind date, at this time, I would rather go back to work in the rent, than stay at home, although I know that their starting point is good, but emotional things can not be forced, they should also respect and take into account my feelings as much as possible,, Although my parents and I have repeatedly expressed our opinions, it is also difficult for them to accept it, which has become a headache for me when I go home for the Chinese New Year.

Hello! First of all, I wish you good health! The moon is cloudy and sunny, and the garden is lacking, and people have good and bad luck ......

For the fate of you and me, I will introduce you to the happy tips about eliminating "Cong Min's upset":

upset: "Don't hold back if you have something to say."

When encountering injustices, most people have the desire to vent and want to talk to someone. When people vent their worries, resentments, sadness, or anger, they feel a sense of relief. This kind of venting and confiding is a kind of need for people to seek psychological balance.

To confide is to pour out one's joys, angers, sorrows, and sorrows, especially anger and sorrow, to the other party without reservation. This is a kind of emotional distraction, and it is also a kind of psychological adjustment.

In life, we often encounter unsatisfactory things, and it is inevitable that there will be depression and trouble. If these boredoms and troubles accumulate in the mind for a long time, they will become a heavy mental burden and damage to physical and mental health.

A British psychologist believes that the troubles and depression accumulated in the heart are like a huge energy, if not released in time, like a time bomb, once triggered, it can cause a catastrophe, if it is vented or confided in time, it can be dispelled and avoided.

Confiding is a proven way to release bad emotions and a necessary means to get rid of bad mood. There are many people to confide in, whether it is a trusted relative, a confidant who can talk endlessly, or a stranger who has never known each other.

Confiding is the only way to vent bad emotions, and writing letters and journals can also make bad emotions get rid of between the lines. Playing ball, running, hiking, and getting some fresh air outside can make your anger flow with your sweat.

Crying can also alleviate bad feelings. When you go to the desert where no one shouts loudly, or sings, you can also use emotional transfer, or bury yourself in work, or enjoy entertainment programs such as ** and opera, in order to achieve psychological balance.

If you are satisfied with the above, please don't disappoint my kindness and answer in time.

Yes, the child's test results came down a few days ago, and it really hurt me to see the test results, I didn't expect my child's grades to be at the bottom of the class.

As a student, the most troublesome thing is studying, but I can't read a word when the exam is approaching, and I also learn that my exam results are quite unsatisfactory, and my efforts are in vain, I feel very disappointed, and I doubt my ability.

Yes, there are a lot of trivial things, but people must learn to self-regulate, and when the mood is good, the body will be good, and the unhappy things will be forgotten with the wind.

Being scolded by my dad Adjusting my mentality I think you can consider:

1. Don't always be in an environment, a change of environment (such as going to the Blind Brother Park or playing ball, etc.) can give yourself a new space to think about your own mentality, and sometimes it may suddenly become clear.

2. The mentality lies in the attitude, and it is difficult to untie the knot if you are obsessed with something.

3. Use interest to adjust your mentality and concentrate on doing what you are interested in, you can get a sense of accomplishment and sweep away the haze of the past.

4. Contentment and happiness, a person is unhappy mostly because some of his desires have not been realized, people's desires are infinite, so we must learn to be content and happy!

5. Know how to be grateful, I like Ouyang Feifei's "Grateful Heart" very much, with a grateful heart, you will find that the people and things around you are very beautiful!

6. Be helpful, you may think it's quite difficult, but you might as well try, when you help others, you will have a sense of pride and pride in your heart, and there will be a time when you have a "place to use"!

When encountering problems and stress, no matter who will be upset and unhappy, the key is to get out of this state in time and not fall into it. How to adjust it? Recommendations:

It is fundamental to carefully analyze the problems and pressures and actively find solutions. If you can't solve the problem, no one can be optimistic. If you can't solve it for a while, you have to find a channel for catharsis, and you can't hold it in your heart, you can try to do other things to distract yourself; You can take some leisure ways to relax yourself; You can chat with friends and relatives and ask them to help.

Anyway, you can't hold it alone, just go out and communicate with people more, you can be happy as much as you want, you can't be too depressed. Remember: you just have to do your best in everything.

The people I love the most did the things that disappointed me the most when they didn't understand me the most.