The object doesn t like to show affection in the circle of friends, what do you think?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-22
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Some happiness is just known by yourself, there is no need to show affection, and some are not really affectionate and happy even if they show every day.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Some people really believe that Xiu'en loves to die quickly, and they are not afraid of the other half getting angry or something, and they are not in love in the circle of friends.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Show affection This kind of thing depends on the individual, some people are just embarrassed, and they can't be forced to post on Moments, as long as they really like it, it's nothing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's easy to understand that people who are usually very low-key don't often show affection, life is their own, and it's not for others to see, so it's nothing.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Many boys don't put their feelings in the circle of friends, they just think that I am in love in life, and I don't need to be known.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My boyfriend is very good to me, but he just doesn't want to post on Moments because he disdains, because he thinks that I have passed mine, why should I send it out to let them point fingers.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It depends on the personality of your other half.,People who are usually quite introverted may really not want to show affection.,If it's a person who likes to post moments and doesn't show affection, it's a little suspicious.。

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then he still has a spare tire in the circle of friends, he has the other half but he doesn't post a news in the circle of friends, it is very likely that there is someone in the circle of friends who can't let him see his love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think I haven't really recognized myself yet, and the circle of friends is not only about friends but also parents, and this is also a place for the other party's family to see for the first time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Someone who falls in love likes to be in the circle of friends.

    It is understandable that it is not uncommon to show affection in public, let everyone know their happiness and sweetness, and also hope that friends can send blessings. But nowadays, more and more young people are in love but are unwilling to show affection in the circle of friends, and I personally think there are many reasons. For example, some people are not sure whether the relationship will lead to marriage and do not want to be too high-profile.

    There are also some people who have complex people in their circle of friends, so they don't like Li Shen's blind circle of friends. Some people feel that love is a very personal matter, so they don't want to be too public, and they don't want to make it public. Of course, there are also some scumbags or scumbags who are in love behind their backs, so they dare not show their affection publicly.

    Falling in love is a beautiful thing, not only our ordinary friends will send blessings to each other, but even the stars in the entertainment industry can't wait to announce their love after falling in love, and I hope everyone will give blessings. Therefore, some people like to show their affection publicly in the circle of friends, which is also a common phenomenon for us in the past. Nowadays, many young people no longer like to show affection in the circle of friends, and even some news is rarely posted.

    The reason for this is that many people don't want their feelings to be public, and prefer to choose to live their lives quietly, even if they are friends, they are no longer outspoken.

    There are too many uncertainties in love, and it is also a reason why more and more people don't want to show affection in the circle of friends. We know that falling in love is an act that both parties do not have, so things that are beyond the control of one party will happen, and sometimes a breakup is inevitable. And today's young people are sure that the relationship is fast, and the breakup is also not dragging, so no one dares to guarantee that the lovers will go on forever.

    If you frequently show affection in the circle of friends, if you break up in the future, it will be embarrassing for friends to ask. Of course, there are also people who simply don't want others to know that they are in love with and who they are in love with. There are personal reasons here, and there are friend reasons as well.

    Therefore, today's young people are less and less fond of showing affection in the circle of friends, and the reasons are complicated. Some people are afraid of embarrassment after a breakup, and it is troublesome to delete the circle of friends, and some people feel that this is a purely private matter and do not want to make it public, of course, it does not exclude people who have other ideas.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is because they don't take their feelings seriously, so they don't want to show affection in their circle of friends.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Personally, I think it's because they're starting to fall in love in a low-key way, and if they show affection in the circle of friends, then it will be very high-profile.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because everyone thinks that there is no point in doing this, it is okay for two people to have a good relationship, and there is no need to let others know.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because now people understand that feelings are their own business and should not be shown in front of others.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    "My boyfriend is unwilling to show affection in the circle of friends, should I break up? The essence of the problem is that you are not sure whether your boyfriend loves you or not. But "If you don't show affection in the circle of friends, don't you love?" , and can't give an exact, after all, whether a man loves you or not can't be judged by this.

    The first is that he doesn't like to post on Moments, and he has nothing to do with whether he loves you or not, he is that kind of character. Many men are more introverted by nature, and they usually don't like to post on Moments, even if they are with you, they will not change their nature, and they become fond of posting Moments and showing affection.

    The second is that he feels that feelings are private matters, and there is no need for everyone to know, and the circle of friends is what he uses to shape his personal social image. Nowadays, many people have not only friends and family, but also jobs. He loves you, but he won't show affection in the circle of friends and let all his colleagues and work partners know, but he will introduce you to his friends in private.

    The third is that he doesn't love you enough and doesn't want to ruin other ambiguous relationships because of you. He will take the initiative to show life, but he will not show off what you want to do. You're just one of his spare tires, he doesn't have the idea of developing a long-term relationship with you, and he certainly doesn't want to make your image public and ruin relationships with other women.

    In short, there is no completely definite relationship between show and not show, love and not love. So for "my boyfriend is unwilling to show affection in the circle of friends, should I break up?" More importantly, you have to see if he can give you a sense of security in getting along, whether he can bring you into his life, let his family and friends know about your existence, whether he can accompany you to live every day in the present, and whether he can write you into the future plan.

    If he loves you and doesn't show affection in the circle of friends, he will also treat you as a treasure; If he doesn't love you and forces him to show affection in the circle of friends, he will also be picked up by other women. True happiness is hidden in the quiet details, and you know your own warmth and coldness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My boyfriend doesn't like to show affection in the circle of friends, which I think is normal. It shows that the boyfriend is very sensible, and love is a personal matter and has nothing to do with others. The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, and people who have no friends will feel very uncomfortable when they see it, so why bother?

    You just need to be good for yourself, and you can secretly be beautiful.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The psychological activities of men and women are different, what kind of place is the circle of friends? It is a "network", although it is called a circle of friends, but it is not necessarily just friends, there are family, colleagues, bosses, and all kinds of different social relationships. How you deal with your connections, how you present yourself to people who know you, that's your style, and others are not qualified to comment.

    In the same way, others have their own way of dealing with the circle of friends, and as a couple, they should not interfere with it, or as a proof of "love". In other words, the girlfriend around you now, you don't know if it will be the future "daughter-in-law" or "ex-girlfriend", for dealing with the circle of friends, it will be a huge project, and men often can't stand their private affairs being used by others as after-dinner gossip.

    If you still can't understand it, then to put it simply, you can think of it as a man with a good face.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Now there is a kind of ethos. Many people can't see the daily life of showing affection in the circle of friends. Because you know it's not really "everyday".

    It's one thing to know. But there's no need to be mocking at every turn. Set x, make people, sorry for the excess.

    There seems to be no tolerance for hypocrisy in the eyes. This attitude is not necessarily suitable for making friends. I've always had this view of lies.

    There are many layers to the truth. All you can see is the truth.

    Depends on which layer you put your point of view. Why are we not used to seeing people who show affection in the circle of friends? In the circle of friends, a person has never shown his happy moments.

    Is it possible that he is lying? It's possible. But at the same time, you can see the truth.

    That's what he wants you to "see" his happiness. His hope was absolutely true. My friend Chang Chun gave an example.

    Many people criticize the current gathering of friends and bury their heads in their phones.

    But she said, you can see it that way——。 They can definitely swipe their phones at home, and be sure to get together to swipe them. In a sense, it's still proof of friendship.

    The same is true for the circle of friends. Obviously, you can't send it, but people still send it. Not only the hair, but also the careful selection of ** and copywriting.

    Arrange you into groups that you can see. "His father and mother weren't necessarily in this group. "This says a lot about how much he has in mind.

    I'll pay a little attention to what you think of him. Or, can the scales he wants to show you do the same to your heart? But if you put this heart today, it will not be recognized at all.

    A lot of people don't care what the person is saying. What do they care about just hiding the part he doesn't say? You see, there must have been so many bad things in his life.

    Why is it absolutely not? He didn't show himself completely!

    Hypocrisy, tsk, tsk. Behind this irony lies an absolute belief. You deserve my respect, unless you can be the full truth.

    Show affection in the circle of friends, when you quarrel? Hypocrisy! Going to the beach for a vacation, taking the nine-square grid crazy swiping the screen, is it a cheap tour group, ridiculous!

    Every time I work overtime, I circle it and make it pretentious! Do you really know this sentence? Install X!

    Wow, this beautiful camera, that's an exaggeration!

    The circle of friends is becoming more and more insightful. But honestly, if you were pure and only respected all the truth, how many people would be entitled to full respect now? Or are we also missing out on the underlying truth when we are keenly aware of social camouflage?

    One of your friends is wearing makeup. Do you really have to see her without makeup to get a good life? What she wanted to show was what she looked like with makeup.

    Why can't you accept that this is what she really is?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can tell your girlfriend what you think, and if you can get adjusted, you can achieve your goals.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Overcoming this psychological barrier by yourself and feeling that it is nothing, this is also a way for your girlfriend to recognize herself, and it is also a way for your girlfriend to introduce herself to her friends.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then don't care, don't meddle in your girlfriend's preferences, she can do whatever she likes, as long as the other party is happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then follow your girlfriend's idea, because it is better to show affection in the circle of friends, and you can swear your sovereignty.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First of all, people who don't disclose their circle of friends say that if they fall in love, they don't make it public in their circle of friends, it doesn't mean that their relatives and friends around them don't know, they just don't send it out, and whether the other two people are happy and happy together is only known to two people, and the sense of security can not be obtained by posting a circle of friends, so making this circle of friends public is not a must-do.

    Secondly, the information on the Internet is easy to be leaked now, I am in love, and I don't want my girlfriend's ** to be used by some people, and then now people can find a lot of information with a **, so for the security of each other's information, choose not to make it public.

    But the premise will also be discussed with your other partner.

    For those who choose to raise Kaixian publicly, if they are in love but not in the circle of friends, it is equivalent to playing hooligan, do you not want others to know that you are in love? And then prepare for your own dipping flowers to imitate grass?

    Secondly, falling in love is a very happy thing, everyone has a deep understanding of Sun Tong, when he is happy and happy, he always wants to send a circle of friends for others to see, why should such a happy thing be hidden?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think these people may want to show their happiness to everyone, but I think sometimes acting too much can affect others, but it doesn't have a big impact on me.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't want to share my love with others, and I don't want more people to witness the love between us, I just want the two of us to live better together, as long as the two of us live happily.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think I need to show my life in front of others, it's okay for two people to be affectionate, and there is no need for others to know.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think that falling in love needs to be open in the circle of friends. In addition to chatting and payment, another important reason for the popularity of WeChat is the function of the circle of friends, and now young people like to post all kinds of news in the circle of friends. Of course, if you have a significant other, your daily dynamics will have one more show of affection.

    But not all young people like to show affection in the circle of friends. There is a net.

    Friends said that their other half doesn't like to post photos of themselves in the circle of friends, and they don't like to post sweet photos of two people.

    Daily, if that's the case, would you mind?

    One, I think that falling in love needs to be open in the circle of friends.

    I think that whether or not you need to show affection in the circle of friends is a question that has no standard answer, and can only vary from person to person. So personally, I think that falling in love should be open in the circle of friends. If you don't have the function of turning on the circle of friends, then forget it, if you also post daily updates in the circle of friends from time to time, but there has never been a figure of the other half in the dynamics, then what do you mean?

    Do you dislike each other or do you feel that the other party can't get on the stage? Besides, it is a very sweet thing for two people to fall in love, and I think it is necessary to record sweet things.

    Second, if my other half is not public, I will mind very much.

    My partner and I have been together for three years, and on the day we got together, we posted on Moments, officially announcing this sweet moment. If we have confirmed our relationship, but my partner is not in the circle of friends at this time, and does not tell my relatives and friends around me, I think I will mind very much, because I think this is no different from an underground relationship, and besides, we are together consensually, why can't we make it public? Why can't I receive blessings from friends and family?

    Third, I think that making his presence public is a sign of giving the other person a sense of security.

    To sum up, I still think that falling in love should be posted in the circle of friends. First of all, falling in love is an upright thing, and there is no need to hide it. Secondly, I think happy and sweet things need to be shared, and even more so need to be recorded.

    Finally, I think that openness is based on the other person's affirmative performance, which shows that you have accepted him from the heart. If the other party is an extremely insecure person, he will think that you never show the sweetness of the two of you in the circle of friends. Don't announce his ** in the circle of friends, which will make him think more and feel that you are not serious about your relationship.

    It seems to be just playing, and it doesn't take a long-term perspective. If the other party does not have a strong request, you can reduce the number of sharing, but if the other party has a strong request, you must empathize and consider the other party's thoughts, and you can't affect your relationship because of the show of affection in the circle of friends.

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