How can you be sleek, how can you be sleek?

See people and talk about people, and talk nonsense!

na It's up to you!!

Only when you experience more things and see more people, you will slowly become sleek accidents, if you are not old now, then let it be, because society will teach you. If you're not young now, then make more friends, and you can learn to take your time in the process of keeping friends.

To be sleek, you should do this:

First, keep your mouth shut, talk less and do more. No matter what unit you are in, what kind of work you are engaged in, or whatever you encounter, listen first, don't be busy speaking, and wait until you think clearly about how to express it. Also, do more things, and what you do, let the leader see it, even if you deliberately let him see it.

You have to let him know that you are doing something.

Second, we must learn to judge the situation, who to see and what to say. Speaking and doing things depends on the occasion, and with whom, you can say anything. Although it feels hypocritical, this is the law of social survival, and the more people who can judge the situation, the better they will mix.

Third, learn more from sleek people. There will always be a lot of particularly sleek people around us, you can secretly observe how they usually behave, how they deal with things, how they deal with problems, and how they communicate with colleagues and leaders. Then you can also try it yourself, summarize while doing it, and if it's full, you'll be sleek.

Fourth, experience more and try more. Anything, don't feel like you can't do it, or don't do it if you can't do it well, you have to do more, even if it's a lot wrong, it doesn't matter. Every time you solve a problem, you have experience, and when you hit a wall, you have experience, and slowly become smooth.

In short, if you want to be tactful, you must learn more, reflect more and summarize, and say less and do more.

When dealing with specific things, take different treatment formulas according to different situations, and properly grasp the scale, but the heart must be honest and loyal, and be sincere Adhere to the principles and firmly express your ideas. If you can compromise, think more about it from the perspective of others and take care of the interests and feelings of others.

You don't need to deliberately learn, the pursuit of a better life will make you more adaptable to this society.

If you want to be sleek, then you should communicate more with friends at work, and at the same time, you should observe people's psychology more, and gradually you will become more sleek.

See people you don't like. You look for merit to compliment them and greet them with a smile. But keep your heart away from them.

When you hit a wall everywhere in your life to a certain extent, you can learn how to deal with people, speak skills, pay more attention to some small details, and be a lot more tactful.

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very negative impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

9. Don't lie and lose trust: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will never believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

The basic interpretation of being tactful is to see people and talk about people, and talk nonsense when you see ghosts, not to offend people, and not to attract people's jealousy.

Handling things refers to encountering things that need to be dealt with, and simply refers to "doing things".

Sleekness refers to an attitude and method, which simply refers to "being thoughtful in all aspects of dealing with people".

Characteristics of a sleek person in general:

1. Be good at pushing things to others to do.

2. Talk and laugh but don't show your attitude.

3. I like to play tricks, say more and do less.

4. Not good at taking responsibility.

Extended Information: Similar idioms to describe tactfulness:

Eight-sided exquisite]: exquisite: delicate and meticulous, referring to people who are flexible and agile. This means that the windows are bright and spacious. Later, it is used to describe people who are sleek and all-encompassing.

Eight-sided round]: Describe people as sleek and thoughtful everywhere.

He is also a right and wrong, and this is also a right and wrong]: that is also a kind of right and wrong, and this is also a kind of right and wrong. The parable speaks tactfully, and does not offend anyone.

Knife cut tofu on both sides]: The metaphor is sleek and flattering on both sides.

Slippery head and slippery brain]: Describe people as cunning and dishonest. It also refers to being sleek and unwilling to be responsible.

Grinding disc two circles]: The metaphor is sleek, and both parties are not offended.

Cliff Breaker]: Grinding off edges and corners. The metaphor is tactful.

Shunbi slippery]: Shunbi: follow the meaning of others; Slippery: Smooth speech. In sleek language, follow the meaning of others.

Sudden ladder funny]: Sudden ladder: sleek appearance; Funny: Circle and follow the customs. Tactful and submissive, sleek and customary.

Outsider]: Refers to the outward appearance is upright and the heart is sleek.

Outer square and inner circle]: Outside: angular and straight appearance; Inner circle: no edges and corners in the heart, sleek. It refers to a person who is upright on the outside and smooth on the inside.