During the holidays, I felt very lonely, without friends, lonely, depressed, and very uncomfortable

First of all, it's a holiday, and everyone is busy with their own things, and what they don't usually have time to do or want to do will definitely not be the same as usual

Secondly, for the Internet, such as QQ, many people are hanging to do other things (watching movies, playing games, shopping, etc.), and it is normal to have a few hasty chats (you are much better than me, I often meet people who are too lazy to play just to express love words o(o)

Finally, I have to say a few words about you, why bother with these things, such a thing as a friend is already inadvertently It's necessary to contact and connect with each other, but remember that not everyone wants to tell others everything, everyone has their own secrets, and relentlessly asking or disturbing will only make others feel troublesome Maybe you think you are out of good intentions But others won't think so, and they will think that you are disturbing his life As for comparing others with yourself, everyone has had this, but there are some things Don't be careful If you're calling the real son, then ... Remember, if you are serious about some things, you will lose) As for what you said about lack of heart, 2 and so on, if it's just that you think your friends will think of you like this, that's your problem, the more you think about it, the more you feel that you are, and if they really say that, it's actually nothing, who didn't have 2 when they were young, why do you always have to put on a bitter and hateful, mature and sophisticated appearance (stupid, stupid It's okay to read more books Even if it's to go out for a walk and breathe fresh air It's good to do housework Anyway, find something to do for yourself Just be yourself...

ps: Anyway, can't you call ** text mobile phone is still a mobile phone?

To find good friends to talk about with the heart, is the moment of pregnancy motivated heart, how I spent the third year, I want your friend to be admitted to a good school.

It doesn't matter, I'm also very 2 lacking in heart, what is there, you see, you still have the same kind.

Go find something, find something that you want, but you don't know what it is, when you meet him, you find him, everything suddenly becomes clear, and then you will gradually meet a lot of people and many things, and from then on, there will be a lot of people coming all of a sudden, your phone can be changed, you can go online, play games online, chat with people, chat with people, talk to you, talk a lot, you will finally sigh one day, but you don't know what you are feeling, many things in the world do not necessarily have answers, leave a little space for yourself, and look at other things.

You're different, but what's the matter?

Oh, although I don't know if it's normal, I'm often like this... Chatting with others typed hundreds of words, the other party replied with a oh or something, I always feel that the holiday is not as good as during school, so at least there is a group of friends to accompany me every day, it will not be boring, try to add a few netizens After all, I only know someone on the Internet Some people who don't want to talk to others can confide in netizens.

Spend more time with your family, and family affection is sometimes more reliable than friendship. You can go out and travel and read interesting books. Cultivate more areas of interest, firstly, for recreation, and secondly, to use this as a specialty to cultivate self-confidence. When it comes to friendship, relax and find a soulmate.

Suddenly I feel that we are a little similar, others think I am a cheerful person, but I often wonder if I am talking too much to make others irritable. But the QQ thing may really be that you think too much. Take me as an example, I love Kan, but I don't like to chat with others on QQ, and for no reason, I just don't like it.

And typing and chatting is actually sometimes easy to misunderstand, maybe others are watching a movie while hanging QQ, there is a match to say, giving you a cold feeling, or just happened to encounter something, half of the talk is gone, or playing a game or something, and words like hehehaha oh oh are not easy to define. I don't like exclamation marks very much, I always feel that this is a sign of heavy breath and bad breath, but a friend of mine likes to play exclamation marks, she thinks it is enthusiastic, I fall sweat.

The mobile phone has a lock and understands it.

People, it is inevitable that they will be jealous and envious, I envy a good friend of mine, I feel that she can eat well, envy her character, envy her ability, in short, all kinds of envy (sorry to be specific, people will be shy. =.= Kick me off.

However, once, she asked me why I knew so much and was so mature (I don't know why my friends said I was mature, and some sisters said that they liked to ask me for ideas when they encountered anything), said that they didn't think about things well enough, and said that they envied me like this (sorry again) I was quite surprised at that time, and suddenly felt that I was also envied. If I think about it again, I am who I am, and if I live like her, then there is only one more her and one less me in this world.

ps: I recommend you a book "Accepting the Imperfect Self", you can take a look at Yo, I hope the sister paper can get out of the entanglement

That's because I think about it too much, I won't feel so if I find something to do, why do you have to care about how others think of you, or how you see you, people have nothing to compare, there is a saying that people are only better than dead people, and sometimes you send messages to others, and people don't necessarily happen to be free? It was too boring for a while before.,It's also so annoying.。。 , but now I don't think that way at all, and I can still understand you.

Hehe, the two of us are very similar Sometimes it's too tiring to live like this, you can't be introverted, but you can't be too extroverted, and sometimes you can't worry too much about these things or make yourself look extroverted in front of others, so it's better to live your life on your own terms, just have a few good friends.

Me too! All right! Unafraid! It's good to be happy and have fun. Communicate with others more often or they will be willing to make friends with you, but you are always cold.

It is recommended that when you talk about QQ, you first ask if it is convenient. Don't compare yourself with others, sometimes the people you envy are worse than you, it's just that you don't see the bad.

Loneliness and loneliness are common among young people nowadays.

me, you seem to be talking about me.

You can go outside and have fun. Meet new people.

I'm also 21 years old this year, and I've never been in a relationship since I grew up, and I've had a lot of friends, but in the end they all separated, and even ran away from home because of my parents' divorce. But I was never lonely or lonely, because there was a world in which I still loved myself.

The relationship is blank, but I don't know why, I reject love, maybe it's because of my parents.

Not lonely, not lonely, but sad. But now I am the saddest of all, I don't trust anyone, I don't love anyone, I live in my own weaving world, and even though I know that everything is illusory, I never want to wake up.

will unconsciously shed tears, have an empty head, like to listen to sad songs, and like to hide in the corner alone and be quiet. I never know why I am sad or for whom.

But every day he has a happy smile on his face, he speaks so ruffian, and his eyes are empty of arrogance.

Then breathe quietly and fall asleep at night. Day after day.

I say this just to vent, if you are lonely, just shout it out, it will be better to vent it. Hope you are happy.

If you want to cry, cry, tears are very painful in the eyes, and the heart will be very sour.

I'm the same, I'm so bored.

At the beginning of the school year, you said that you would definitely meet new classmates.

Man is a social animal, and teenagers should yearn for freedom. Listen to Xu Wei's songs more, and you will feel the sunshine.

You can often chat with him, if you don't have a very good friend in reality, try to find your own reasons, change your shortcomings, or talk to him about your life problems and the like.

First of all, if you are willing to contact people, they will be willing to contact you.

Then find something meaningful to do, and time will pass much faster.

Bosom friends are hard to find, so you have to do happy things with your lover. How so? It's better to be optimistic and read some inspirational books.

It's okay to listen to the song、、It's good for the mood.。

Find a way to find something to do. Don't think about it alone.

Go out for a walk, take a break, and make more friends.

Don't always feel like you're just one person, there are many friends by your side!

If you are a man and a boyfriend, if you are a woman, you must find someone who loves you, not him/her! Happy every day!

Female, the big aunt is coming, male, menopause is coming.

Inner depression and need psychological counseling, it is best to find a psychologist, and professional cameos should be reliable.

Like me come out for a drink.

Listening to songs can relieve this feeling, and tomorrow will be beautiful

In fact, we are all lonely in the soul.

It doesn't matter, there are always a few days a month, and it's very, very uncomfortable

Then find friends to get out and get together.

First of all, I want to correct that the word "feelings" is not misused, you are only 14 years old now, and you don't mention that you have a girlfriend in your description, so I only see your "emotion" disappearing, not "emotion".

So, to start analyzing for you, you must have encountered stress or unhappiness in some way, so it is when you only stay in your loved one's house for 3 days and feel that you have changed and become indifferent, and people who are just indifferent often feel that they are the loneliest and loneliest, so you say that you don't have any friends (I guess you should be exaggerating, a normal person can't even have a friend).

I want to help you change it is not something that can be solved in one or two sentences, but living in the world has to face human warmth and emotional entanglement, so you have to force yourself, if you are not an introverted child, it will be much easier, but now you may see anyone who doesn't want to talk, so I say that simple is not simple, the key is a mouth, as long as you move your mouth more to open your mouth, at home you will treat your parents as if they have just met, greeting, and chatting are okay; Try to be as cheerful as possible at school, and when you meet a classmate who has the same hobbies as you (such as playing ball, playing games, etc.), you can talk nonsense with him, occasionally brag, and play crazy together after school. Slowly, the people around you will feel that you are a good child, and you will be called to any group activity, and you will feel integrated. At this time, you will find that what is meant by change, those indifferent moods have long since dissipated.

That's all, I hope you can accept it, take your time, step by step, and you will become a sunny child.

14 isn't scary, and you have many, many hours to make friends. Make one at 14, one at 15, one at 16、、、 and then you will have 6 friends when you are 20. Hehe.. Now it's time to learn how to make friends.

Don't wait until you're 20 years old and say you don't have any friends, that's too slow.

That's how it is. I don't think I have any real friends in the world.

You are a sentimental person, and I am like this at your age, and I don't want to come back after going to my grandmother's house, and when I come back, I will think desperately and even cry, because there are many friends there and I have a happy life.

Make more friends, sentimental people may not have many ordinary friends, but true friends are definitely not good. You've made the most important friends, best friends, and trust me, that's how I came here.

It seems that there is a lyric called "Lonely and lonely".

I'm in a similar situation to you, right? Loneliness is such a thing, as long as you don't care too much, you can't do anything when you think about it all day long.

Do something else and distract yourself!! Sometimes you'll find that you're good alone, but if you want to make friends in the middle of things, try to find your own problems and get rid of some of your shortcomings.

Communicate more with your elders, communicate more with others, think about happy things, and distract yourself when you are bored.

I really can't go to psychological counseling...

Are you male or female? /!Can't you live happily? Why be sentimental?

I may not have spoken to my parents in a long time. The Doke family talked. Will find the feeling of the past.

If I were you.

The first thing I do is look at the jokes... Lower your own laughter... The second thing is. Be more familiar with your own home. Look for it. Memories of being together... Hehe.

Take a look first. There is wood and there is an effect...

So small, I was never lonely when I was your age. It's just that it's all dead.

If you're lonely, find someone to talk to, I don't know if you can talk about QQ, QQ can relieve loneliness, or go play.

I don't have friends, it's okay, I can be your friend, and you're not old now, why are you pretending to be melancholy all day, be happy.