I feel ugly, small eyed, and have low self esteem

I'm also small-eyed. But there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. There are two magic weapons for eyes to become bigger, contact lenses and false eyelashes!!

Are you still young? I know several girls with eyes as small as mung beans, but they have very cheerful personalities. Besides, small eyes have the benefits of small eyes, everything has two sides, and there are many boys who like girls with small eyes, and girls with Danfeng eyes seem to have temperament.

It's pretty good, but in fact, big eyes don't fit the aesthetics. Since ancient times, there has been a sentence about big eyes and small eyes, and the handsome guy Tao of Hunan Satellite TV, isn't he also a small eye. It's nothing, in the eyes of Western aestheticians, small eyes are a unique expression of cuteness in the East.

So your eyes are really good, in fact, my friends always say to me: open your eyes and speak, hehe.

The landlord came to ask again. Actually, I think you're pretty good-looking. Being yourself is the most beautiful. What is inferiority complex Hehe, I think you're in good shape, that's the advantage, isn't it?

Don't be afraid, people come to this world with their own advantages, maybe you have the ability that others don't have, you think those who don't have eyes are much luckier!

It really doesn't matter what other people think! I say you're pretty!

Actually, you're really cute like this, you don't always have low self-esteem. Let me tell you, I didn't even have a face like this a long time ago!

One big and one small It's rare, but don't be inferior, there are more ugly people in the world than you, and you have low self-esteem, they can die.

How cute, so good-looking, don't feel inferior, there are more ugly people than you, be confident!

Successful people don't rely on their faces

but by strength

You still have youth, don't feel inferior

Isn't youth your wealth?

Yes, in fact, the single eyelid is also very tasteful.

Maybe it's good to open it down, and the eyes can be bigger.

...It's pretty good-looking, too, sister.

Summary. Hello dear! We're happy to answer for you!

1. Correctly recognize and evaluate yourself: admit your current situation, discover your own strengths, and establish self-confidence. 2. Self-motivation:

Good at using praise and affirmation to build self-confidence. 3. Adopt positive self-suggestion: Believe in yourself, so as to improve self-confidence.

4. Correct comparison: When comparing with others, you should choose people and things that are similar to yourself in all aspects to avoid inferiority.

It's not good-looking, it's too inferior.

Hello dear! We're happy to answer for you! 1. Correctly understand and evaluate yourself

Acknowledge your current situation, discover your strengths, and build self-confidence. 2. Self-motivation: Be good at using praise and affirmation to build self-confidence.

3. Adopt positive self-suggestion: Believe in yourself, so as to improve self-confidence. 4. Correct comparison:

When comparing with others, you should choose people and things that are similar to yourself in all aspects, and avoid having an inferiority complex.

But I still envy people who are beautiful.

Dear, look at it rationally.

Everyone has their own shining point, don't always stare at the shining point of others, but also look at the belief and disadvantage yourself, there are many kinds of shining points, and beautiful companion Tanhe is just one of them.

But those are all internal, maybe there is a saying, "If you don't have good-looking facial features, most people won't want to know your three views", maybe that's true.

Dear, if you must pursue the beautiful problem, you can find a way to change yourself.

For example, getting in shape, taking good care of your skin, and researching your outfits.

Be a beautiful woman with a sense of atmosphere.

Everyone has their own shining point, you don't have to care what others think of you, as long as you are satisfied.

Very likely. Originally, he looked good, but when his inferiority complex prevailed, he felt so ugly;

And some people don't look very good, but because they are very confident and optimistic, they still think they are good-looking.

In fact, no matter how you look, self-confidence is a very important quality. At the same time, don't take appearance too seriously, because people have temperament in addition to appearance. If a person is very confident, optimistic, likes to smile, attaches importance to inner cultivation, and likes to learn to read.

Over time, her temperament will become very elegant, atmospheric, and generous. A person's appearance changes and becomes more and more scrutinized. Do you believe it?

On the contrary, a person is always unconfident, and over time, it also affects his appearance. That's why some people look beautiful at first glance, but they don't like it.

Will definitely drop. Good-looking people, who have low self-esteem and find it ugly, will really get more and more ugly.

People who are ugly are confident and think they look good, and they will really look better and better.

Try it if you don't believe it.

I think it's ugly, and others think it's somewhere between good-looking and ugly - it's ugly.

Yes, in fact, many times our characteristics have a lot to do with self-confidence, anyway, we still have to be confident, and we will live happily, sometimes even if you are not good-looking, but if you are confident, you are also exceptionally beautiful and temperamental in the eyes of others.

People are like this sometimes, and they often feel that they are not very good, and that people are not perfect

Self-confidence is the only way to have spirit and charm, even if he is ugly, he can cover up some shortcomings through his advantages, and inferiority is often the opposite.

The gaze itself affects others, and you dare not look into other people's eyes, either your gaze unnaturally affects others, or it may unnaturally affect others and arouses your awareness, or it is someone else's gaze that affects you. Low self-esteem is derived from this situation, which in turn will react to this situation, causing a phenomenon similar to a vicious circle. The key is to cut off the connection between low self-esteem and sight problems (not daring to look at others).

How to cut off? First of all, I don't think it's a matter of psychological inferiority, but just a matter of physical senses.

Further, everyone has their own stream of consciousness, and if they follow their own comfortable stream of consciousness, without interfering with the stream of consciousness of others, and without being disturbed by the stream of consciousness of others, the behavior will feel natural. If you go against the laws of stream of consciousness activities, you will be noticed by others because you are unnatural, and you will be more influenced by others, and you will be more likely to influence others, making you more and more dependent (think about the dependent variable in junior high school mathematics, does it always depend on the independent variable, do you want to make yourself an existence dominated by the independent variable or the dependent variable?). ）。

To put it simply, the feasible option is to grow and improve one's sensory adaptability, and the other is to coordinate and coordinate relationships with the people around you in the environment, which involves how to exercise yourself and how to cultivate interpersonal relationships. But in reality, the problem is much more than that. And the deeper you go, the harder it becomes, and the more you need to rely on science.

If you are interested in growing up, you can take a look at the happiness class taught by Professor Tal Ben Shahar of Harvard University, which can be found in the NetEase open class.

People should be self-confident, self-reliant, self-loving, not inferior, to think like this, others are people, I am also people...

Look at where your low self-esteem comes from and solve the problem fundamentally. You're fat, you're **. If you're ugly, fine-tune it. For family problems, you have to work harder on your own.

Remember: don't be embarrassed to live.

The main thing is that I lack self-confidence, and I think this is the case.

It shows that you are not mature enough, just wait for yourself to mature, and you must cultivate your own aura.

The fact that I "feel ugly" is that I "care" about it at the same time.

Although I can also see your despair for the "future", I can also see your expectations for the "future", because "attention" to yourself.

With "attention", you know what you are lacking and what you want.

Go and understand your own "attention", "analysis", "dismantling", "fighting" ......As long as there is a little more, there will be a "change".

Miracles are reserved for those who "create miracles with their hands", and miracles do not favor those who "seek miracles". (From the feeling of the anime "Wings of the Ages").

In addition, I would like to share with you one of my experiences:

At the beginning, when I encountered the things I was "afraid of", my heart would beat very fast, and I took the "heartbeat" at this time as fear, so that I would not be exposed to many things, at the cost of "heart" - it was difficult to "open my heart".

One day, when I started to want to change and felt this "heartbeat" again, I accepted the feeling and told myself that it was a heartbeat that was exciting, exciting. The cost of "trouble" - to consume all kinds of physical and mental power, there is a sense of "endless" illusion.

This is where the story ends......

Finally, I leave you with a question: Is it important to be different from others?

It's best to find a regular Jinan Shen'an Hospital to do it, the most important thing is to look at the technology and strength. From the perspective of Jinan Shen'an Hospital, Jinan Shen'an Hospital is a local enterprise, and it is definitely more reassuring to go to a regular hospital.

Be strong, be optimistic, have a sunny heart, and have no fear of sorrow! Fate is destined!

You're not ugly at all, you just don't have self-confidence. There are still many ordinary people in the world, as long as you have self-confidence, exercise, practice body shape, learn makeup, etiquette, and work hard, you will have a boyfriend soon.