How much is the difference between Confucius s family language and the Analects

The Analects was compiled by his apprentice, and the other was not.

Translation: Confucius said: After I die, Zixia will make more progress than before, and Zigong will regress compared to before" Zeng Zi asked

Why? "Confucius said: Zixia likes to be with people who are more virtuous than himself, (so his moral cultivation will improve day by day); Zigong likes to get along with people who are not as talented as himself, (so his moral cultivation will be lost).

If you don't know how the child is, you can just look at the child's father, if you don't know the child, you can look at the friends around him, if you don't know the master, you can look at the messengers he sends, and if you don't know the local situation, you can look at the local plants and trees.

Therefore, always being with people of noble character is like bathing in a house full of fragrance where Zhilan is planted, and after a long time, you will not be able to smell the fragrance, but you will already be full of fragrance; Being with people of poor character is like going to a place where abalone is sold, you can't smell it after a long time, and you also integrate into the environment; The place of Tibetan Dan turns red after a long time, and the place where the lacquer is hidden turns black after a long time, which is also due to the environmental impact! Therefore, a true gentleman must carefully choose the environment in which he finds himself.

Original text: Confucius said: "After my death, the business will also increase, and the gift will also be lost."

Zeng Zi said: "What is it? Zi said:

Discuss with those who are virtuous, and give good to those who say that they are not as good as themselves. They do not know their sons, but they regard their fathers; I don't know who he is, but I see him as a friend. I don't know his king, but I see what he makes; I don't know the place, but I don't know the grass and trees.

Therefore, it is said: "Living with good people, such as entering the room of Zhilan, and not smelling its fragrance for a long time, that is, it will melt with it." and ungood people, such as into the abalone, for a long time without smelling its smell, but also with it.

The one who hides the Dan is red, and the one who hides the lacquer is black, so that the gentleman must be careful about where he is. ”

The ideas of Confucius were the favorite of the feudal emperors.

(1) Don't worry all day long that no one understands your value, worry about whether you can do it or not.

2) Confucius said: Don't worry about others not understanding you, but worry about yourself not understanding others. People who are afraid that others do not understand themselves, either they are afraid that others do not understand how good they are, such people are conceited, or they are afraid that others do not understand how wronged they are, such people are self-pity.

All in all, they all take themselves too seriously, and most of these people are introverts, and their attention is mainly focused on themselves. People who are afraid that they do not understand others are more likely to be recognized for their success if they are extroverted and pay attention to their communication with the outside world, and they have a broad vision and insight into current affairs.

3) Confucius said, "I am not afraid that others do not understand me, but I am afraid that I do not understand others."

4) I am not afraid that others will not know my own talents, and I am afraid that I will not be able to understand the talents of others.

Hope I like it, sorry just now.