I m a senior and I have a lot of questions that I want to be answered by experts

Judging from your description, you have good potential, but you don't tap enough. Personally, I think the main reason is your inferiority complex.

You are an only child, are the adults giving you too much care? If so, you will be helpless when you are alone in the face of the confusion of the outside world, so that your self-confidence will be affected, and after a long period of accumulation, an inferiority complex will arise.

Worshipping the strong is the psychology that everyone has, but the performance is different, some are learning from the strong, so that they can also become strong; Some are moving closer to the strong and seeking refuge from the strong; Some are leaving the strong and opening up an independent space. You have a tendency to seek refuge from the strong, and the root is still inferiority, and the root of your inertia is also this.

You are too psychologically sensitive, you say that everyone in school excludes you, in fact, this is often not the case, it is normal for classmates to make fun of each other and compete with each other, no one will deliberately target you, you treat yourself as all, and everyone is just a small point in the eyes of others. Don't put any effort into judging if someone is squeezing you out. The root of psychological sensitivity is still the psychology of inferiority.

The reason for your male and female gender orientation is also low self-esteem, and you are used to putting yourself in a vulnerable position. When facing girls, you think that boys should be better than girls, which creates a misalignment, so you can't find a sense of character when facing girls, but you can find it when facing boys.

At the moment, you can focus on rebuilding your self-confidence and overcoming your low self-esteem. One is to believe in yourself. As long as someone can affirm you and help you, you will be able to achieve good results, and those who can get on the book are definitely not of low quality, do you think how many people can't get a book?

So, you don't have too much inferiority. The second is to strengthen physical exercise. You can have your own suitable way, such as table tennis, running, etc.; The third is to do what you can do.

See your potential in continuous success.

In what you do, the help of others is only external, and the key is to work hard yourself. I'm sure you'll be able to get out of it.

Think for others and live for yourself. You need this the most.

Worship will do everything in your power to fight for it, it is really destiny, just look at the clouds.

If your popularity is not good, it is because you have a bad mentality and are not gentle enough to deal with people. Perhaps all that is missing is a better way to put it forward.

If the person you like is a man, it's a man.

Go with the flow, life is short, and be happy in time.

Be confident, it's nothing.

Don't you think your personality is a lot like an eagle flying in the sky?

It is recommended that you go to the recruitment**, see what you want to do in the future, and find relevant information according to the above job requirements, while you still have time in college. Hurry up and take action, fantasy will not help, it is a skill to learn one more skill, even if it is not guaranteed to be helpful for future work, it is better than doing it in a hurry, of course, this skill does not refer to the theory in the textbook, it is a skill that may be used in the workplace in the future, such as using some commonly used formulas of excel, and it is not bad to be able to make a beautiful ppt or ps.

It's very simple, find what you are best at, do it not be simple or extreme, get the recognition of the people around you, and then, you will confidently face everything in the future, what you lack is the recognition of yourself from the heart, do a new thing to know yourself, you will not be confused.

Now in my senior year, I have been out for an internship for half a year, and for me, I didn't cherish my time in school, I didn't do what I wanted to do, I just wanted to. Universities really have to take the time to do what they want to do. No matter how much you want to do, make a list of them and set aside the time to put them into practice.

Don't be like me and leave regrets.

Also as an engineering student about the senior year, in fact, may be a little confused and helpless for most senior students, on the one hand, the freshness and comfort brought by the university is still intoxicating, and then I found that I was already about to step out of the school of the old fritters, but in fact, it was not as worried and bad as I imagined, I used to always feel that I was still young, and now I suddenly feel that I have grown up, twenty years old, and even want to say that I am getting old, I have always been afraid of getting old, but then I think about it, Every stage has some imprint of that year, like there will always be people I love and things that grow and age with me, those are unique and wonderful, if I hadn't been born at this time, I wouldn't have felt it at all, and I feel a lot more relieved to think about it, and I often pour myself chicken soup. At present, I am also preparing for the graduate school entrance examination, I feel that I am not as fully prepared as my classmates, but I will further refuel, you also have to work hard, in fact, when you are confused, you can find something to do for yourself, you can read books, you can also exercise, as I said, I hope I want to be a warm person, to feel the beauty around me, the next confused senior year, I believe it will be the most cherished year of my university, there is always pressure and then wake up. My next goal is to go to graduate school, **, although I'm not fat, haha.

has said so much about some and no, and finally, I wish you in the distance, do not forget your original intention, and finally be treated gently by time.

I was also very entangled and confused at the end of college, and I looked back and found that I had wasted a lot of time, alas. Although I don't know much about the employment of your major, it is not bad to increase your competitiveness in the overall direction, improve your academic qualifications, actively participate in project research and publication, study abroad, employment, and take the public examination as long as you want to do it, there are many roads, and the specific needs to be considered by the subject in combination with his own situation, after all, you have to make your own decisions for the future. Regarding motivation, in fact, as far as I am concerned, I want to take my parents without worrying about money in the future, and having a good old age, which is already a good reason.

Everyone is an ordinary person, and there will be times when they are confused. It's okay to be confused, but you can't stand there forever.

To be honest, your original major was very good, and the sales industry has indicators every month and is not very stable, and it is actually very harsh on girls to a certain extent. It is advisable to consider the technical industry! It's good to be a teacher every year to have winter and summer vacations, and the design is also technical!

Recommend you a few**: Fresh graduate job search network, come over, hiall, there is a lot of knowledge on it, you can look for learning, you can also ask questions on it. I got a job this year, good luck :)

1. The days of laughing together, singing together, being nervous together, and preparing for war together turned into scattered stars, embellishing my blank youth commemorative book. I won't forget that the moment the flowers bloom, they flashed with the figures of your lovely elves.

2. Wings carrying hope Scatter the flowers holding hands No matter how they float to** No matter how difficult they are, please send a telecardiogram I will be the first to bless you and pray for you.

3. Parting is the beginning of a happy gathering, wipe away your tears, and say goodbye to your classmates: We are about to graduate, and I will silently bless you in a distant place. Friends walk together for a lifetime, which days are no more. In a word, for a lifetime; A lifetime of love, a glass of wine. May you always be happy!

4. We are about to leave, leaving behind friendship and mentorship, and taking away knowledge. We are about to leave, but we will not forget the friendship between classmates and the kindness of teachers. I wish you good health, progress in your studies, and all the best in your studies, so that you can be admitted to your dream university.

5. With the passage of time, in a few weeks I will leave my alma mater, where I have lived for more than 2,000 days. Although parting is sad, I still wish all students to study in the middle school of their minds and achieve good results.

6. I am a person who is about to leave my alma mater and step towards the other end of knowledge, here, I am very nostalgic for everything in my alma mater, but the most nostalgic thing for me is those students who have studied with me for three years. Therefore, I give them a sentence: work hard, if we have a time to meet, we will be stronger than whom, who can realize the parents' wish to see their son become a dragon and their daughter to become a phoenix.

7. No matter how far away the future is, there are you and me on the road to growth; No matter when we meet, we are friends forever.

8. No matter how long the future is, please cherish every moment of togetherness; No matter how many springs, summers, autumns and winters have passed, we are friends forever.

9. Walk with you and recall the common ideals we once had; Parting with you, looking forward to the revelry when we are reunited.

10. Classmates, let those sweet whispers in the twilight of the past be buried in the bottom of your heart and turn into beautiful memories!

There are many people like you who are confused about the future, and they don't know which direction is the best choice when facing a crossroads on the road of life. In fact, it is difficult to determine which is the best and which is average, the key is that you have determined the direction and then study or work hard to strive for a better future.

What kind of job you are suitable for after graduation, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market.

Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step. The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as doing a good job in the current academic things first, finding a job you like in the future, or determining a kind of skills training you need, and then setting a work and study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely have gains; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.