How to explain filial piety in the Analects?

In the Analects, the status of filial piety is extremely high. "A gentleman is a gentleman, and he is born from the beginning. Filial piety is also the foundation of benevolence!

In the first chapter, it gave filial piety a high degree of affirmation of "the foundation of benevolence". It can be seen that filial piety can be said to be the foundation of Confucius's "benevolence".

Original text: Meng Yizi asked filial piety. Zi said:

Not violated. Fan Chiyu, the son told him: "Meng Sun asked me for filial piety, and I said that I had nothing to disobey."

Fan Chi said: "What do you mean? Zi said:

Life, things are courteous; Death, burial with ceremony, sacrifice with ceremony. ”

Translations. Meng Yizi asked about filial piety, and Confucius said, "It is not against etiquette." "When Fan Chi was driving, Confucius told him:

Meng Sun asked me about filial piety, and I said, 'No disobedience'. Fan Chi said

What do you mean? Confucius said, "Serve according to the rites while you are alive; After death, it will be buried and commemorated according to the ceremony.

Original. Meng Wubo asked filial piety. Zi said: "Parents are only worried about their illness. ”

Translations. Meng Wubo asked about filial piety, and Confucius said, "Parents only worry when their children are sick." ”

Original. Ziyou asked filial piety. Zi said: "Today's filial piety is said to be able to raise." As for dogs and horses, they can all be raised; Disrespectful, why not? ”

Translations. Ziyou asked about filial piety, and Confucius said: "The current filial piety can only support the elderly." Even dogs and horses are raised. Disrespectful, what's the difference? ”

About filial piety, discussed for thousands of years, Confucius's explanation of filial piety, the interpretation of kings, nobles, and ordinary people, each has its own merits, you can feel Confucius's IQ and EQ double **, the king asked filial piety, Confucius said that if you don't violate it, it will be filial piety, and you will stop at the point, never say much, but Mr. does not say complete and uncomfortable, so he said to the students who drive, life, there must be etiquette, etiquette, parents are gone, there must be burial etiquette, sacrificial etiquette, the old gentleman is also a temperament. The aristocracy asked filial piety and said, only when your parents are sick they worry about their health, or let your parents have nothing to worry about just ask you if you are healthy, ordinary students ask filial piety and say, don't show me a face, always maintain respect, if you are not respectful, what is the difference between raising dogs and horses, this is all about filial piety, Confucius's explanation of people with different identities.

With the aging of parents, slow response, energy decline, disease-ridden, attitude towards parents is indeed "difficult", parents and we disagree, it is difficult to be kind and pleasant, reflect on it, for children to buy a car and a house for their parents, travel the world, raise cats and dogs, is it for their parents or for their own good, is it that we only need to give money is what we think of filial piety, in fact, it is just that we reduce guilt and guilt in this way, parents need our kind face and high-quality companionship, They don't need to travel the world in the mountains.

"Filial piety" from the text, the top is an "old" word, and the bottom is a "small" word, that is, the small respects the old.

The son said: "Three years without changing the way of the father, it can be described as filial piety." ”