When relatives get along, what are they most afraid of is that there are no three bottom lines?

One is that they don't treat themselves as outsiders, which is annoying; One is to take oneself too seriously as a person, which is disgusting; One is to keep the security line of unbelief and connive at the oppression of relatives.

Relatives get along, on the bottom line of dealing with family conflicts, you can give advice, but don't interfere, on the bottom line of borrowing money, it is always to save the emergency and not to help the poor, and on the bottom line of treating relatives, you must always treat everyone equally.

Relatives get along, what they are most afraid of is that there are no three bottom lines, Article 1, maybe they are particularly taboo to borrow money, Article 2, if there is a conflict in the other party's family, we should not give advice in time, Article 3, we must respect our relatives and do not look down on each other.

1. Do not interfere in other people's family life.

2. Don't borrow money from relatives, borrowing money hurts the most feelings.

3. Don't judge the work of relatives.

If you don't repay the money, you can do whatever you want because of the relationship between relatives, and because the relationship between relatives has been cheap, once these bottom lines are touched, don't associate with such relatives anymore.

1.Relatives who are financially unclear and often like to borrow money can easily get along.

2.Relatives who like to meddle and gossip will sow discord.

3.Relatives who have a bad temper, are easy to get angry and scold, and even more serious will move their hands and feet.

In addition to husband and wife and parents, we usually interact with relatives and friends more than relatives and friends, in our interactions with relatives and friends, we should pay attention to the following five principles, so as not to turn relatives into enemies.

This kind of interest means that you should be as interested in the other person as possible, and don't always try to take advantage. Confucius said: I don't want to do anything.

Each of us is seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and we want to get benefits, and others also want to get benefits, so when there is a conflict with the interests of our loved ones, try not to let the interests of the other party be harmed.

As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. There are many meanings of this phrase.

Relatives generally don't live very closely, and when they start a family and start a business, they are busy with each other, and there is only contact in the middle. Only when there is a happy event or something can each family sit together to chat and drink.

There are many relatives, which is really nice. It should be for the sake of their children and their families now. There is no time to visit relatives everywhere. But I think it's still necessary to move around more, and the more you move, the closer you are. No matter how good the relatives are, if they don't move around for a long time, the relationship will become weaker and weaker.

No matter how good it is between relatives, it is necessary to keep a certain distance. Especially financially, it is better not to have dealings. Brothers, it is very telling to settle accounts.

If there is a confused account in the economy, the relationship will not last long. For the sake of money, it is not uncommon for people to go to court, and there are more of them. We have a folk fallacy here, if you don't come and go, you don't have real relatives, and you come and go and the two families are poor, which also contains this meaning.

If you have a rich relative, but you both live your own lives with each other, if you have a good relationship on weekdays and you are in need, I believe he will try his best to help you, and you don't have to have psychological pressure, just give him back normally afterwards.

If your relatives are rich, willing to help you or others, and have an ordinary mentality, then you are blessed, and it is your pride and pride to meet such a good relative. With such relatives, you just have to deal with normalcy. Rich people who are truly virtuous and open-minded are low-key, and will not affect the lives of others, let alone cause trouble to others.

To sum up, your relatives have money, but it doesn't really have much to do with you. You can decide what kind of attitude you want to deal with according to his attitude towards life. The most important thing is that you should be down-to-earth, work your own, and strive to create good living conditions and improve the quality of life for yourself.

I like to ask how much money others make, I always reach out and ask others for things, and I like to tell right and wrong. These are taboos, we should not do this, we should be honest with each other and keep a certain distance.

It is most taboo for relatives to talk irrationally and tell right and wrong. As relatives, you should communicate more and help each other, they are all related by blood, and do not have conflicts and suspicions of each other.

Don't talk too much between relatives, you can't say some deep words, because it's likely that he will tell others to laugh at you when he turns his face. Then there is the fact that money must be distinguished, and it is necessary to borrow urgently rather than poorly.

Don't talk about other people's children's education casually, and don't get too close to your relatives, because you never know what kind of person you are in your relatives' mouths, and the most important thing is not to borrow money, because talking about money really hurts feelings.

Relatives can borrow money from each other, but don't borrow it and don't pay it back, don't talk about credit, and don't borrow money and don't think about other people's good, but instead talk about other people's gossip behind your back.

In fact, the main reason is that if you don't have a bottom line, it's easy to hurt others, and it's easy to let yourself go to the end.

Because the most important thing between relatives is trust, only after trust, will it go on for a long time, if there is no trust, it will be slow to rent and slow luck, and become strangers.

Even if this kind of person is a relative, he can't be easily offended to keep his distance, first of all, selfish and stingy people, they will always take advantage of you, they will not suffer, and they will always criticize you for taking advantage of them.

Poor and cautious relatives should keep their distance, such relatives are like locusts that constantly oppress you and are not satisfied, and the slightest unsatisfactory thing will slander you behind your back.

I think for those who are calculating or those who are always ruthless in doing things, I think it is necessary to keep a certain distance from them and not offend them, because offending them will make you very troublesome.

People who are not particularly reliable in talking or doing things must stay away, because they will release their own pigeons many times, and then the kind of villains who have a set of things behind the surface, and try to stay away, and there will be many times when they are with them will be vulnerable.

There is a good saying that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. What you think is bloodline is worthless in the eyes of others. There are generally four principles in the interaction between relatives, which are very real and realistic.

1.Approaching when gaining momentum and estranged when losing momentum

Most of my relatives are like this, like grass on the wall. You take the initiative to approach you, and when you are down, you will hide far away.

2.Borrowing depends on whether you have the money or not

If you have money, even if you have a bad reputation, if you ask your relatives to borrow money, someone will borrow it, and a lot of relatives will want to slap you. If you don't have money, no matter how good your reputation is, your relatives won't lend it to you because they're afraid you won't be able to pay it back.

3.Secretly compare yourself at the party

Many people are reluctant to participate in meetings between relatives because they are completely impersonal, but only flattering parties.

4.Bullying the soft and fearing the hard

If you don't have money, your relatives will not only not help you, but they will look down on you and don't care about your opinions and opinions. They'll do you a small favor once in a while, but that's just to show what they're capable of and make a name for themselves. If you want him to help him a little longer, he won't be patient and will always count you down.