How parents can guide their children to watch TV

How to properly guide children to watch TV?

With the progress of society and the great exhibition of science and technology, TV is no longer as bulky as in the past, it has turned from black and white to digital TV, and has become a necessity in our lives. Television is an important means and way to transmit knowledge and information, as long as you turn on the television, up and down 5,000 years, tens of thousands of miles in length and horizontal, astronomy and geography, humanities and history, you can see at a glance. Although TV is so great, children should also be scientifically guided when watching TV, otherwise children will be addicted to TV programs, and they will fall asleep with the TV every day, and then there will be problems such as decreased eyesight and unsound intellectual development.

So how should you guide your child to watch TV correctly? Let's take a look at the tips for guiding children to watch TV.

[Control the time you spend watching TV].

Children should watch TV in moderation, not day and night, for preschool children to watch TV for no more than 3 hours a week. Try not to let the child touch the remote control after dinner, especially before the child is ready to go to bed, so that the child is in a more relaxed state. If you fall asleep in a state, the quality of your sleep will be better.

[Don't let the child choose the program by himself].

Children will be addicted to watching TV,At this time, as a parent, you can't let your child contact the TV remote control,If you watch a program regularly,The child will chase after it,Then it's chasing and watching all day and all night,This is not conducive to the child's health,So the program that the child watches should be balanced,It's better to choose a TV program that has educational significance for the child。

[Watching TV with your child].

As a parent, you should discuss the TV program, so that the child knows that the TV program is filmed by Zhengyan, which does not necessarily represent real life, and should be selectively accepted.

Ruler Qingpei[Enrich children's lives, so that children don't want to watch TV].

Parents should arrange their children's activities as well as possible so that children do not have to use TV to fill in the gaps in time. For example, getting up, three meals, snacks, going to bed, lunch break, outdoor activities, indoor activities, storytelling, building block time, and playing time with children, etc., should be regular and make children's lives fulfilling.

Parents should lead by example

Preschool children have a lot of life skills to learn, don't spend time on TV, and for the sake of their children, parents themselves should watch less Lingwei TV.

First of all, parents should plan for their children to watch TV with a sedan chair here, and secondly, parents should let their children do their own things before they can watch it, don't just watch TV all day, they also have their own things to do.

If the baby watches TV for too long, parents must discourage the baby's behavior in time. Make an appointment with the baby in advance to watch the time of TV, and remind the child when the time is almost fast and when the pants are known. Parents may wish to watch TV with their children when they have free time, which can enhance the relationship between parents and children.

Watching TV together allows parents to understand their children's interests, get to know them better, share happy moments with them, and enhance the relationship between them.

In ordinary life, you can interact and communicate with your child more in terms of progress, exercise your child's personal ability, and you can also find some parent-child tours to strengthen communication and joint digging between each other, and also formulate rules for children.

In early education, there are certain benefits for babies to watch TV, but if it takes too long, it will bring more harm to children, such as damage to vision, impact on sleep, easy to cause precocious puberty in children, and so on. In the face of this situation, how should parents guide their children to watch TV reasonably?

1. Keep an appropriate distance

Usually, the distance between the screen is five to six times the length of the fluorescent screen, and parents can set up a table or coffee table between the chair and the TV to create a safe distance. Maintain correct posture and pay attention to controlling the time spent watching TV, take a break for about half an hour, and strictly implement it to avoid eye fatigue; Helping your child determine when to watch TV can help prevent your child from watching TV uncontrollably.

2. Guide the children to watch some meaningful TV programs

Most children like to watch cartoons, but if you only watch cartoons, it weakens the educational function of television. Therefore, parents should pay attention to guiding their children to choose TV programs from multiple angles and cultivate their children's interest in TV programs that are beneficial to science. For example, watching "Animal World" can let children understand the living habits, growth and natural knowledge of various animals, so that they can discover more magic and mysteries of nature.

3. Encourage children to participate in the extension activities of TV programs

There are many children's programs that will have some interaction with children, such as watching an episode of a cartoon, and giving 1 or 2 thinking questions for children to answer. There are mailing and calling, parents can encourage their children to participate. On the one hand, these methods can cultivate children's oral expression skills and train children to watch programs purposefully; On the other hand, you can give children some correct and positive guidance through their understanding of the program.

4. Watch TV with your children

Watching TV with children can not only enhance the relationship between parents and children, understand the inner world of children, but also answer children's questions in a timely manner. Don't have a prevaricating or perfunctory attitude. So as to cultivate children's intellectual curiosity and spirit.

There is an idiom called "the extreme of things must be opposed", which tells us that if we do anything too much, there will be no good in the end. So even if your child likes to watch TV, it will be very uncomfortable if you ask them to watch TV all night or do nothing but stay in front of the TV. So I personally think that if this parent in Hunan lets his child watch TV all night, the other party will definitely not feel very happy, and even a little tormented.

The real joy is not watching TV, but maintaining a relaxed mind in the process. If you think about it, people feel happy when they go home every day, even if they just lie on the couch, because their bodies and minds are completely relaxed. Therefore, once you turn something into a task or a requirement, no matter how happy you used to be, you will only feel very stressed now, and it will be difficult for you to experience the fun again.

A typical example is games, where ordinary people are addicted to games, even to the point of forgetting to sleep and eat. But like some e-sports players, the most annoying thing for them is probably playing games, because doing this the whole person is not in a relaxed state, but in a tense state that must complete the task, in the long run, how can the whole person feel happy?

The way this parent in Hunan educates her children is really special. When other adults find that their children like to watch TV so much, they may directly take away the remote control, or they may directly beat each other, like a broken jar, let him watch enough at one time, which is rare. In fact, this method is still very effective, and in a highly stressful environment, doing anything can become an ordeal.

The parent saw this and gave the child an alternative "punishment".

At present, the effect is more obvious, and the child can roll the mountain and prepare pants in the future, and will not be as addicted to watching TV as before. But this practice is not worth advocating, after all, forcing a child to watch TV all night is very harmful to his body.

I don't think it's advisable to "boil the eagle" method. is also a parent, and my Fang Chen's law is agreed to three chapters. Here's how.

The first step is to agree, for example, that TV is good, parents know it, and we liked it as much as you did when we were young. In this way, first stand on the same side of the collapse.

Second, make an appointment at a good time. Don't take your child's word for it: Wait a minute.

His meeting is your five or six will be sure to determine the exact time, saying that it is too late may affect the rest Oh, send the lead to make it clear that we agree on a time is good, not to the time, parents will not interfere or say you, tell him to set a time first, the time parents are sure to be, just and he said, everyone abides by the time, if the time comes, you don't execute, we come over to help you turn off, is it okay, don't blame us when the time comes!

Educating children must pay attention to ways and means, here are some of my personal opinions.

1. Be patient.

It is the child's nature to love to play, this is what we can't change, we can only slowly guide him, let him develop in a good way, you can take the time to patiently communicate with the child, see what he thinks, and then prescribe the right medicine, will it be better?

Nowadays, we parents are impatient in educating their children, do you agree with this?

2. Reflect on yourself.

Reflecting on us as parents, what is the first thing we do when we get home?

Most people are looking at their mobile phones and watching TV, thinking that they should relax after a day of work, and after a day of study, should they also relax?

We usually go home and let our kids do their homework and have a lot of fun looking at our phones by ourselves, right?

I think that as long as parents control themselves in moderation, children will gradually form habits.

3. Don't buy a TV?

The best way is not to buy a TV at home, won't this solve the problem?

Some parents may say: We want to watch TV too?

When the children grow up and go out to work, buy a TV to watch enough, human life expectancy is gradually increasing, and there is time to watch TV, so there is no need to worry about this.

Epilogue. We can't change anyone, only when he wants to change, it will have an effect, as a parent, only through their own good habits, to constantly influence him, prompt him to change, this way is desirable.