Why don t parents need to take exams?

Because in China, parents subconsciously believe that their children are their appendages rather than independent individuals who exist with them, and that children should obey their wishes rather than their subordinates.

The subject has already said that the education level of parents comes from their own cultural level, so parental education treats the symptoms but not the root cause, and it is impossible for a short period of parental education to change the worldview formed for a long time. The implementation of such a policy is costly, and the older generation's concept of right and wrong is also deep-rooted, believing that people should get married and have children when they reach an age, and it is difficult to accept new ideas.

Therefore, the fundamental solution is to improve and popularize our compulsory education and increase the population of higher education, and as the new generation of young people get married and have children, our family education level will naturally become higher and higher.

It can be seen that the subject is worried about the current family education in my country, but it is impossible to rush it.

Parents should conduct examinations, the content of the examination is set up in five courses, Chinese, mathematics, physics, three views, independent thinking, the difficulty of the examination should be set at the high school level is more reasonable suggestions, set up a national parent examination school to learn how to be parents to avoid a large number of unqualified parents, improve the quality of the Chinese offspring ** in family education.

Come to check this question in 2023, it turns out that I am not the only one who has thought so... It is really sad to see that many unqualified parents have children, but they do not know how to raise them, but harm their children's family affairs. In this era, there are fewer people getting married, and there are fewer children, and it is said that it will not be long before the elderly will account for one-third of the Chinese, alas...

After I got married, I once talked to my daughter-in-law and asked whether it was easier to drive or run a marriage. It's easy for her to drive, yes, you have to go to the exam to get a book when driving, but what about marriage, school is not taught, and families are varied, and you may not be able to learn well, but marriage is harmonious to have a good family, isn't the family also a small unit of the country, isn't it a small pixel of the country, now many people often say, don't look at other people's good families have difficult scriptures, why can't you read a little better, such a small family is good, and the country will not be better?

There are three kinds of education that China lacks: sex education, love education, and death education. These three concepts correspond to the three nodes of life: the body is complete, the soul is abundant, and the value of life is valued.

Thinking of this, it is not that there are three kinds of missing, but four, and there is also the education of the correct understanding of business, a word that has just been learned, business general knowledge. To put it bluntly, money education.

Why doesn't a parenting home need an exam? This is because the family is not a school, parents are not teachers, and children are not students. So, families don't need to organize exams to test their children's academic ability and knowledge level like schools.

However, our role as parents is also crucial. We need to provide the right environment and conditions for our children to develop and grow to the fullest. If the child's developmental needs are not taken into account, then the child may be harmed to a certain extent.

Therefore, in order to raise children better, we need to continue to learn to be free, try and work hard. We need to understand the needs of our children, how to nurture their potential, and how to build a positive and healthy family atmosphere. These are important tasks that require constant effort and effort from our parents.

In general, families do not need exams, but as parents, we need to put in more effort and attention, keep learning and groping, and strive to create a family environment where children can develop and grow.

I am in favor of taking a study test before becoming a parent.

When parents educate their children, their words and deeds will affect their children's balance, so sometimes parents are also seeing themselves through their children when they look at their children, and they are testing their own personality. How to raise a future, in fact, has a close infiltration and connection with the family, parents teach their children almost by word and deed, so the attitude of parents towards the world directly affects the children's future values. Therefore, it is very necessary for parents to learn some relevant knowledge before the birth of their children, and to be able to know how to educate their children.

Many parents feel that educating their children is the most difficult thing in the world when educating their children, sometimes they can't help themselves, and sometimes some words or behaviors are done without thinking, but after the fact, they find out that it is not right, but it has already affected the child. If parents take a qualification exam, they generally learn some theoretical things, because everyone has to keep improving and learning, not everyone is born to be parents, and they are responsible for their children.

Many parents may feel that their lives are busy enough and have no time to study, and some parents confirm that they don't know how to guide their children, but simply have great hopes for their children, and even teach their children to follow their feelings. In fact, such parents may wish to try to make changes, because they must find their own positions and have a clear role for themselves in order to educate their children well.

I think my parents have to take the exam.

In 2022, the Parental Qualification Examination Program will be officially implemented, and all couples who want to have children must pass the examination and obtain a qualification certificate before they can give birth.

Then it sparked a heated discussion in the group, and many group members jumped out to share the pain, suppression, fetters and a little bit of love brought to them by beating their parents since childhood.

Finally, a friend asked a question: If you were asked to design a parental test before pregnancy, what would you take?

Solitaire:

1.Do you love yourself?

2.Why do you want to have children?

3.What should you do to him after giving birth?

4.Are you confident that you can handle your relationship with your child?

5.Do you know that the child himself is also a ruined individual?

6.What can you offer your child? Are these all things your child needs?

7.What would you do if your child didn't accept you?

8.If your child is not filial to you, will you still be nice to him?

9.If your spouse is no longer in the Slim Dan clan and you need to raise the children yourself, would you be willing?

10.Can you accept that your own body is out of shape and quickly emaciated?

If parents needed to take an exam, what would they do?

Can you pass a test if you need it when your parents need it?

Some time ago, a 3-year-old girl in Shenzhen died because she was forgotten by her parents in the car for several hours. According to the investigation, the girl's parents went to play cards after forgetting their daughter in the car!

Something like this is not uncommon. Many netizens said that such parents are not qualified to be parents at all.

There are also many netizens who call for the establishment of a parent qualification examination examination, and only those who pass the exam can be qualified to become parents and raise children.

I also strongly agree that if you want to become a parent, you must first pass the qualification exam!

Having children is not about playing games or playing games. However, there are indeed too many young parents now, who are still giant babies themselves, but they have become fathers and mothers.

When children are cute, they tease them. When the children are naughty, they either yell at the children or even beat them badly, or throw them to the old people and hide them to play on the side.

A living child is like a toy in their eyes, they play with it if they like it, and throw it aside if they don't like it, completely ignoring their responsibilities and obligations as parents.

If there is such an exam before Duan buries them to become parents, and they are asked to learn the responsibilities and obligations of parents, and test their attitude and ability to take responsibility and obligations, before they are given the qualifications to have children, I think this should avoid the tragedy of many innocent children...

Of course, parents need to learn not only how to raise children, but also how to grow with children.

If you only regard your children as a burden, it means that you have not learned to grow up with your children, and you have not realized that growing up with your children can also give us the opportunity to become a better version of ourselves.

Children have a lot to learn from adults, but there are also many valuable things that we need to learn. For example, children's curiosity to explore the world, children's imagination, children's innocence and kindness, and so on.

As we grow older, we are more and more accustomed to looking at the people around us from a secular perspective, our eyes are less clear, and our lives are less pure happiness, and the arrival of children just saves our lost self.

Through the eyes and hearts of children, we saw our long-lost sunny smiles, and found our former loving selves.

Although sometimes I feel very tired, the corners of my mouth will unconsciously rise when I see the sleeping children around me. This is the power of love, not the love we give to our children, but the love that children bring to us!

Therefore, the qualification review of parents is not to make people who want to have children daunting, on the contrary, it is to teach them how to cherish the time they spend with their children.

Because these children are angels who have come to save and heal us, if you know how to cherish and appreciate their coming, you will definitely harvest a better version of yourself!

If the child does not do well in the exam, parents should not blame the child too much, because if he does not do well in the exam, the child itself is already very uncomfortable, I think parents should encourage the child more, and then teach him some learning methods, teach him how to plan his own learning, how to study each subject. Then help your child with his homework to improve his grades。Parents should work together with their children to improve their grades, and they should not just threaten their children by beating and scolding them.

This is ineffective, and the problem should be solved at the source.

Education should also be methodical, not just casual scolding. Parents should accompany their children to do those problems, and then see the weak points in the child's learning, and then give the child targeted tutoring. If you feel that you can't tutor your child, you can also ask him to find some teachers to tutor him.

As long as it is very hard, the child's grades will definitely rise, and when you encounter problems, you must find a way, rather than thinking about who to blame, after all, if the child has bad grades, he himself will be very uncomfortable, and there will be some comparisons in the child's world, if it is a long-term countdown, he will not be very good in his own heart.

Those children with good grades are because they have a good habit, they will memorize a few words before going to bed or practice something every day, should let the children form some good habits for a long time, so that it can be conducive to their learning, so that they feel that learning is no longer a torment, but a kind of perseverance.

Good habits can make an excellent person, from an early age to have some behavioral norms for children, so that they know how to abide by discipline, know how to abide by some habits, and the most important thing is to let them develop perseverance, so that no matter what they do, they will do well. It is not necessarily just learning to have a way out, children can also develop well if they have other interests, and the most important thing is to let children grow up healthily.

Parents should pay attention to the psychology of their children, at this time children are particularly sensitive, so parents should not criticize their children too much, they should tell them that their parents are always around, ask their children if they want to take the make-up exam, and give their children some encouragement appropriately.

Parents should encourage their children at this time, tell them that it is normal to make mistakes, do not discourage them, and also help them find their own shortcomings and correct them, and continue to work hard in the next exam.

First of all, parents should encourage their children to be okay, and then they should see the child's room for improvement, praise the child appropriately, and then tell the child some stories, and take the child out to play.