Children are reluctant to change clothes, how should parents guide them?

My son Kaka also had a period of reluctance to change his clothes when he was a child, and if he liked a certain piece of clothing, he would always wear it. However, children sweat a lot, their metabolism is vigorous, and the clothes they wear are easy to multiply bacteria, and at the end of the day, they have already become sour and stinky. So, I had to find an excuse to get him to change his clothes every day.

Even a very young child is reasonable, and his parents can instill in him the concept of "changing clothes frequently" and letting him keep his clothes neat and clean.

1. Find out why your child is reluctant to change clothes

There must be a reason why the child is reluctant to change his clothes. Parents try not to force their children to change clothes, but to communicate with their children more, carefully find out the reasons why he is unwilling to change clothes, first meet his emotional and psychological needs, and then try to change his clothes.

Some children are reluctant to change their clothes because they think the clothes on them look good; Some children are reluctant to change their clothes because they have their "baby" ...... hidden in their pocketsParents can slowly guide their children according to the reasons why they are reluctant to change clothes.

For example, if the child is reluctant to change his clothes because he thinks his clothes are good-looking, then parents can look through the previous ** with the child and tell the child that he looks good in other clothes, such as the one on the ** is particularly suitable for him. I believe that after listening to the words of their parents, children will no longer resist changing their clothes.

2. "Distract" the child's attention

Some children are reluctant to change their clothes because they feel uncomfortable (especially changing their jumpers), so they are reluctant to change their clothes.

In this case, parents may wish to try a "distraction" method, for example, the mother can play a small game of changing clothes with the child, so that the child can turn his attention to the game; In addition, parents can also let the child change his clothes by himself, and after the child has changed his clothes through his own efforts, parents should praise him in time. In this way, the child's resistance to changing clothes will gradually decrease.

3. Treat children correctlyRebellious period

When a child reaches the age of two or so, he or she will enter the first rebellious period of his life. Because at this stage, the child begins to understand that he is an independent person, he can walk, he can talk, and even do some things on his own. So he began to understand that he was different from others.

At this time, the child likes to go against his parents, for example, if his mother asks him to eat, he used to eat happily, but now he may say, "No, I don't want to eat"; Mom asks him to change his clothes, and he may say, "I don't," to show that they have their own perspective on things.

Parents should also treat this change in their children correctly, try to change their own practices, and adopt new ways to get along with their children. Don't criticize and scold your child for being "rebellious". Friends, do you think Kakama's statement is reasonable?

The above is mine, I hope it can help you.

If the child is unwilling to change clothes, parents should educate the child that if he does not change his clothes, he will not pay attention to hygiene, and even get sick, etc. You should also tell your child that if you don't change your clothes, there will be a bad smell, and other children won't like to play with him. If you dress cleanly, people will like to approach them, so that the child will accept the change of clothes.

Parents should educate and guide their children correctly and tell them that changing clothes is a very good thing.

After putting on the clothes you like, you refuse to change them down, and you want to wear them all the time; Children buy better clothes, buy more frequent clothes for children, teach children in time, let children understand the importance of cleanliness, and let children develop good cleaning habits.

We can often go to change his clothes frequently, let him develop such a habit, change their concepts, or try on clothes that are uncomfortable, we can change them for him.

Many children will be like this, parents can say to their children, I will buy you a better clothes, or this clothes are very dirty and need to be washed.

On the surface, it will not have any impact on the child, but after a long time, it is easy for the child to feel that it is a normal thing to change clothes in front of others, and naturally take this "honest meeting" as a habit, which is a very bad thing.

When the child is three years old, he has already begun to distinguish between men and women, which means that the child already has sexual consciousness at this time, if he does not shy away from it in front of the child at this time, let the child see things with obvious sexual characteristics, the child will have misunderstandings about sex without understanding, and when the child is really understood, this experience will have a great impact on him.

Often in front of the child does not shy away from changing clothes, will make the child's sense of privacy particularly weak, the child is likely to grow up to not pay attention to privacy, nor respect the privacy of others, so the child peeks at the mother, because in the child's subconscious, he feels that there is no problem.

Now most families are not enough for children's sex education, if parents often change clothes in front of their children, children will be particularly curious about sex, if parents do not have timely guidance at this time, children will be more and more curious driven by curiosity, and even to explore on their own, and the psychological development of children will be greatly affected.

It is normal for children to have curiosity about sex, but at this time, parents can not sit idly by, and do not scold loudly, if parents do not give their children sex education in time, it will only let the children step into misunderstandings, parents must pay attention to this aspect.

Be sure to make it clear that your child should not let anyone see his body – especially his private parts – and not expose them at will. Although changing clothes in front of children is a trivial matter, it has no small impact on children, and I hope to attract the attention of mothers.

It's really like this, don't change clothes in front of your child, this will have a particularly bad impact on your child.

I think it's better not to change clothes in front of children, especially in front of boys.

Mothers changing clothes in front of their children are slowly affecting their children's psychological development and hindering their children's gender education. Sexual consciousness gradually arises, and if there is a boy in the family, the mother cannot always change clothes in front of the child