Some people say that class reunions are a joke . Is that right?

Today's society is too utilitarian, and what people value most is money, and their feelings for classmates are easily diluted by time. The classmates have gradually drifted apart since graduation, and the friendship is not as weak as when they were children, and it is difficult to find the pure simplicity of the past. And the essence of the party should also be a gathering, not a scene of showing off and talking between classmates, and a joke of touting and stampeding.

If we were at a reunion when we were classmates, then we only thought about eating and drinking alone, what happened to our classmates laughing and laughing, and whether a math problem was complicated or not. But now everyone has different responsibilities, we need to face the elderly to support, children to raise, our own family life is counting on us.

Students have different goals and ideological outlooks from each other, and it is difficult to reach the same height. In the past, class reunions were all about a group of people and everyone, but now they have become talking about themselves. Everyone gathers for dinner, ostensibly to invigorate classmates and friendships, but in fact to get to know others and see if their lives are rich and superior.

Whether you have the opportunity to compare and show off. <>

At the same time, if any of his former classmates is rich and powerful, everyone will also tend to curry favor with him and curry favor with him. Everyone thinks that if they have a good relationship with that wealthy classmate, they will be able to get the help of their noble classmates and improve their lives. That's the current state of class reunions!

There are so few common topics that everyone has in common, and the distance between them is stretched. The class reunion is really boring, it's a complete joke. This is also the reason why most people are reluctant to attend class reunions. <>

It is recommended to participate in class reunions as little as possible, many times it is not a simple "class reunion", but in fact a "party to show off wealth".

There is a scene that everyone may have experienced, at the beginning of the graduation of the classmates, everyone burst into tears, shouted for warmth, and took pictures one after another. At that time, the QQ group and WeChat group were very lively, but as time passed, you will find that the situation has changed a lot. Gradually, no one spoke in the group, and it became dead silent.

But as long as someone in this group suddenly speaks, basically nothing good happens. Either anyone wants to "cut a knife" in Pinduoduo, or the college banquet is for students to participate. Actually, I'm not against taking the money, it's not worth mentioning.

But some students really "go to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing", purely to make a gift of a few hundred yuan.

Usually, I haven't been in touch for a few years or decades, and I don't even like it when I see it in the circle of friends. At this time, if you want to hold a wedding banquet, you know that thinking of your old classmates is really embarrassing, and I am speechless for this sudden invitation.

"People go to high places, and water flows low places. "As we meet different people after graduation, we are in different circles. Our values are here to change!

Sometimes it's easier to make yourself a talking point for laughter.

Yes, because some people's class reunions are just to show off their vanity, not really to connect with friends, the meaning has changed.

I think it makes some sense, because sometimes many people go to show off their wealth at class reunions, and they don't have any classmate affection at all.

No, because it's something we haven't seen for years, and then it's a great opportunity to connect with each other, and you just have to have a party with the people you get along with, and you don't have to worry about other people if they hurt you.

I think it makes a lot of sense, because people are more realistic, and the same is true among classmates, and class reunions are just about making themselves profitable.

Maybe it's because people like to compare in class reunions nowadays, so many people think it's a joke and don't even want to participate in class reunions.

I think it's true, because the current class reunion is a common practice, and it is not at all as simple and beautiful as it was back then.

I think that in the past, I had to fight class reunions to connect with each other and care for each other, but now I have class reunions to show off each other's suspicions, and after passing the auspicious time, I laughed at the person who had a bad time.

I don't think so. Because classmates are our most sincere grip on a group of friends, we can put down any precautions in front of classmates, so class reunions are a good opportunity to enhance relationships.

I very much agree with this point of view, and many of the classmates in Jizhou are going to show off their wealth, and that is not to contact the feelings between classmates, so it is better to go to these unnecessary gatherings.

I think there is some truth in this sentence, whether it is in the film and television drama or the grasp is that in reality, there is a wind of comparison with the old school party, rather than recalling the feelings of classmates in the past, so it is a joke in the eyes of outsiders, it is not worth participating, and there is no point in judging the draft.

Some class reunions are just eating, drinking, chatting and having fun, which is indeed a life of life where there is nothing to do.

It may be very necessary for many people to reminisce about their youth at class reunions, but it doesn't mean much to me.

We had organized a junior high school reunion before, and I was at home some time before the Chinese New Year, and their meeting was only a 30-minute drive from my house, but I didn't attend. At that time, the promoter of the event called me ** and asked me to come over when the time came, but I didn't give a clear answer, just went over when I had time, and then I didn't go. I saw someone posting **, just eating, drinking and singing, I feel that it is better to sleep at home.

Good friends who play in junior high school, we meet every year, and we often keep in touch, as for other people, when they go to school, it's just a classmate relationship, and there is no need to have too much friendship, and there seems to be no need to meet. Everyone has not been in contact for many years, and there will definitely be changes, how can people who enter the society still be as simple as when they were in school, it is nothing more than a large-scale scene to show off their wealth, and civilians like us really don't want to join. There is nothing to say in school, and many years later, the most you may have to do is nod and smile and greet each other, which is really embarrassing.

And I always felt thatSome people are destined to only accompany you there, and those memories should be sealed in the dust at a certain point in time, and there is no value in turning them out。You can't be too greedy, say goodbye to some people, there will be new friends, we should cherish the fate but don't climb.

Students who feel that they are in tune with each other are often in contact, and as for those who have not been in contact for many years, they are not in the same world, and there is really no need for parties.

Now the classmates don't have the laziness they had when they were in the pure era, basically the interests are greater than everything, and there are also factions in the Panbilabang, and the fighting feels worse than the classmates in elementary school.

The main thing is to look at the atmosphere of the class reunion, if it is the joy of reunion after a long absence, why not go? If it's a comparison with each other, it's really annoying. It lies in the guidance, human nature is multifaceted, and it is guided to cherish the friendship of classmates and create a warm environment, who is not willing to go?

Very meaningful. I don't know if we are older people (in their 50s) are more simple and affectionate, and every time we have a small gathering, we have endless words, reminiscing about childhood anecdotes, and being grateful for today's life, which is very hilarious.

It makes sense, but if this kind of communication is too frequent, it will make people lose their freshness, and they will feel empty and boring, and then it will lose its meaning. Classmates' reunions are something that happens occasionally, and it is wrong to say it often.

Class reunions are meaningful, and it is best to set a time schedule for the reunion, such as once in 5 or 10 years, and the time is longer, so that everyone's enthusiasm is naturally high. And it doesn't always have to be a meal and just leave, you can change the environment or form. For example, gatherings can be organized into outdoor activities, changing the environment, so that everyone can exchange life perceptions, work experience, and so on.

Proper class reunions are necessary, but repeatedly refusing class reunions is a kind of psychological resistance, feeling that you are not good enough, just participate appropriately.

I never go to class reunions, it's boring, and I can't talk together. The chatters are all public utilities, and if you can talk about a party together, you must drive, although it is not a good car, but it can block alcohol.

It's good, every year when we go home, our elementary school classmates will get together, and we never drive, because it's very close to home, and the most important thing is that we can't drink while driving, and we can't get together at every party. Some female classmates are married to other places, so there are generally more than a dozen people at a large table, which is very cherished. I never say who mixes well, who mixes badly, they all know each other since childhood, play together in elementary and junior high schools, who doesn't know whose bottom is fine, and male classmates drink too much and show their feelings. ‍‍

I think the class reunion is actually a comparison to see who is the richest now, if the mix is not good, it will be funny if you go, it is better to find an excuse to refuse. ‍‍

It is very necessary, because it is the most beautiful memory of us, and the gathering of classmates is not just a group of classmates getting together, it is a kind of communication with each other, understanding each other's situation, getting back some friends who were once very good, and by the way, gaining some experience and exchanging recent events.

Gathering every year is just a full number, and the pressure on each family is old and young.

It doesn't make sense, don't go. And has already dropped out of the group!

It's already changed, there's no need to get together.

Each has its own opinion, there is no standard answer, and there is no need to have it, who likes to go or not.

Small-scale agglomeration is frequent. Declined!

I think it's almost ...... once a year

I don't organize class reunions, I go when someone asks me, AA system.

It doesn't make sense, the organizers are a bit of that.

It's gone bad, and I haven't returned to my hometown for the New Year for three years after leaving home, and my classmates don't remember it.

Because of the restrictions of the major, the class is full of girls, so at the class reunion, my favorite sentence became "Oh, why are you still like this, it hasn't changed at all".

This is probably the most popular thing for all girls to hear, because this sentence tells her that her youth is still there, and she is still as beautiful as a few years ago.

Maybe because everyone has gone out of society, they have all changed, and they are no longer as stupid as before, and everyone is speaking with skillful tactfulness, and at this time you want to hear the truth, it's really too difficult.

And everyone's favorite sentence is to praise each other for being beautiful, and praising each other for being as beautiful as before, which may be to mention the past love, and also to make the person who is praised feel that he values himself.

At this time, women always love beauty, everyone wants to be many years younger than others, they all want to be young forever, no woman doesn't like beauty, so if you participate in the class reunion and meet a girl who says this, you must immediately make the other party like you.

Of course: I'm doing well.

At the class reunion, I definitely don't want to lose face in front of my classmates, and I talk about my life for the better.

As for men, they like to talk about what kind of lofty work they do, how much money they make in a month, and how many people they have. When did you buy a house, and what kind of car did you have...

Women like to say what kind of husband they marry and how much their husband loves them. How much pocket money is there every month, and there is a smart and cute child. How much the in-laws love themselves...

In fact, only I know how I am doing.

One time a few of our classmates in the neighborhood got together for dinner, and one of the female classmates said that she was well married.

Her husband loves her, and her mother-in-law loves her very much, and she doesn't have to do anything at home, someone takes care of it. And her husband listened to her again and lived happily.

When we heard this, we all thought she was very lucky, and envied her for finding a good mother-in-law.

Who knew that not long after, I heard from other classmates that she was abused by her husband....That's when we realized that she was lying about how well she was doing at the party.

Many class reunions are the same, and the former classmates don't want to tell everyone about their bad lives, but also for their own face.

Leave a ** and contact you often in the future.

The most fake words are also my favorite words.

I have always felt that I am a person who pays special attention to feelings, thinking of junior high school, thinking of high school, there are a lot of friends who play so well, at that time I would really naively think that this is a friend who can play for a lifetime, but unfortunately, it is always lost inexplicably.

When you leave a circle of friends, you will enter a new circle of friends, enter a new circle of friends, and new feelings will arise, new things will happen, always want to better integrate into the new circle of friends, step into a new bad environment, but always accidentally lose your previous friends, and lose them completely, even when you pronounce the name, you will feel strange.

The process of life is in a hurry, and after graduating for a long time, you will find that the person who has always wanted to contact and has never had time to contact is now not even having the courage to make a mistake.

When I said that I must keep in touch often in the future, I really worked hard and really hoped to do it, but when I couldn't do it, I was really busy and couldn't do it.

So, really cherish the people who are still there!