Why is it that the more serious people are, the more likely they are to suffer emotional damage?

Because if we take our feelings too seriously, the other party will not cherish them, and we are on the road of feelings, and we are prone to emotional damage.

Because everything should not be too true, serious, sincere itself is not wrong, but because feelings are inherently illusory, and there is great uncertainty, if you are too serious, you may hurt yourself. Therefore, the more serious some people are about their feelings, the more vulnerable they are.

Because of the serious feelings of life for fear of hurting the other party, always careful to care about the other party's feelings and ignore themselves, the so-called want others to love themselves, first of all, you must love yourself, other people's attitude towards you is your own attitude towards yourself.

Because he needs better feedback on people who are serious about their feelings. But the other party generally does not reach the height of his ideals, so it is easy to encounter emotional damage.

Because such a person regards feelings too seriously, he puts all his energy into it, and taking it too seriously is a kind of harm to himself.

Because two people can't be emotional, two people can't feel the same forever, the run-in is painful, and it is naturally more difficult for one person to extricate himself if he is emotional, and the other is the opposite, and he can withdraw without emotion.

A girl who takes her feelings seriously will not necessarily be hurt in her relationship, because such a girl has a correct view of love, and as long as she finds a boy who also values her feelings, she can live a very happy life. Comparatively speaking, girls who don't take their feelings seriously enough will not be hurt easily, but they will not meet true love.

First, many girls have had a similar experience, giving too much in the relationship, but the other party does not cherish it, in fact, it is because they like the wrong person. For a girl who is serious about feelings, whether it is the other party who pursues himself first or the other party he pursues, as long as two people are together, they will give their all, so in this process, we must take a good look at each other's character, if the other party is a person who can be trusted, two people will be very happy after being together, but if the other party is on the surface and behind the other, then after the two people are together, the girl will be played by each other, and it will be very painful in the future love life.

Second, because girls who are serious about their feelings dare to love and hate, even if they experience a failed love, they can come out quickly. And because of previous experience, you will be more cautious when starting a new relationship. Of course, there are some girls who have never been able to come out of the shadow of broken love and become decadent, but because they take their feelings seriously enough, they will not easily accept other men, so that they will not be hurt again because they are too confused and choose the wrong person.

Third, there are many girls who rely on their young and beautiful capital to come into contact with many men, and finally pick and choose. When she wants to talk seriously about a partner and enters the marriage hall, she finds that she has long been disqualified, this is because she has developed a casual habit, and she is not serious enough about her feelings, and she will not get sincere feelings. So relatively speaking, girls who are serious about their feelings may be hurt, but because of this advantage, they can get happiness that others can't envy.

Yes, because as two independent individuals in a relationship, there will always be some friction, so girls who take their feelings seriously will be hurt and hurt.

Most people who take their feelings very seriously will be hurt. Because you care too much, you will become sensitive, and you want to make the pair love yourself more. In this way, it is easy to lose yourself, and the other party may not cherish it.

Yes. Girls take their feelings very seriously, but boys don't understand her intentions, often beat and scold, and even use cold violence against girls, and don't care about girls, so it's easy to hurt girls with delicate emotions.

People who value their feelings are not necessarily always hurt in love, and there are many who have achieved positive results and entered the palace of marriage. Secondly, you are just an example in the marriage and love world, and you can't cover it with points. Moreover, what I especially want to do with you is that you are a student and should focus on your studies, after all, it is not easy for your parents to provide you with education.

In a relationship, both men and women are overly involved, they will lose themselves and become both gains and losses. Thus making both sides very tired. is overly invested, and such relationships often do not end well.

Girls should be more confident and believe that they are the best one. Look at love rationally.

If girls are overly involved, it only proves that their relationship must be separated by a wall. Specifically, boys don't love girls at all, but are forced to be together reluctantly because of the pressure from girls. That means that there will be hidden dangers when they walk together in the future, such as the fact that the twisted melon is not sweet.

Girls don't have to be overly involved in chasing a boy, such an unrequited love must not be long-term, and it can't be kept fresh, as long as the boy meets the girl he likes in the future, maybe their thin foundation will be broken. In the end, I just want to say one word to men and women who are in love: whether it is a boy or a girl, there is no need to be overly invested, true love is a fate, a destiny, a kind of sympathetic fate, there must not be a situation where one party is overinvested and can't get it.

Whether a woman is sweet or sad in love, she will be single-minded, which represents how seriously she treats this relationship. Before breaking up, she only decided that the person she was dating was her intended person, whether he was excellent or incompetent, whether he was handsome or ordinary, whether he was rich or penniless, she regarded him as the only person of the opposite sex who could have intimate contact with her. Single-mindedness in treating feelings is an excellent trait of a person, just imagine, a very beautiful and talented woman who is not short of money is dating this man today, and she is ambiguous with that man tomorrow, and which man is willing to marry her home?

This kind of unserious attitude is not only irresponsible for your own life, but also irresponsible for your lover.

No. This needs to be decided according to the actual situation, and it also varies from person to person, some girls can be happy, but some girls take their feelings very seriously and will still be hurt.

Of course not, I will meet some particularly good people, and I will also meet some boys who have a particularly correct outlook, and I will cherish such girls.

It is true that they will be hurt in the relationship, because they have invested a lot of emotions in the relationship, so they will be hurt by the other party.

No, it's just that few people in this society will take every relationship seriously, I think it's better to meet the right person, don't pay the real feelings wrong.

For me, love should be relatively clean feelings, should not be subject to any impurities, I treat feelings very seriously, will be dedicated to each other, let the other party feel their own efforts.

I'm a girl who is very serious about feelings, and once I choose to be with each other, I will be full of him, and I will never betray each other. Since I have chosen to be with each other, I will treat this relationship wholeheartedly, so that the other party can see my efforts, so that I am more angry with myself.

In love, I am actually a relatively humble girl, I will regard love as very important, and think that once we are together, we should go to the end. I will sacrifice some of my interests for the other party, just so that I can go to the end with the other party, hoping that the other party can see my own contributions. In love, I am easy to have low self-esteem, so many times I focus on the other party's opinions and other people's ideas, so that I can truly respect each other and let the other party do things with peace of mind.

I am afraid of losing the other party, I will work harder for the other party and make myself better. In my opinion, the other party can choose to be with me because of his luck is really good, so that he will have a happy today. In order to be able to go to the end with each other, in order for the other party not to be attracted to other girls, I will make myself more excellent, so that my boyfriend can't let go of himself.

I am a more serious girl, and I hope to be able to show the other party my sincerity, and I also hope to make the other party firm in their determination. Love is a sacred thing for me, so I will give it with all my heart, so that I can feel happy. I am a person who can't tolerate sand in love, although I am willing to be a little woman, but I will not tolerate any betrayal, otherwise I will leave immediately.

Particularly serious. Because once two people get along, they will be for a lifetime, they will not deceive each other, nor will they betray each other, and they will think that they can grow old in vain.

is still very serious, and in the relationship is also single-minded, especially understanding each other, and then taking care of each other's small emotions, and treating feelings is also a very sincere attitude

It's true, if you take it too seriously in a relationship, it will really make you bruised, even if you pay more in this relationship, you won't get the other party's heart.

Yes, because it is too easy to get, you often don't cherish it, and if you love too much, it will only make the other party feel that there is no way to live without him, and they will meet as they like, and gradually ignore your existence.

That's true, so we really shouldn't take ourselves too seriously in our relationship, let alone give too much, otherwise we can only hurt ourselves in the end.