What should I do if I have a strong wife?

My wife is relatively strong, of course, the one that is strong at home and not too strong outside. My daughter and I usually tolerate my wife, and everyone in the family is basically the same, of course, there are many times when I can't stand the quarrel, but in the end, I coax and let go, and my wife is angry. There are also serious enough that they want to divorce, but they still haven't said it later.

But it wasn't like this when she was in love before, and it was still very quiet and gentle at that time. It wasn't on purpose, she was really good at the time. Later, there was a lot of friction in the house, and it slowly changed.

I am also envious of seeing many very loving and harmonious couples. I don't think I'll ever be like that in my life. I still have to face the reality, bear what I should bear, do my best, and live a positive life.

First of all, the strong woman in the family must be materially or spiritually superior to the man, and the man will have a sense of frustration in the aspect of inferiority to the woman. So in the final analysis, the man must surpass the woman materially or spiritually in order to solve the problem. Secondly, if the first one can't be done, then we can retreat to the second, work harder on our own disadvantages, and tolerate the woman's strength, the woman sees that her man is self-motivated, and cares about herself and tolerates herself, then the so-called strength will slowly fade.

Finally, if it does reach the point where it is incompatible, it is recommended that two people sit down with each other and have a good talk, rather than using quarrels and divorces to solve the problem. Marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished.

If a woman is so strong that she does it outside and at home, and there is no distinction between good and bad, right or wrong. It is advisable to be brave and bold and have a good talk with her. Communicate more and get to know her better. Otherwise, listen to her, and sometimes you lose your principles; If you don't listen to her, the two of you will fight each other.

Strong women will have a little woman in their hearts, I am a woman myself, strong is external, never do this to my family, men's self-esteem will not be able to stand it, men for strong women, give her enough face outside, come back and you will have everything!

Strong depends on whether you can adapt to it, a woman with a strong heart will live a prosperous life than a person who is at peace with the situation, which is a good aspect for the family, but there is also a bad aspect that there may be family quarrels and weak children. My family is my mother is stronger, the good thing is that my family is living a good life with my parents cooperating with each other, and the bad thing is that my father's temperament is also very soft by my mother, this is not afraid of my mother, this is tolerance, so there are good and bad, and I will think about my own life.

I think as a man is just considerate, and then respect each other, nothing serious. I am indecisive in dealing with things, and I look forward to everything. My wife is resolute and straightforward, but sometimes reckless.

I feel like my family can complement each other very well. At home, my wife never let me touch the housework, and we discussed big and small things. The most important thing is that the two of us have been married for five years, and we have never quarreled or blushed.

When she was angry and nagging, I didn't squeak, and I was telling her afterwards; When I sulked when I was angry, she would give in and soften in time, and I happily got off the donkey.

Nowadays, women are more individualized and strong, but their hearts are very kind, and some are a little stronger in the process of doing things and speaking, that is because they want to do things perfectly, in the process, everyone may feel that they are too strong, as long as they have patience to communicate, they will also change.

First of all, I want to state that I am not a man, but as a woman, I am definitely a strong person, so I will help men analyze and analyze how to get along with a wife like me from the perspective of a strong person, or share with you the more successful mode of getting along with my husband and me.

As a label that I have grown up with for many years, it seems that from the beginning of school to the beginning of work and marriage, it has always been with me, I think that the good thing that strong people say is to be assertive, dare to say and dare to do, and to say it is ugly, that is, to be self-centered, not to consider other people's feelings, not to accept other people's ideas and suggestions, and even to interfere with other people's actions.

1.Be assertive and show weakness appropriately

For the strong me, I have to be more serious in everything, admit death, often do not take into account his face problems, for example, I will force my husband to smoke less, at least not in front of me, go out to eat with friends, if he smokes at the dinner table, he will ask me for instructions first, and my friends are also accustomed to it, thinking that he is a strict wife.

In fact, my husband does the same to the outside world, and what he often says is: A good man is not afraid of his wife, but respects his wife. The reason why I want to ask for instructions for smoking is because I know that my wife is for my good.

In many cases, on many things, my husband will discuss with me to make a decision, and it is also on the premise of guaranteeing the tone and attitude, and if I start to disagree, he will change the time, change the way, and say it again, until I also approve of his approach.

In short, have your own ideas, but keep showing weakness, step by step.

2.Pay attention to the attitude and overcome the rigid with softness

For strong people, they are generally bodhisattvas, how strong they are on the outside, how soft they are on the inside, and such people generally respect me an inch, I respect people a foot, and meeting such a wife can be said to be a great blessing in life.

Because when you meet such a wife, as long as you ensure that your attitude is good enough, enough to put your heart into your heart, and do your best to give her the best, she is easy to be satisfied and moved, such as my husband.

He would always want to bring me local specialties on a business trip, and on the way to work, he would buy those things that I casually said I wanted to eat, and some of the things I forgot I said I wanted to eat yesterday. On a thunderstorm, he would pick me up from work at work because he knew I was afraid of thunder. When you have a cold and fever, he will never say "drink more hot water" perfunctory, but must deliver the medicine to your bedside, cool the water to the right temperature, and serve it to you together.

Even if I am aggressive and self-centered in everything, I will always consider him as much as possible, and I think my husband has done the ultimate in overcoming rigidity with softness. For a strong wife, this is the best wrist.

As the saying goes, people's hearts are flesh and blood, as long as you can compare your heart to your heart and understand her deeply, even if you are a strong wife, you will definitely be able to get along happily. After all, married life is not a chess game, there is no confrontation, there is no game, only mutual affection, hand in hand to the end.

After getting married, what should I do if I find out that my wife is very strong?

This is a blessing for you. It's just that you have to be a little more tolerant of your lover. She has a violent personality, but she loves you. So, having a strong wife is a good sign.

My wife is strong, as long as I am still centered on you in front of outsiders, and I will consider you for face, then don't worry. But if you're like that even in front of outsiders, then you must find a time to talk to her.

On the 2nd floor, I would like to ask you, what should you do if you encounter a woman who has nothing to do and is angry with a man? I just want to be a friend of mine who is small to big, his wife goes to work, the team leader troubles her, she helps her all in her heart, and when my friend comes home, she scolds him, can you pet such a woman? How should I be petted?

First of all, don't go head-to-head with her.

As the saying goes, a good man is a good man if he doesn't fight with a woman, and a man who doesn't fight with his wife is a good man. A strong woman is definitely unwilling to admit defeat, even if she is required to be light in many things, she is undoubtedly playing with fire, a little unexpected, afraid that it will only lead to fire, the two sides are hard, and they are doing it, which is also an important test for their own marriage foundation, no matter how they run in with each other, there must be contradictions, once the contradictions intensify, they will weaken your emotional foundation, so as a generous and responsible man, it is best not to choose thankless things, and do not go toe-to-toe with her.

To retreat as advance, soften her strength.

This is an effective way to deal with a strong wife; While avoiding contradictions, she strained her fighting spirit. Some strong women, when quarreling with their husbands, like to have the upper hand, do not accept softness, and do not bow their heads, in the face of such a strong woman, we take a step back The effect may be better, do not care about small things, and be more tolerant of big things, over time, she realizes less strong and less contradictions, and naturally will not target you for no reason. No matter how strong a woman is, she can't resist the "soft grinding and hard bubble".

I think you should divorce the other person, because a relationship like this is not very happy at all.

In life, you should respect each other and be obedient, so that you will not make each other angry, and you will not let the other person get angry with yourself often.