If you don t have money, you don t want children, and if you don t have money, don t buy a house, do

I think both of these views are said by people who are "short-sighted", and I will not accept them.

Children are the crystallization of love, and it has nothing to do with whether they have money or not. The older generation was poor and had no food or clothing, and they also had several children. Now I don't have to worry about eating and drinking, but I don't want children.

If there is an adult to eat, it is not as bad as a child's bite. I can't afford to eat the good, and I can't afford to eat the bad. In fact, children who grow up eating home-cooked meals are in better health.

Of course, the cost of children's growth is very large now, but this is all operable. Treat each case on a case-by-case basis. I am also a salaryman, my children eat domestic milk powder, and I have never been to cram school since I was a child (it was not that I had no money at that time, and my children could not live or die).

Now graduate school is almost graduating.

So, don't hold up the guise of having no money and don't have children. If you are not ready to be a parent, I recommend joining some expectant mother circles, participating in more expectant mother activities, and reading more books and articles on being a good parent.

Children are our hope and witness one wonderful process after another. The first fetal movement, the first time holding him (her) in swaddling clothes, it was tearful. For the first time, I also understood the responsibility on the shoulders of my parents.

Then, accompany him (her) to grow day by day. Bear the wind and rain with him (him) and see the rainbow together.

Don't buy a house if you don't have money. This view is also incorrect. Of course, you need to have money in hand to buy a house, but when you don't have money in your hand, you should pay more attention to the dynamics of real estate and know how to flexibly turn over the existing funds.

Instead of leaving the matter of buying a house behind and ignoring it. If you miss the good time because of this, the gap is not half a point.

If you really don't have any money, you can't borrow it, so that's another matter. At present, the state has relatively rigid control over commercial housing, insisting on housing for living and not speculation. If you just need it, you must start it in time.

If you have a little savings in your hand and are a little short of the down payment, you can borrow from relatives, friends and classmates, and when you have enough down payment and the ability to repay every month, you still have to buy a house in time.

A friend of mine bought a house in the suburbs of Zhengzhou, and another friend also wanted to buy it, but he didn't have the money, so he said he would buy it when I came back from work. Three months later, this friend came back from working abroad, and the original house price rose by 100,000 yuan, and the money he earned in three months was not enough. It's been three months, so it's better to find a way to borrow some money to buy it at the beginning.

Housing prices have been crazy for more than ten years, and there are many such examples, and many people have suffered losses. In recent years, the national policy has changed, but just need friends or get on the bus in time. Because once the unit price rises, the total price of the house will be much higher.

In short, children are our hope and the future of the motherland. The house varies depending on the money. Buy the small ones when you have less money, and replace the larger ones when you have more money. You must know how to make a move when you should make a move, and you can't live a dead brain.

I accept it, because raising a child is too expensive, and having no money to have a child really hurts her; The house is too expensive, I have no money and I have to go into debt to buy it, and I am tired of paying off my debts all my life.

I don't accept either point of view. Because there is no money to earn on your own, you can't choose to give up. If you have this view, your life will go downhill.

I can take it. Because when you don't have money, you can't even guarantee your basic life, let alone think about having children and buying a house.

I don't think I accept this view, because a lot of people don't have money.

If you don't have money, you don't want children, and if you don't have money, don't buy a house, do you agree with these two views?

1. I don't agree with these two views, everyone should not take money too seriously.

People are busy and running around every day, the purpose is to make more money, because all aspects of daily life need to spend money, such as food, clothing, housing and transportation. Money is important, but it's not the whole story. There are many other factors in a person's life, such as feelings.

So, you can't take money too seriously.

Second, children are the crystallization of love, even if there is no money, children can grow up happily.

Regarding the matter of having children, it is not that you should not have children if you don't have money, everyone's family conditions are different, the rich live a richer life, and the poor live a poorer life. However, it cannot be said that those who have money must be happier than those who have no money, some people live in poor families, but the family is happy and very happy. People often say that children are the bond of marriage, so as long as the family is harmonious and beautiful, whether there are rich economic conditions is not the most important thing.

On the contrary, for those who value money too much, they will be troubled by earning money, and even if they have money, it is difficult for them to feel happy, because people's desires are endless.

Third, if you don't have money to buy a small house, such a home is more meaningful.

As a place for people to live, having a house of their own is equivalent to having a place to settle down, and there is a sense of belonging. Therefore, many people will try to buy a house even if they don't have much money, even if it is a small area, even if it is hard to pay off the monthly payment, they will not regret it. Because, in a sense, the house is also a symbol of home, a symbol of stability, therefore, as long as you have a certain ability, as long as you want, you can buy a house.

There's no need to care about what others say.

If I used to be unrecognizable, but now that I've grown up, I think these two sentences are very reasonable, if you don't have enough strength to do these things, life will only be difficult.

I don't agree, I don't have money to have children, I can't cut off the incense, I don't have money to be poor, but the house I feel is just needed, or have a fixed living environment to have children.

Personally, I am not too late to agree with these two points of view, because I think that such a view is too one-size-fits-all, which will effectively hit the inner self-confidence, and only by completing these things in the process of hard work will the pressure be turned into motivation.

Summary. If you don't have money, you can't really have children He feels that having no money to have children will be very stressful.

If you don't have money, you can't really have children He feels that having no money to have children will be very stressful.

He should feel that he is not very capable of doing it now, and he can't give you a good future, so he is very cautious about having children.

You can say it with a heart.

Is that going to continue to be together.

It depends on how he treats you usually, and he treats you very well.

I don't want to talk to him about feelings.

I just feel tired to talk to him, and I don't feel that way.

Uh-huh. It should be that he gave you a very poor love experience, not caring enough for feedback and not enough to give you.

Then you can reject him and let him stop bothering you.

Just want to give me a good life, excellent.

Your idea is very good, a good woman should indeed find a good man to take good care of you and protect you.

I don't know what to do with him, and I don't have anything to ask for.

A man really has to have some ability to be honest, he can't give you anything, plus if it's a little machismo, you can't stand it.

Tell me, it's better to find a rich man, or it's good for her.

I think you should find a man who is rich and good to you.

First of all, having money can give you a material foundation, and then being kind to you is better, and life is beautiful.

And you should be quite good-looking, so the requirements should be a little higher, and there is nothing wrong with being picky.

What do you think? , I think you should have a better life anyway!!

If you want to live a happy and contented life, you must have the corresponding material conditions. Buying a car or a house is one of the most important things. But some people's parents didn't buy him a car and a house, and these people will blame their parents.

Such an approach is clearly wrong. ......The reason why I say this is because parents have no obligation to buy a car and a house for their children, children have no right to ask their parents to buy a car and a house for him, and Zhaosou has to rely on his own hands to build a happy life. 1. Parents are not obliged to buy a car or a house for their children.

Therefore, the child cannot blame the parents. Parents have the obligation to raise their children and must raise their own children. ......However, although parents have the obligation to raise their children, they do not have the obligation to buy a house or a car for their children.

This is very critical. ......After clarifying this situation, we know that the child cannot blame the parents for not buying him a car and a house......Parents have no obligation to do so, and children certainly cannot blame their parents for this. 2. The child has no right to ask his parents to buy him a car and a house, let alone blame his parents.

From the perspective of rights and obligations, a child does not have the right to ask his parents to buy him a car or a house. ......Correspondingly, the child has no right to blame his parents for not buying him a car and a house. ......In fact, when parents raise their children, they have already fulfilled their obligations, and there is no longer the obligation to buy a car and a house for their children.

Therefore, it is unreasonable for the child to blame his parents for not buying him a car and a house, and it is also illegal and non-compliant. 3. A happy life depends on your own hands to build on the side of the guess. This is how life is more meaningful.

Everyone wants to be able to live a happy and fulfilling life. ......However, one's own happy life cannot be obtained by one's parents, but must be built by one's own hands. This kind of happy life is more meaningful.

If you rely on your parents' help to buy a house and a car, this kind of life is actually not good, and you will be laughed at by your peers because of it, and you will be burdened with a heavy burden because of it. ......Only by relying on one's own hands to build a better life can one raise one's eyebrows and truly enjoy the joy of success. This kind of happy life is the most meaningful.

Although we always say that tigers do not eat their children, and no one wants to abandon their children, there are some things that make them lose their conscience to abandon their children, and they have their own difficulties in doing so, but it is by no means a reason for them to lose their conscience.

First of all, many abandoned children suffer from some kind of disease when they are born, such as Down syndrome, cerebral palsy and other diseases, these diseases are either huge costs and cannot be borne by the family, or there is no cure, and it is also a burden to pretend to be at home in the future, and the parents will be bound by this child for the rest of their lives. In this case, many unconscionable parents will abandon the child.

The second is that many parents are not ready to be parents, especially some young people are even studying, of course, they are not able to raise a child, sometimes they don't even know that they are pregnant, and the child is born at a loss, so they can only choose to abandon the hall and pengfeng. This has to do with the lack of sex education in China, as well as the lack of responsibility among these young people, and this is becoming more and more common.

In the end, it is because of poverty, although raising children can be poor, but it also costs a lot of money, many people do not have money to raise children, and some people are so mad that they have children to sell them to make money for their own expenses, although this is a few extremes, but there is also such behavior, if these children cannot be sold, they become abandoned children.

I don't really agree, because everyone has the right to have children, and only after giving birth to children will our lives be more oppressive, so that our lives can slowly become richer.

I quite agree with this point of view, because I think that life is very difficult now, if the economy is not rich, having another child will increase the burden, will make the husband and wife have more conflicts, and can not give the child a better material conditions and education, it is better to delay a few years, and then have a child when the economy is comfortable.

I think this statement is wrong. Because in the early days, people did not have the money to raise their children alone. As long as we love our children, we can have a child.

I don't completely agree with this statement, although waiting until there are certain financial conditions to have children can make children have a better education; But there are still a lot of poor people in this society, and they also need to enjoy their families.

Disagree. There are more children of the poor, but this does not affect the level of education of the children themselves. Money is to serve people, but not absolutely, money does not necessarily make children happy, and no money can directly determine a child's life.

I don't agree with this statement, our parents, our grandparents' generation still chose to raise us even if they had no money, so I think whether or not to have children is not directly related to money, if you have money, you will be rich, and if you don't have money, you will be poor. Children need the company of their parents. In other words, after having children, you will have the motivation to earn money.

Disagree. It is difficult to measure how much money is outside the body, after all, people's desires are endless, no matter how much money there is, the basic survival is something that every independent individual can achieve, we give birth to the next generation, in order to reproduce the future, in order to inherit the endless hope, and continue to pass on the human culture.