Gao Xiaosong s first marriage lasted 3 years and the second period lasted 5 years, why is it so shor

Gao Xiaosong is not only a songwriter, a homeowner, a director, and a talk show host, it can be said that he is a celebrity with a head and a face today, but his love life is a failure, and the two marriages briefly make me unbelievable, what is the problem? I guess that's what it looks like.

1.Because of the urging of his parents, he met a person who fell in love at first sight and got married in a flash

Who is the woman who fell in love with Gao Xiaosong at first sight? She isShen HuanGao Xiaosong was about thirty years old that year, and his career was thriving, he and Shen Huan met by accident, the two met at the door of the University of International Business and Economics, love at first sight, and then they couldn't forget each other.

I think it was probably because Gao Xiaosong's parents knew about it and urged him to be young, and he should start a family after starting a family, Gao Xiaosong is a very filial son, and he liked Shen Huan very much at the time, so he and Shen Huan proposed marriage three days later, since Shen Huan also agreed, this is a flash marriage, and the magic of love makes people desperate and dizzy.

It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and it ended in divorce after three years, I estimate that the reason for the divorce is probably that they don't understand each other, they get married too hastily, or they get married when they are in love, and after they get married, they know that their personalities are incompatible, and they can't get along.

2.The age difference is too great, the three views are different, and beauty is only temporary, not permanent

Who this beautiful angel is, she isXu Cangjin, Gao Xiaosong and she met in a beauty pageant, Xu Canjin was a 17-year-old contestant at that time, with outstanding performance and good looks, which met Gao Xiaosong's mate selection criteria, and then the two entered a period of love after the event.

Because Gao Xiaosong still had an unfinished marriage at that time, and sent Xu Cangjin to study in the United States, married secretly in the United States, and had a daughter, and lived a very happy life.

If the two love for a long time, and then divorce after five years, happiness always comes too late, goes too fast, and can't catch it, even if both parties have children together, but because the life together is unhappy, choose to let go and end the marriage.

I think Gao Xiaosong's marriage is so short, because the age gap with Xu Cangjin is too big, the world view, outlook on life, and values are different.

Maybe Gao Xiaosong's requirements for his wife are too high, so he divorced for such a short time, after all, celebrities are also ordinary people.

The marriage was short-lived, and it was a matter for people at that time, because they liked to be together, because they separated because they did not hesitate to spend money, and they had nothing to do with other people.

Gao Xiaosong's first marriage was 3 years, and the second 5 years were very short, which may have been caused by too high requirements.

I feel that Gao Xiaosong's relationship is so short, so he should not be suitable for marriage, or is he not going to get married.

Maybe it's because it's not suitable.,I liked it at the time and we were together.,And then after feeling like it's over, it's separated.。

This must have something to do with himself, maybe the first one is inappropriate, but it can't be inappropriate.

If you like it, you will be desperately together, and if you don't like it, you will soon separate, love is like this, and you are not willing to compromise.

Long ugly! It's also awesome! Dirty! The woman didn't stay with him for long.

Because I still want to find a young one while I am not too old, in a few years, I can only find an old wife.

Gao Xiaosong is a straw bale who pretends to be deep frivolous and bluffing!

Gao Xiaosong is a negative energy character, and he is a scumbag!

Ordinary people can't get along with him.

The talented man is affectionate but not attentive.

We all know that he had a wife younger than him before, and his family background is also very strong, his father is a professor at Tsinghua University, his mother is an expert in architecture, and the whole family is also very good. It is said that he also has a lot of connections with celebrities such as Liang QichaoWhen he was engaged in cultural and artistic work and gave up his engineering major, he was also looking for his own romance, which is also destined to be a person who pursues romance and explores the true meaning of life in his bones.

And Gao Xiaosong also learned a lot in this marriage, he has always wanted to shape each other into his ideal appearance, but everyone has their own independent personality, and they can't live according to other people's ideas. Perhaps he also understands now that in marriage, both parties have to keep themselves and cannot change arbitrarily for each other.

Maybe he has no hope for marriage anymore, so he doesn't want to get married again.

Because Gao Xiaosong has experienced two marriages, he may not want to, or he hasn't met a suitable one.

It may be that you can't find the right person, after all, how difficult it is to find someone who loves each other.

Because I feel that I am more relaxed by myself, it is good that there are not so many contradictions.

I already like to change the taste every once in a while.

If you want to talk about the masters in China at present, I am afraid that it is really difficult to find a few, because the people who claim to be masters are generally very unreliable, and those real talents are probably still lingering in the world.

Gao Xiaosong is actually a master in China. Although he personally does not want to admit this, and even some trolls even call him "dollar", that does not mean that this person is unpatriotic. Gao Xiaosong ruthlessly exposed many bad habits in China, and it is better for him to dare to speak out about the evils of our times than for some people to be so hypocritical and impetuous clamor.

Gao Xiaosong was in love before, married, and had a very cute girl, but later divorced due to the incompatibility of the husband and wife. You must know that Gao Xiaosong is a celebrity, but he is not a talent in the entertainment industry in the full sense, so his views on marriage actually have a lot to learn from.

First, there is no absolute persistence and abandonment of feelings. If you like someone, you need to persevere, and if she doesn't love you in the end, then break up, and then go to find the right person, even if you find it for a lifetime, that's our life.

Second, husbands and wives should understand each other. Two people who can't understand are easy to complain, and if they complain too much, they will be suspicious, and doubt will breed estrangement and indifference. So let's start by understanding this kind of big thing.

Third, to love a person is to love his career. Gao Xiaosong felt that he didn't like that kind of step-by-step stable life, he was a person who was not short of money to spend, but he resolutely did not buy a house, he felt that it was something that life did not bring to death, which may not be acceptable to ordinary people.

Husbands and wives can divorce if their relationship is broken, ordinary people and celebrities can, and the divorce rate of ordinary people is very high nowadays, and Gao Xiaosong has attracted much attention because he is a star.

No one can say for sure, it's not that if you get married, you will definitely be happy, Gao Xiaosong twice.

Marriages all ended in failure, which also shows that the person he married twice was not the right person, and their relationship can be explained by "fate or inseparability". I have always believed in fate, so I think this is Gao Xiaosong's fate, fate arranged for the three of them to meet, so that Gao Xiaosong had two passers-by in his life, and also created the current Gao Xiaosong.

In fact, the failure of Gao Xiaosong's two marriages is accidental and inevitable, and he uses facts to tell us that the relationship between two people requires a certain emotional foundation. Gao Xiaosong and his first wife Shen Huan fell in love at first sight, and the two quickly got married under such circumstances, and this marriage only lasted for three years. Their problem is that the emotional foundation is not solid, when they feel that the other party is perfect when they are "in love", and when they get married, they find that the other party is different from what they imagined, and the contradiction between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and finally they can't live at all.

At that time, Gao Xiaosong was still immature, his dedication was greater than his concern for his family, and it was also because he neglected to take care of his wife, which caused the relationship between the two to slowly become cold. After divorcing Shen Huan, he found a little girl who was a teenager younger than him, although the two were very good at first, but after all, the age difference was too big, and the way to deal with some things was not the same, and gradually they began to quarrel, and finally signed a divorce agreement.

In a relationship, what we can do is to "be ourselves", just like Gao Xiaosong got the feeling in two relationships, what we can do is to make ourselves better, better, and keep getting closer to the best person. In this way, when fate comes, we can go with the flow and solve problems calmly, instead of being willful and missing people who should not be missed.

This emotional matter is inexplicable, it still depends on their own experiences.

Because it is difficult to start and finish well, everyone has a different way of feelings.

Many couples and partners have never been able to enter each other's hearts throughout their lives.

Emotional matters are not known to outsiders, and only they know about this kind of thing.

Talented people are different, their concepts are advanced, their feelings are all about taking what they need, and when they can't achieve their goals, they will definitely not be able to die well!

The reason why Gao Xiaosong's marriage is not long-lasting is mainly because he may not be bound by the grave of marriage, and often quarrels with his wife, so the relationship has broken down.

Nowadays, many girls are money worshippers, and for the sake of money, they will marry a person who is dozens of years older than themselves, and this kind of material transaction has no lasting feelings, so the general marriage is not long-lasting.

Because the old husband and young wife have received different education, their thinking is different, and their social experiences are also different, and there will be differences in many things, and there will be many contradictions over time.

I think the age gap is too big, there is still a certain generation gap, there must be a big difference in values or something, the things you like and pursue are not the same, and there must be many contradictions.

Gao Xiaosong's later wife was fashion designer Yuyoumi. Gao Xiaosong and she got married not long after they met, and at that time, she was still studying at a university in the United States. Then, at the end of '07, the crystallization of their love was born.

In June 2013, Gao Xiaosong Xiyoumi signed a divorce agreement and broke up amicably due to differences in lifestyle and future planning.

Xi Youmi, whose real name is Xu Cangjin, is Gao Xiaosong's ex-wife. He was born on March 23, 1988 in Shangqiu City. A well-known fashion blogger in the mainland, a hipster, and a fashion designer.

On June 28, 2014, Xu Cangjin posted a statement on his Weibo, saying that he had signed a divorce agreement with Gao Xiaosong in June last year.