I see that my parents are very tired, how can I be filial?

For parents, if you can have this idea, they should be happy. There are many ways to be filial to your parents, and you don't have to buy things. For example, if you handle your own affairs well and don't let your parents worry about it, it is the first filial piety to your parents; Secondly, I have time to spend more time with my parents and chat, which is what the so-called "often go home to see" means; Third, when encountering things that are not principled, we should try to follow our parents, the so-called "obedient person is filial piety".

In short, as long as you have the idea of "filial piety" in your heart, you will always find a suitable way.

In fact, your parents are very happy to know that you have this filial piety; Buy them thermal underwear or cold clothing, the cold weather is exactly what they like to want, let them fully feel your filial piety.

You don't have to buy it, your parents don't care if you give them money, you just need to work hard, find a suitable person at the right age, live a good life, don't let them worry about it, this is the best filial piety!!

Of course, when your financial ability improves, you can buy them some things they need, and you can also pay for them to travel.

When buying things for the elderly, you must first ask the opinions of the elderly, they are not small mm, what surprises do they like. If you don't buy something that matches their hearts, they will feel sorry for the money you spent indiscriminately, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Everyone's work is busy, so it will also affect everyone to take care of their parents. In fact, parents do not want their children to be by their side every day, what parents want most is that their children can take themselves to heart and give themselves a voice or call **** at ordinary times.

When we are not busy, we must accompany our parents, and don't feel very troublesome because our parents have more things, and we are unwilling to stay by our parents' side, which will make our parents feel very sad. We should also communicate more with our parents, most of the elderly, they are actually relatively lonely, if you can often call your parents, it will also make your parents feel more comfortable. Usually help parents to do more housework, such as helping parents to beat their backs, or rubbing their shoulders, which will also make parents feel that their children are very filial, and will also make parents happy.

When we were in a small stall, our parents accompanied us as much as possible and took care of us, and we couldn't often use the excuse that we were busy with work when we were older and didn't go home to accompany our parents. During the New Year's holidays, parents may miss their children more, and everyone can go home as much as possible.

If you often need to work outside, you can actually choose to bring your parents to live with you, and there may be some quarrels, but I think most of them are love. And like many girls, if they live alone outside, there will be some dangers, and with the company of their parents, it will be safer.

Companionship, in my opinion, is the best way to accompany the elderly.

First of all, if there are conditions, you can take the old man to his side, even if he will complain about being uncomfortable, but most of the old people still want to enjoy the joy of family.

Secondly, if Qi Gaiguo doesn't have that financial resources, then go home more and take a look, just like the old man who shouts on the Internet, even if he is facing the monitor, he is still full of happiness.

1.Take care of your parents' daily life. Since it is a different place, I mainly start from my parents' home environment, eating habits, exercise habits, and medication habits.

2.Reasonably meet the spiritual needs of parents. Parents are old, and they are most afraid of being useless!

With the consent of the parents, they can find them some work to relieve their energy, such as volunteering. Also, it is appropriate to ask parents to help them solve some problems, such as some interpersonal problems at work, you can ask them for advice, so that they feel that they are always shining!

3.Encourage and support parents to develop themselves! You can encourage your parents to learn something new, such as playing a musical instrument, photography, or even driving.

4.Help parents take care of their pension money and do a good job of financial planning! This determines whether parents have enough confidence to arrange their old age according to their own wishes. So that parents never have to rely on their children excessively for money should be the greatest consideration for parents!