Why am I so disgusted with my family and so willing to give to my friends?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-30
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    has a wife and forgets her mother, and is willing to pick her family and her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Explain that you love your girlfriend very much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you get married, you'll be the same.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not a mental illness, it's human nature! I don't

    Know that the person you hate is doing.

    What do you do that disgusts you, or do something that disgusts everyone! Or did you just do something sorry for you! Your friend may not know that this person has done something disgusting to everyone!

    She probably didn't know! This can be forgiven! If the person you hate is a villain, you have to tell your friends to stay away from her!

    If it's really you hate her for no reason! You may be jealous!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have a very good relationship with your friend, but you are always on good terms with your very disliked

    People contact, so you have a trace of resentment towards her unconsciously, I don't know if it's a psychological problem? For this problem, I can tell you very clearly that this is not a psychological problem, this kind of psychology can be said to be human nature, we usually have some possessiveness for the family and friends we care about, I hope they also only care about themselves, the most concerned about themselves! What's more, your friends are still in contact with people you hate very much, which makes your possessiveness and jealousy constantly surge, and even your best friend complains!

    This mood can be understood but not approved, you must adjust and control your emotions, don't miss a good friend because of some small things! After all, friends are not your personal property, she also has her own thoughts and lives!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello. I don't think it's a mental illness, it's a normal thought.

    But I think.

    You still don't interfere with your friends' making friends as well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Not a mental illness normal.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You are willing to spend money on your girlfriend because you love her and have feelings. You are reluctant to entertain your girlfriend's friends because you are unfamiliar with them and have no feelings. But you also have to change it, try to get your girlfriend's opinion, if your girlfriend wants you to entertain her friends, you have to ask for a reason, if necessary, you have to ask for a reason, if you think there is no need to please, but also explain to your girlfriend clearly explain the reason, this is my personal idea, for reference only.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, your mentality should be good to your own people.

    It's good for your girlfriend.

    But you also need to take care of her friends.

    Otherwise, her friends will think you're being careful.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's your own business, don't bother with too much! But it depends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're right, right, good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Selfish, such people can't make friends.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Brother, don't be discouraged, these parents are just incompetent, don't listen to what those people say, that's all angry with you, don't be angry, it's okay, don't pay attention to it, then create strength, and when you become the boss, they will pay attention to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Whether it is family or friends, there needs to be a channel of communication to build a deep relationship. Family members may not know how to understand your heart and are not aware of your emotional needs, so they ignore your feelings. All you have to do is pass on your thoughts to them, let them know how you feel, and maybe be able to establish communication.

    Otherwise, you can only maintain the status quo, and even your feelings for your family are getting weaker and weaker.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What is the threshold for opening an account for spot ** investment?

    Theoretically, there is no threshold, and you can do as much as you want, but if you do this, my personal advice must be that the more you do, the better you are, and the stronger your ability to resist risks.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Adolescence is like this, the mentality should be put in place, and it will be different when you are older. Understand each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because what you want in your heart is far beyond what your family gives you, you will not be satisfied.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You hate someone who even gave birth to you and raised you, who in the world dares to love you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Me too, but I'm an adult!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Caused by different values, there are also many things in the family that do not help themselves in what they need. I also don't like my family, mainly because they not only constrain and interfere with me everywhere because of meaningless little things, but also when I have to go out to work and have a lot of life and rest, they unreasonably restrict me, and they call it caring and so on.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your thoughts are very weird, very unsuitable for your current state of mind, that will have a very negative impact on your life, I hope you can get out of this bad mood and live a good life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You need to adjust your mentality, be broad-minded, try to do your best, and don't think too much about the things at hand.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No one cares who you are strong and weak to, people take advantage of the advantages and avoid the disadvantages, everyone is not easy to live, family and friends do not care about you, at a specific time or family and friends to help you, you have to fight for breath, friends, just do it, life and life, you have to work.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your attitude is too negative, try to be happy and do something happy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Everyone has the meaning of life, I hope you can find the true meaning of life, don't live for others, remember to live for yourself, and live a good life, let those who once looked down on you, let them look down on you, let them look down on you, everyone has a trough, out of the trough is sunny, there are many beautiful things waiting for you to do in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You need to see a psychiatrist, I'm worried that you're going to get depression in your current situation, the sooner you find it, the better, and in fact, these are just what you feel, but it's not necessarily like that, come on!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Family should be your safe haven when you are sad and difficult, you are a family relationship problem, every family has a difficult scripture, this is not a good judgment.

    As for friends, they are made by themselves, and if they are not as good as strangers, it means that there is something wrong with your way of dealing with people.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, this is really your own problem, complaining about friends and family, you should find shortcomings from yourself, do others owe you? Why do others have friends and family but you don't? Let's find out why.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to get along, a person lives with a family, and sometimes you do something that your family likes, and your family will naturally like you to maintain your own family, relying on yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you're disappointed with your family, then it's a good idea to get away from that time and either go on a trip or something, and then you can go on a trip or something.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No one loves so much that you love yourself, although you are disappointed in your family, but you have to continue to live from a different perspective, you will find that life is still beautiful.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Even if no one really cares about you, then you have to learn to love yourself in this world, there may be some places that will make you feel very indifferent, but as long as you look for and live with your heart, you will still find many warm and beautiful places in this world, maybe the people you meet at a certain stage or in a certain place are not particularly good, but this does not mean that you can't meet good friends, you can't meet people who are good to you, you have to believe that there is still warmth in the world, don't lose hope in life.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Understand yourself and your family, and your family cannot give you unconditionally. Family is the best person for you, but he also has his own abilities, and sometimes there is really no way, you can't ask too much.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    We'd love to ask you for answers.

    Make yourself good, attractive, valuable, and powerful so that everything around you becomes better.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I feel that you seem to have a strong sense of rebellion, but in fact, you may have some misunderstandings with your family, and your family is always different from outsiders. Only when you become a parent yourself will you realize that without the love of your parents, you would not have grown up to this day.

    Some of their demands on you may make you feel uncomfortable or even disgusted, but after all, they are for your own good, and you should tolerate all this for their sake of raising you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you are really disappointed in your family, it is better to leave them, you don't think that they can change, it is terrible that the original family is not good, if you don't leave them, you will not be happy for the rest of your life.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You are just too depressed, how can no one care about you, don't think about it, it's just that some people care about it and don't show it so obviously, feel it.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You are responsible for your own life, and if no one cares, you care more about yourself, after all, others also have their own lives and lives, and if you don't care about others, you lose the value of living? You can also find your other half who still cares about you and loves you, and the most important thing is to live on your own.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    In this world, strangers don't know you, and there is no conflict between you, and your family and friends know you, and you hate your family and friends.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    This shows that people have a very low tolerance for family and friends.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Family is just when he needs you, you are there, and a friend is a person who does not let you release your feelings, if you are a confidant, that is your inner harbor.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    [Let's talk about it first, passing by] in fact, you shouldn't have a psychological problem with yourself, because since you will have good friends, it means that you don't have a sense of rejection of friends, but you should be because of your own character, your character may be hateful, and very straightforward, you won't hide anything, your disgust for friends won't hide, and because of the first character, you will stay away from other people, you are not naïve at all, this is a very simple character, I have had it once before, and then because of some things changed, [ It's not because of this] so it's very bearish to friends, if you want to solve it, you should not show too much about other people's opinions, just be appropriately alienated, if others warmly invite you, do what you can, and it won't cause a bad impact. There is no perfect jade, and no one is perfect.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I have a friend who has a blood type B, and like you, he has a clear love and hate. This is a character factor, not a disease, you have to face it. If you are really a good friend, they will tolerate you and will not attack you with words.

    It's true that this kind of personality is a bit difficult to get along with friends, and as time goes by, you will slowly learn from it and slowly grind off your water chestnut, which will take time. So don't hate yourself, cherish yourself, you are the best, you are unique! Come on!!!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Stick to being yourself! If it's really someone else's problem, stick to yourself and stick to your principles!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    No, this is a normal self-preservation response.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's not that you don't like others, you don't like yourself.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    No problem, people have different personalities.

    Be the best version of yourself.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    If you ask this kind of question, it means that there is already a crack in your heart, and you already have the psychology of complaining about him, and the result is already obvious, you can no longer be very good friends, this is a seed, it has now germinated, and when it blooms, you will be done playing, don't try to communicate with him about his stinginess, it will only get worse, and he can't change it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    He may not be a friend of you, or he may be in trouble.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    You treat him as a friend, but in fact he treats you as a pig friend.

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