It s very depressing, will there be psychological problems!

Be sure to find a job that suits you, and girls also need to be financially independent so that your boyfriend won't nag you.

When you go out to work, you will be happy, and you won't think about messy problems. Even if you encounter a problem at work, it is temporary, and after the problem is solved, you will feel a sense of relief.

Remember that the current society does not allow you to rely too much on others, and you must learn to face it independently, both in life and at work.

You also said that there are no problems between you everywhere, everything starts with unemployment, well, you can find a job, work will make a woman smarter, and a man will appreciate you more.

If you also go out to work, then everyone is responsible for the affairs of the family, and it is not as macho as him who thinks that if you don't go out to work every day, you should take all the work at home.

Trying to change yourself will also affect the other person.

You should talk to your boyfriend about the problems between you, he has a big impact on you, and for a long time in this environment, you will be the first to break down, you tell him, those trivial things in life, since he noticed, let him do it himself, you are also very busy, you are busy looking for a job, it is impossible to solve all problems on your own mind.

But to be honest, the interview you didn't receive is your own personal question, and you should know that the email address you give to people must be through the email address, and in this case, you should check it on time, and the opportunity is always reserved for those who are prepared.

In this way, the life of two people will not be happy in the future, if it were me, I would not be with him, only find someone who makes me happy and likes himself, so that our life will be happy in the future. So I suggest that you don't be obsessed, even if the person who loves himself is not working, or his spirit is not good, he will be very distressed, and he will not scold himself like this, so that he will not be depressed, but will be more confident and live a more fulfilling life.

Depression means that the mood or emotions are depressed for a long time, which is manifested as a dull mood and unbearable troubles.

Prolonged repression can lead to emotional instability, and the slightest thing can make you angry. Makes your actions sluggish, negative, lacking in energy, like a puppet all day long, lifeless. It can also lead to insecurity in the outside world, easily causing fear, and generating doubts in me.

I often don't have enough confidence in myself, I like to suppress my true feelings, and I am prone to gains and losses.

If you have been depressed for too long and cannot be sorted out, it is very easy to form depression. They hate communicating with the outside world, have social fears, and feel that life is meaningless, lifeless, and hopeless.

Repression means that psychological emotions cannot be expressed, and they have been dull in the heart.

Repressed psychological term refers to the fact that individuals unconsciously suppress some impulses, thoughts, etc., that are not accepted by the self, into the unconscious, or actively forget painful memories from memory, so as to avoid the influence of motivational conflict, tension and anxiety. Repression can play a role in reducing temporary anxiety, but instead of disappearing completely, it becomes a subconscious, so that people's mentality and behavior become negative and eccentric.

Suppressing the emotions that are most likely to produce irritability can also lead to depression, so you must release any emotions and don't always let yourself suffer too much.

Personally, I understand that I can't be interested in anything, and it's easy to be inexplicably unhappy.

It's just that the mood is very dull, the face is expressionless, and there is no interest in anything, which is depressed, and sometimes nervous. It's normal to be depressed, but it's not normal to be depressed all the time, and there will be depression.

Repression refers to the fact that individuals unconsciously suppress some impulses and thoughts that are not accepted by the self into the unconscious, or actively forget painful memories from memory, so as to avoid the influence of motivational conflicts, tension and anxiety.

If you suppress it for too long, you will produce a lot of toxins in your body, which is not good for your body.

Hello, you must pay attention to this situation, you don't think so much now, study hard during the day, rest well at night, occasionally go to the movies, go for a walk in the square, go to climb the mountains more on the weekend, go out with the group to play, relax, and seek help from a psychiatrist if necessary. Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Learn to quiet yourself, immerse your mind, and slowly reduce your desire for things. Reset yourself to zero, every day is a new starting point, there is no age limit, as long as your desire for things is appropriately reduced, let yourself feel relaxed slowly. (The so-called step back is naturally wide).

Learn to care for yourself, only by caring for yourself more, can you have more energy to care for others, if you have enough ability, try to help the people you can help, then you get a few happiness, help others more, treat yourself well, is also a way to reduce stress.

When you encounter an irritable situation, you drink a glass of white water, put a soothing light **, close your eyes, reminisce about the people and things around you, and slowly lose your mind about the new future, which is a kind of rest and a kind of calm forward thinking.

Love life, absorb new nutrients every day, have different thinking every day, learn to empathize, try to find new things to satisfy the novelty and mystery of the world.

Only by facing your life with sincerity, love, and personality will your life be more exciting!

Learn to communicate with friends, communicate well with friends, share your unhappiness with friends, don't take everything in your heart, in this way, who knows your pain, unhappy in your heart, will lead to a person's physical and mental health, go shopping with friends, chat, listen to **, vent your unhappiness, you will be happy.

When you are depressed, you can talk to your good friends, and sometimes you can't figure out things, maybe you can solve them naturally by talking to your friends, which is the benefit of friends.

The other thing is to relax as much as possible.

In a person's life, there are many such situations, and timely solutions are of great help to the body and mind, and must be solved.

It's time to go out and let off steam, so take a leave of absence and travel.

Selfish and self-serving, thinking more about others.

So why are you like this?

1.First of all, congratulations, you are psychologically more mature than your peers, which is a small advantage for men.

2.If you can't find a goal, you're naturally empty, aren't you? So, you set goals for yourself.

3.If you have a favorite of the opposite sex, even if you want to express it, don't miss it, I regret that I didn't confess to the opposite sex I liked in high school, after so many years, I still think of her from time to time, and I know that she is now in **.

4.Go out and exercise more, don't always stay at home and play games, this is not good for the body, and it is not conducive to cultivating a healthy psychology, you should go out to communicate more, and have more social contact, so that you will be more cheerful and confident when you grow up, which is very important for men. A confident man, even if he looks average, just has gods and eyes, is very attractive.

5.After giving a good review of the adoption, I will continue to explain.

What are you sad about? If you are more introverted, you should communicate with others more, learn without worry, learn steadily, let go of the pressure, have a good impression of the opposite sex, you have to know more about him, if it is suitable to be together, if it is not suitable, give up, will give up is also a successful step, give up It means that there is a new beginning. Then, if you love to learn, you should study wholeheartedly, if you want to learn, you will work hard to learn, if you don't want to learn, don't force yourself to learn, adjust your mentality, and then do what you want to do.

There's only so much to offer, because I'm not you, you have your own ideas, and things like this are up to you.

Hope this helps, though.

You should be open-minded and keep a good mood every day......You play online because you're cutting through your loneliness, so you have to learn to be "outgoing" ......It's not all wrong to be stressed, because you also said that "learning is heavy", so you need to learn to find a playmate (who can help you share the burden and tell you happiness!). Make your stress reduce) ......It's normal to have a good impression of the class, and it's normal to have those doubts, because it's a sign of adolescence. You don't have to worry too much, just be yourself and change your ......You are surrounded by these confusions, and as a result, you are ...... depressedHowever, as long as you have perseverance, determination, and determination, then I believe that you will definitely change.

Spend more money, learn to dress up, talk about love, and eat more delicious food.

Hello, I am a counselor. Read your description in detail and share your opinion on your problem. Hope it helps.

First of all, you're currently emotionally anxious, but that's not a psychological problem.

Judging from your description, you look forward to having your own life, your own space, and want to arrange your own life, work and socialization. However, your parents are too strict with you, and even "meticulous", which on the one hand causes you a "sense of suffocation" and on the other hand, it also affects the formation of your autonomy. Moreover, control hinders the development of your abilities, and your lack of ability can make your parents think that you are not capable enough to make decisions about your own life.

It becomes a vicious circle.

Psychology believes that parents control their children too strictly, more because of their own lack of "sense of security", and project this consciousness onto their children, believing that only by letting their children do things according to their own will is it correct and down-to-earth. But it is this practice that affects the child's independent growth and makes the child weaker and weaker.

Suggestions: 1. Don't conflict head-on with your parents, and slowly do some things independently, especially things that your parents approve, so that your parents feel that you can do well yourself.

2. Tell your parents that when you grow up, you will eventually leave them one day and live independently on your own, what you need is independent ability, and they can't worry about you for a lifetime.

3. Adjust your mentality, parents do this, often in the name of love, and they really want you to live "right" (what they think is right), no matter what, you have to express and accept your parents' love for you first. In this way, confrontation can be avoided.

You're too cowardly, and your parents are very problematic.

It's me, and I'll never go home.

Hello this friend;

I understand your mood at this time. Faced with such a situation, I think there is only one way. That is; Take the current period as a good time to experience your mindset and concentration.

Study hard and sleep when you're tired. Don't think about anything else, you must lie down and taste the guts, and keep your eyes on the low.

During this period, think about how you will go through your future life? How to avoid excessive control by parents in the future and not have conflicts with parents, etc. This time is not very long.

Stick with it and you've succeeded. Stick to it, get the title of inspector, become an inspector in the future, and go to work. When you go out and work, you can live the life you want.

You should measure your hole cards with them. Run away from home for a while until they beg you to come back in turn. Or tell them that they want to live in another city and never go back to that city.

The main purpose is to make them afraid of you and beg you from now on. Only in this way can you turn against the customer in the future, otherwise, your whole life will be enough for you. This is not only a liberation for yourself, but also for your parents (who are also tired of living with this mentality).

Remember, be sure to find a way to make them fear you from now on, not the other way around. In order to do this, in addition to the methods described above, you can also use methods such as pretending to be crazy and stupid, such as drunkenness, or even violence (to a limited extent). Maybe these methods are a bit shady and dishonorable, but they are better than actually driving them crazy or killing themselves one day in the future (this possibility exists).

If things are really what you say, it doesn't seem that you have a psychological problem, but mainly your parents' psychological problems. But if what you're saying isn't true, that's another story.

I think it's a problem with your parents' discipline, and if you want to change your life, you have to change your parents first! You can talk to them openly, although it is not easy to get their understanding, but I believe that there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of those who have a heart! Come on!

You have to fight for your own right to freedom!!

Analysis: Hello, according to your description, it is more likely that you suffer from depression, which is caused by family pressure.

Suggestions: Conduct psychological ** in a timely manner, maintain a good attitude, change your living environment, reduce your pressure, do what you are interested in, establish self-confidence, and let your parents understand the impact of this on you. Family members should be more concerned about the patient.