How to evaluate that girls are too good but easy to be single?

Girls who are too good are generally unwilling to compromise, and will look for boys who are better than themselves in all aspects, plus the imbalance between men and women in this society, it is even more difficult to find an excellent boy.

I think that girls who are too good will put a lot of pressure on boys, because there is a desire to protect in every boy's heart.

If a girl is too good, it will really put a lot of pressure on the boy, and it will definitely discourage the boy, so such a girl is more likely to be single.

If a girl is very good, her personality will be very arrogant and her vision is also very high.

Why are excellent girls single, it is because excellent girls have a higher vision, and they naturally want to find a better partner if they are excellent.

Each of us has a lot of friends around us, and after thirty years, I found that the average girl has found a suitable partner or is married, and the excellent girl is single, and she is very curiousHow can you not find a partner if you are so good?

There are a few very good girls around me, and in a few years I will go straight to 40, and the children around me who are married early are already in junior high school, and the children will go to elementary school later, I remember one time, I heard my friends around me introduce them to them, and asked them before the introduction, what requirements do you have, and the other party said, there are no requirements, almost on the line, your husband is very good, and their reply after the follow-up request is to say:"

No, it's too short;

No, I don't make as much as I do;

No, their house is too far away, outside the 5th Ring Road;

No, it's so boring, there's no common language;

No, my education is much lower than mine, so I have a junior college.

Hearing this, I don't know how to introduce it, in fact, there are single men around us, it's not that they don't accept it, it's really impossible to introduce, because the excellent men around me are married, and they can't look down on it.

I think:Excellent girls can't find a partner because the conditions are high!

With so many friends around you, you can learn more about it, and maybe there is a suitable one.

Their reply was:

It's really not suitable, I don't know anyone else except for my colleagues who are classmates, and people from our department.

I usually work hard at work, and I work overtime until late at night. ”

The circle of excellent girls is small, two o'clock a day, and they work hard

I don't know how to evaluate excellent girls, because they are too good, so that some good boys dare not move forward, afraid that they are not worthy of them, in fact, you can put everything aside, lower your requirements, and talk about a love, a happy love that is really suitable for you, too strong is not a bad thing, but too strong, will make excellent men stop and dare not approach.

I hope that excellent girls can both remain independent and find someone who can rely on each other, both appreciate and compromise with each other, and have both rationality and emotion. Having such a love will make you better!

It's also good to be a little woman, don't let yourself get too tired.

In fact, love is to meet the right person at the right time, in the right place, and it is simple.

For you who are too good but lonely, go by feeling, take the initiative and be decisive. May that excellent you find your own love.

Why are the excellent girls around me single? , to summarize the reasons, first, there are suitors, but there is no eye 、、、

Eye-rim is a Chinese word that is a phenomenon in which a person and another person are attracted by the other person's appearance, temperament and charm when they meet for the first time.

Some people lamented that they rubbed shoulders with many people every day, and their clothes were torn, but they still couldn't wipe out a spark. It seems that the "eye edge" is destined by heaven, and manpower cannot be surmounted. On a blind date, the eye edge is the possibility of all interactions between two people.

Second, most of the people with high vision are better because they have a larger pattern.

Because of the large pattern, it is easy to stand tall and see far away.

They have passed the age of living in the mouths of others.

Pay more attention to self-improvement.

Third, people with good conduct are always easily respected.

Such a person is very good, and people can't help but keep their distance.

It's not that this person is bad, but it's so good that many people have no self-confidence and don't know how to get along.

Because distance produces beauty, it is tacit to keep a distance.

Around us, there are many girls with good conditions, beautiful, generous, and understanding. We took it for granted that such a girl had a significant other, but we found out that she was actually single. So we think it's incredible, but in fact, excellent beauties are single, and there is an element of "choice paradox".

Excellent girls often have a lot of suitors around them, and some girls can even reach three digits of suitors around them. But such a girl may not be able to make a choice among these people, commonly known as "picking and dazzling". But if there are only two or three options, it may be easier to choose.

There are a lot of girls around me who have many suitors, but they are all single. Take Jie as an example, a beautiful woman, graduated from 985 university, has little work pressure, high salary, and a good family background. There are no three-digit suitors around you, and they are definitely two-digit.

But every time she saw me, she sighed, "I'm probably going to be single for the rest of my life." The family persuaded her that she was almost done, and she was not too young, but she always felt that she couldn't just hand herself over like this.

So it was delayed again and again, from the time her classmate's baby was in the womb to the baby's kindergarten, she was always single.

Choose the paradox" to solve the problem on one, reduce the options. If you can reduce your options to a reasonable range, then your life will be much easier. Lifetime events need to be seriously considered, but when you narrow down the list to two or three, you'll be relatively more satisfied.

Because then you feel that in the end your choice will be "the best of the best".

Men are strong and women are weak, the law of the ages.

Men look for women to look down, and women look for men to look up.

Societies with a pyramidal structure are always narrow at the top and wide at the bottom.

So, isn't it normal for a good girl to be single?

As the old saying goes, marry a man and marry a man, dress and eat. Extrapolating backwards, if you don't lack clothes or food, do you still want to marry a man?

When a man is looking for a partner, the coordination of husband and wife life is the first priority, and the size of the other party's brain capacity is only a selection condition for the next generation.

When a woman is looking for a partner, psychological needs are the first place, and my heart is my home. The other party's body and brain must be in the same dimension.

The greater the ability, the bigger the pattern, the bigger the world, who would want to retreat when the sky is high and the sea is wide.

So, isn't it normal for a good girl to be single?

Generally speaking. Excellent men, the demand for women will become greater, wholeheartedly guarding only one person can be included in the rare species of the archway to show future generations.

Excellent women have less demand for men, and pay more attention to the matching degree of the spiritual level, and tend to take only one of the three thousand weak water.

There is a saying that men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men.

So deduce, the goal of a man is a woman, the goal of a woman is the world, and a woman can conquer the world by herself, what else do you need a man to do?

There are no compliments, please do not bring them in. ）

So, isn't it normal for a good girl to be single?

When it comes to finding a partner, the cost of trial and error is lower for men than for women.

It is a woman who gives birth to a child, and in a high probability, it is also a woman who raises a child.

Whether from the moral level or the legal level, men feel that they have made the wrong choice and can retreat, but women often have no way to retreat.

Prudence is not a mistake and should not be the focus of criticism and attack.

So, isn't it normal for a good girl to be single?

When you ask a question, using a combination of "excellent", "girl" and "single" is logically untenable.

Is there a direct logical relationship between being excellent or not and being single or not and gender?

Map cannon is really a bad habit of thinking.

The other half depends on "choice" and "fit", which is a subjective factor for both parties.

And "excellent" is a very objective factor.

The unit of calculation is different, so you cannot directly participate in the calculation.

So, think darkly and ask such questions, do you want to prove that excellent singles deserve sympathy, or do you want to prove that people who are not excellent are "happy" than excellent people?

ps: Say that a good girl is single because of "high requirements"? So why don't you reflect on your own low requirements?

People are usually used to wearing clothes of thousands of yuan, and you run to ask why you don't buy clothes for dozens of yuan to wear, is it too poor to love the rich?

Voiceover] Eat your rice?

The woman you like can't catch up, don't say that people are demanding, you try to stand taller than her and then turn around to hold her hand?

If you have a family and a room, you feel that single women are not happy, please don't use yourself to define others, after all, it is like drinking water.

These women are very independent and can only be together because of love. Now there are many girls who are 25 years old and begin to be anxious to find their other half, because these girls usually have a low income, and they also want to find someone to rely on to make their lives more stable, so they will be together when they meet a more suitable person. And these very good girls are different, they have the ability to make money independently, they can make their lives in order, and these women are not short of their friends around them.

So they don't go to find their partner just because they're old, they only spend time with the people they love the most. The chance of meeting the person you love the most in the vast sea of people is too small, so there are many single excellent women who are still single. These single women all have an uncompromising attitude in their lives, so they are not the other half of their own determination, and they will not make the final decision.

Looking for a better one. Nowadays, there are many families who want to be strong in life and weak in women, and every girl also wants to find a boy who is more powerful than herself, so that she can rely on her. These excellent women already have a high social status and income, and it is more difficult to find a better boy than themselves.

Those boys who are better than them may have their lifelong partners at a very young age, and some boys are still working hard for their careers and have not considered their lifelong happiness, so many excellent women are still single. Most of the time I was busy at work. Most of these excellent women are career-focused, they spend most of their time at work, they don't have time to care about their private life at all, they don't have time to find themselves a good partner, they are surrounded by men who are much older than them, so many excellent women remain single.

This phenomenon does exist in large numbers, it is really helpless, because for thousands of years, the concept of male superiority and inferiority of women has been deeply implanted in the bone marrow, an excellent girl is no matter how difficult to accept anything is inferior to himself boys, and an excellent boy has long been preempted by girls with mediocre ability but good looks, and boys with mediocre appearance and ability do not dare to talk to excellent girls at all, so it creates a phenomenon that there are more leftover men in the countryside, and there are more leftover women in the city.

In the case of men and women receiving the same education, boys from primary school to middle school basically do not compete to win girls, there are two reasons for this, one is that there are more female teachers than male teachers in primary schools, and the other is that there are no girls obedient when boys are young, in the same environment, boys' circles are not yearning for good grades but ridicule, while girls have no such factor at all, basically in primary schools do not see boys with three bars on their arms.

This, I want to say a little bit of my opinion, in fact, it's not that excellent girls are single, but that girls who feel excellent are basically single. If it was really good, it would have been mixed at the top of the pyramid a long time ago, and it would be a matter of minutes to find an excellent man with the same cutting-edge, unless it is the kind of old lady who doesn't want to get married, and just wants to be rich and free alone, then who to love. But most of the so-called excellent girls are single, in fact, they feel excellent, this kind of excellence will only make themselves continue to recognize themselves and deny others, and feel that no one can match them, so that singleness is certain and forever.

In today's society, people who take the initiative to choose to be single are basically very good people, they are not unable to find a partner, but they don't want to find a partner, in addition to some people who are hurt by love. Excellent people are very satisfied with the current situation of their lives, and they are not willing to change their lives in such a situation. People who choose to be single because they feel that they can take care of themselves and can arrange their time in their daily lives, so they don't want to look for a partner, thinking that finding a partner may cause their life rhythm to be disrupted.

Free choice Many years ago, single people were almost always out of helplessness, and these people had to choose to be single because their families were very poor or because of their self-esteem and corresponding defects. And at that time, single people may have been ridiculed by many people, but in today's society, this phenomenon has been fundamentally changed. Because most people feel that being single is a very normal state of stuffiness, and there is nothing wrong with being single, being single has become a very common trend.

For different reasons, people become better and better, then their vision will become higher and higher, so the requirements for their partners will become higher and higher. In such a situation, it is very likely that there is no way to find the person he really wants to entrust his life, rather than making compromises and letting himself find someone to make do with his life, it is better to choose to be beautiful alone. A person's life can also be very easy, and their own life can be carried out according to their own ideas.

In addition, there are some people who have also talked about vigorous love, but there is no good ending in love, in this case, they are unwilling to believe in feelings, and if they don't want to believe in feelings, they will naturally not choose to enter the palace of marriage. Therefore, people who take the initiative to choose to be single are either very good people, or they are people who have lost expectations for their relationships.