Girls are too shy and cry too easily, should they change their personalities, and how to change them

Let me tell you about my own experience, I've always been very shy, and because of this, I don't have a good relationship with my classmates, because I never take the initiative to communicate with them, but gradually, I know that I have nothing to fear. In this society, we should fit in. You say yes, girls are more vulnerable, it's normal to cry, but you have to learn to be strong, no matter what happens, you have to tell yourself, no one can break you, no one else has this ability, except yourself You have to know that your character will not be reused by others in the future Don't feel that you are not angry and embarrassed This is just an expression of emotions Everyone has a different way But as a girl, if you cry too much, you will definitely suffer in the future You also know that this makes you look very easy to bully, right, so no matter what, smile at life, nothing is unbearable, you have to look a little open, want to open a little, don't be too careful, too resentful, so you will be a lot happier Know what is the best response to someone bullying? It's not that you also go to abuse him and compete with each other, but you show your personal qualities, don't worry about him, don't care much about what she does, so in the eyes of others, you are a very generous, very educated, very knowledgeable girl. Don't you say?

Personality is not so easy to change, isn't it good to be true to yourself?

I think it's better not to change, and it's not a shame to cry out if you have grievances?

In a word, it is not recommended to change, be true to yourself, and be happy every day!

It's a beauty of inner softness. Just a little less attention. When others bully you, take it as a way to temper you.

It's for you. And it's free. Hehe!

Isn't that good? When you're happier, they're the ones who lose. Others come to tease me for free.

That's why I'm still so happy. When they failed, they were distressed.

I think that educating girls should be guided by their parents, and parents should slowly adjust from it, telling their children that crying is not a way to solve the problem, and anything can be solved by talking, but crying can't be solved.

You can enroll your child in some interest classes about movement, cultivate your child's strong character, and tell her that crying can't solve any problems, and she shouldn't coax her in time when she cries.

To change this character, you need to be strong enough to be able to face setbacks. When dealing with setbacks, we should be brave in the face of setbacks, rather than backing down in the face of setbacks.

Parents should allow the child to cry and then sincerely ask her why she is like this? Understand your child's needs.

In fact, we can change their thinking in many cases, don't spoil them too much from an early age, so that there will be a good change.

Because girls are particularly weak in their ability to bear it. When encountering things, they will vent their emotions by crying.

I think we need to teach him to be strong and not to cry so easily. Don't be so inferior, be confident and get better.

You can exercise your child to make her strong, take her to participate in more activities, and don't try to help her.

This topic is particularly suitable for me, I have a lot of experience, hehehe. Back then, my shy personality was well known, and my relatives and friends around me made fun of me from time to time. Later, I grew up a lot, understood a lot, and after figuring it out, I changed this character.

First of all, there should be more communication than people. Through communication, I met many friends, and there were people with various personalities. There are people like me, who are more shy, and the two of them chatted and talked about common topics; There are also more lively and cheerful ones, who keep squeaking all day long, with endless topics and endless words; There are also more humorous ones, and a joke or two pops up from time to time, which is also very easy to get along with.

Therefore, to change your shy personality, you need to make more friends and communicate more.

Second, you need to cultivate your own courage. It is said that timid people are more shy, and this is true! In the past, when I was in class, the teacher answered the questions in a low voice, which was not shyness, but what it was.

It's all about strategy here, and if you want to be brave, you have to have a chance. Isn't there a form of selecting class members at the beginning of school every year, and at that time, I will recommend myself and tell the teacher what position I want to be. This self-recommendation is also an opportunity to cultivate courage, to stand on the podium, face the classmates, and introduce yourself.

It's funny when I think about it now, I didn't expect how brave I was back then! In order to change myself, I also fought hard, well, it was a good start. In this way, after getting along with my classmates for a long time, I will not feel shy, and I will fight and make trouble, so I am not happy.

Third, we must be brave enough to face our shortcomings. In addition to the change in action, there is also a need to take action mentally. As far as I know, the reason why most people are shy is because of their own problems.

For example, low self-esteem. Low self-esteem also includes appearance, family. For example, I grew up in a family that was not wealthy, and my parents did their best to be able to study.

The family is poor, he is teased by his classmates, and he has low self-esteem; The family is poor, and I can't afford to wear new clothes, but I am still laughed at by my classmates, and I feel even inferior. This is mental shyness. Some of my classmates have it, but I don't have it, and I am excluded and made fun of, my inferiority complex is getting stronger and stronger, and my shy personality gradually appears, and after accumulation, I don't dare to say anything, which can be said to have a shadow.

There is no better way to change this, only on your own. It's a good thing that you can figure it out yourself, but if you can't figure it out, you won't be able to come out of the shadows for the rest of your life.

Well, that's all for the advice, the shy personality doesn't mean that you can change if you want to, you can't change it for a lifetime without communicating with people, without your own guts, and without your own thoughts about changing yourself. You must be brave to face your shortcomings and be a person with ideas, so that you can change yourself and change your life!

I feel like I still have a say in this issue, I was very introverted and shy when I was a child, and I blushed and my heart beat even when I stood up and spoke in class, and then I changed to be more extroverted in junior high school than in elementary school, extroverted in high school than in junior high school, and extroverted in college than in high school. Although I haven't been particularly extroverted until now, I don't mean the kind of extrovert who is particularly self-acquainted, but just talking or speaking in front of many people, so that I can't extricate myself.

First of all, part of me was shy because I had low self-esteem, maybe I felt that I was too fat, I didn't want to speak in a crowded place, I didn't want to show myself in public. Maybe I don't think I'm good-looking, I have too many acne on my face, so I don't like to talk. Maybe I don't think I'm good enough to look good and so on and so forth.

If it's for these reasons, it's as simple as following the line of your own problem to find a solution. If you feel fat, you should keep your mouth shut and open your legs, and if you feel that you have acne and are not good-looking, you should do a good job of skin care, eat less spicy food, go to bed early, and drink more water.

Secondly, it is necessary to overcome it psychologically. In the past, every time I needed to speak on a big occasion, I would tell myself that instead of being afraid, I would let it go, keep my back straight, look straight ahead, speak loudly, and smile if I could. In fact, even if you don't do well, no one will really laugh at you or look down on you.

On stage, you have to be open and confident to look better, isn't it?

In the end, nothing can be separated from deliberate practice. If you have the opportunity, be sure to contact on stage. Once in it, you know where I should stand on stage, my eyes should look, my hands should be put on, if I am talking, do you need to design some movements in advance.

Once you get acquainted with it, you will be able to do it more easily.

Of course, there are many aspects to overcoming shyness. It can be on the podium or in between conversations with unfamiliar people. But in the midst of this? Each aspect is mutually reinforcing, one aspect of progress, in other aspects of the ability will also be enhanced, everyone encourages!

1.The main reason for crying is psychological changes, so in ordinary life, you should be confident, be strong, learn to look down on the changes in things (referring to feelings), and enhance your mental endurance.

2.You can feel yourself.

I will cry when I encounter something.

Write it on paper, when again.

When you cry, take out the paper, think about the reason for the cry, and write it on the corresponding paper. After crying, look at these reasons again, and mark them and remember them if you think they don't matter. The next time you encounter this kind of thing, think about the indifferent reason why you want to cry, and maybe reduce the urge to cry.

3.When I want to cry, I think about crying after 10 seconds, and after 10 seconds, I think about crying again after 10 seconds,......

Slowly, I was able to restrain myself.

4.Thinking in my heart that crying is a cowardly act, maybe classmates will laugh at it. Put a kind of pressure on yourself.

There are many methods, all of which I have seen and I think, and I don't know if it is suitable for you.

In fact, girls who love to cry are just because they are not strong enough, because they haven't experienced too much, a person has to go through a lot of things, and after getting the experience, there will be no more tears, and they will slowly become stronger.

For a girl to change her shy character, she must first change her character in all aspects. As a girl, you should be lively and cheerful, optimistic. There are shy girls in real life who give people the feeling of being uncheerful and preoccupied, and we have to relax ourselves and relax in life.

Happy is a day when you are unhappy and a day when you are unhappy, what is there to be unhappy about. If a person is happy and cheerful, others will be willing to associate with you, and they will be willing to communicate and communicate with you about anything. When you are cheerful, you are not afraid of saying something wrong, even if you are wrong, everyone laughs and laughs at the end, it will not leave any shadow on yourself, if you are not cheerful, you will feel that you have said the wrong thing, done the wrong thing, and others will remember it for a long time.

In fact, there is no reason or reason for others to remember your affairs. I like to live with cheerful people in my life, and if I am cheerful, I feel that my life will be full of sunshine and energy.

If a girl wants to change her shy personality, she must take the initiative to socialize with the people around her. In the communication, you can first socialize with your familiar friends and colleagues. Each of us has a feeling that socializing with familiar people can make us relaxed, and we can feel relaxed when we talk and do things.

Slowly, classmates, colleagues, and friends will work together and exercise themselves in the activities, because there will always be a common language in the activities, and there will always be communication and exchanges. For example, girls will discuss clothes together, discuss where to have fun, and where the food is delicious. Take the initiative to express your own opinions, among friends, slowly exercise your courage, and after a long time, you will always have a topic and content to communicate.

For a girl to change her shy personality, she can do some homework before meeting others. For example, who I might meet today, maybe those friends, what they do, what interests and hobbies they have, what big things happened yesterday. If I am attending a banquet, what words do I use to express my blessings to the bride and groom, what do I say when others toast me, how do I toast others?

If I travel there with my colleagues tomorrow, I can first go online to find out what are the characteristics of the places I want to visit, what are the more famous places, what are the most famous scenery in the scenic area, what are the interesting places, and I can explain to my colleagues as a tour guide when I go. Familiarity with the route can lead the way for others, and if you have good photography skills, you can take the initiative to take pictures of others, and taking the initiative to help others in life is also a way to overcome shyness.

Girls need to change their shyness, and we need to be sincere and trustworthy when we interact with others. If we are sincere in contact with others, even if there is something wrong with what we say and do, others will not give us a plan, nor will we be unable to step down, but will help us. If we are sincere, others will also become proactive and generous.

It will be much easier to communicate and communicate.

The change of personality is not something that can be completed in a day, it requires long-term perseverance. As long as we are sincere and attentive, we will become proactive and generous and leave a good impression on others.