How do you find common ground, and how can you find common ground?

Hello! Your question, I don't think it's a matter of topic, it's a matter of mentality. The mindset has changed, and the feeling of communication has changed.

At the beginning, we talked for a long time, and we could talk for a long time, but in fact, it was nothing more than ordinary trivial matters, but I always felt that I had a good heart, and I always felt that there were endless words. However, after a long time, in the face of the helplessness of reality or real life problems, you can't open the door of your heart, and you can't open your mouth as before, because the topic has changed, and the feeling of communication has changed.

A few suggestions:

1. Speak up boldly, as before, talk more, praise each other more, appreciate each other more, but be sure to express it through words.

2. Try to find common ground and expand the topic on the common ground, and common interests are the best communication topics for both parties.

3. Talking is not the main thing, you have to do it, you can participate in more activities together, outdoor hiking, so that you can find common ground and have topics to talk about.

If you want to have a common topic, then you have to know each other, and after you have each other's information, you can find a common topic, because you know his life, his habits, his life.

Good luck!

1 There are some topics that he or she is interested in, and some that are not, trying.

2 If you don't have anything to talk about, just talk about something inconsequential, talk about something inconsequential.

3. You can't talk dryly, you must have a carrier. Or go on an outing together, or cook together, or at least eat something together, and no one will have to talk about it. Unless you want to love for a while, then at this time, you will have to talk wittily.

There is never an absolute common thread in this world.

As long as the other person is willing to talk to you for a long time.

No matter how you pull it, it's okay.

It's okay to talk about what happened in their class.

You can talk about who is the most naughty and gives him the most headaches.

There are many, many things to talk about.

Dinner, office business.

He doesn't like to talk, maybe she's tired at the end of the day.

I don't want two people to talk.

. And maybe it's yours.

A piece of care. A hint of comfort.

A little bit of truth. Don't skimp on anything at this time.

Going out is nothing more than shopping and eating.

For him, you send some small pendants.

It's all possible.

As long as it can bring you two closer, you can do it generously.

Think for yourself the rest.

Maybe it's outside, because we don't see each other much, but it should be a lot of talking, you can talk about your current situation and ask him about his current situation.

I think it'll get better slowly.。。

Having a common topic is of course a necessary condition for love, and if the two of you have endless topics and common interests when you are in love, then your emotional concentration will also increase.

A common topic is a shortcut to getting the other person talking. It is a key that allows you to open a small door in another person's heart. Whether it's windy or rainy or an economic crisis, you can find it and turn it on.

Having common topics and interests is a matter of life. We need to communicate every day and achieve emotional resonance through communication. Good empathy fosters mutual understanding and emotional development.

In fact, it's pretty good that couples can make up for each other. There is a saying that is good, you can't understand it, but you have to respect it. If the interests are the same, it seems difficult to attract each other.

Don't laugh at each other's hobbies and respect each other's hobbies. After a long period of time, the other person may slowly fall in love with their hobby.

You have common preferences and topics. When you get along, if both people have completely different hobbies, then the two people will often engage in activities that interest them, so that the two people will have less time and less topics to talk about. So, you can try to participate in activities, travel, watch movies, etc. as much as possible, which will not only increase your enjoyment of life, but also strengthen your common topics.

Whether you're busy or not, you should keep a certain amount of time to communicate with each other, so that both parties can understand each other's needs and ideas, and at the same time think about things from a different perspective. In this way, when there is a problem, it can be communicated in a timely manner, and the relationship between the two parties will be more coordinated.

As long as you are willing to listen, he will try to respond to you, even if your level of knowledge, interest level, etc., will make our common relationship always exist while we pursue common things and retain differences. But there is no common topic, and they are not willing to respect each other. It's hard to say.

Personally, I think that for two couples, having a common topic is indeed a necessary condition for love, if two people don't even have a common topic, it means that it is difficult for two people to really resonate, and it is difficult for such a relationship to be maintained for a long time.

First of all, for two people, if you want to make a relationship really recognized by each other, then you need two people to have common values, love and outlook on life in the process of getting along, and be able to attract and respect each other, and for two couples, there are common topics, which is an important embodiment of these aspects. Therefore, for couples, since they want to understand each other, they should communicate as much as possible, communicate more, and find common topics as much as possible.

On the other hand, by finding a common topic, the couple can further enhance their understanding of each other, and can further warm up the feelings between the two people, which is obviously very beneficial to the emotional development between the two people, and when the two people find a common topic in the relationship, then it means that the relationship between the two people is likely to develop to a new stage. So the longer they spend with each other, the more people may think that this kind of relationship is a more embarrassing thing for both people, then eventually one party will not be able to bear this state and propose to break up with the other party, so for the relationship, we must learn to find resonance with our other half, find mutual recognition and common interest topics between each other, so as to ensure the longevity of the relationship.