How can two people be considered lovers?

It's hard to find a standard answer to this question because everyone has something in their minds! When you can't see her, you will look around for her traces, when you can't hear her voice, you will feel that life is not a little sound, when you think of her, it is more than 2 o'clock in the evening, and you will take a car for a few hours to accompany her to watch the sunrise, when you know that she is sick, you will feel more painful and uncomfortable than you are sick, when you see her happy, you will be happier than yourself, as if everything about her is related to you, yes, it is related to you, When you truly take everything a person has as your own, you are considered true lovers!

What I'm talking about may not be the answer you want, the real answer can't be given to you by others, the answer in your heart is your real answer!

Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because there is no protection of true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long!

Love someone: trust each other, love someone to understand each other.

Love someone: Be tolerant with a lot of heart.

Love someone: Be open-minded.

Love someone: Respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

Love someone: Support him or her behind his or her back, not hinder him/her.

Love someone: When he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

Love someone: Hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know.

Love someone:...Too much love.

Maybe it's hard, can't it be done? It's not that hard.

The most important point is:

Love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing!!

Lovers are people who have a close relationship with each other, people who are close to each other, people who can grow old with you, share sweetness and sorrow. Love is one of the most sincere, noble, true, and selfless feelings, as well as the most moving, romantic, illusory, and unpredictable emotion.

This degree is indescribable, trust each other, be honest with each other, only in this way can we be sincere, not suspicious of each other Love is nothing more than to be happy Two people can't be happy, it's better to be happy than one person, two people are in pain, it's better to be happy than to be happy. Love, is a feeling, even if the pain will feel happy love, is a kind of experience, even if the heart is broken, it will feel sweet love, is an experience, even if it is broken, it will feel that some beauty is lost, some fate is never fruitful, love a person may not be able to have, but, I just can't erase the bits and pieces you leave in my heart... Love a person is not lonely, think of a person to be lonely and quietly miss, lonely enjoyment to let go of the clouds in the sky, put aside the remaining vows to like a person, lost, just like throwing away their beloved items Although it is a pity, but will not love a person, lost, it will leave a wound that will always be faint pain...

If two people cannot be happy, it is better for one person to be happy, and if two people are miserable, it is better to be happy than to fulfill one. Love, is a feeling, even if the pain will feel happy love, is a kind of experience, even if the heart is broken, it will feel sweet love, is an experience, even if it is broken, it will feel that some beauty is lost, some fate is never fruitful, love a person may not be able to have, but, I just can't erase the bits and pieces you leave in my heart... Love a person is not lonely, think of a person to be lonely and quietly miss, lonely enjoyment to let go of the clouds in the sky, put aside the remaining vows to like a person, lost, just like throwing away their beloved items Although it is a pity, but will not love a person, lost, it will leave a wound that will always be faint pain...

Love each other, like love, love.

Two people have a common language together and are able to understand and tolerate each other. Two people are able to trust each other, respect each other, and care for each other. Two people can be considerate of each other and be able to tolerate each other.

Two people are able to understand each other's difficulties. Two people can progress together. Two people are able to encourage and support each other.

Two people can respect each other as guests. This is what it means to be in love.

Love must be the beginning of a heartbeat and a blushing, it is the excitement of the fawn, and there must be a formal confession.

First, you have to be able to talk.

When it comes to the question of how two people are suitable in life, married life is like a long-term dialogue, it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, it can be seen that the exchange and communication of feelings after the two get along is very important, only two people who can talk can cooperate for a long time, otherwise the person who will be cold after a few words will soon part ways. Marriage is not a life together, it is already a dream of many people to open their eyes every day and see the person they like sleeping in front of their eyes, but what seems to some people is a common thing in the eyes of others is a luxury.

2. Have love in your heart.

If you want to maintain a relationship in life for a long time, you must love each other enough, give each other enough security and trust in the process of getting along, and occasionally create some small surprises or small romances, etc., these are all manifestations of loving each other. Countless men and women stepped on the pit from an ambiguous teasing, to make it clear is mutual respect, there will be respect for each other, and there will be the next step, otherwise your relationship will be unequal from the beginning.

3. Understand and trust each other.

In life, if two people who love each other are suspicious of each other and test each other at every turn, then it is easy to quarrel, which makes the relationship between the two parties crack, and over time, it is easy to crack and damage the relationship between each other. In addition, if you don't know each other, or even some of each other's preferences and habits, then naturally you don't need to get along with each other, two suitable people must know each other, from what the other party likes to eat, to aesthetics, etc.

The relationship between men and women is from having a good feeling for each other - talking and getting to know each other - dating (after a few dates, if she does not refuse your appointment and is very willing to be with you, then it shows that she is willing to associate with you, that is, the beginning of the relationship) - holding hands - hugging - kissing --.When you are together, you feel and act more closely with each other, and think about each other, and the content of the conversation is also more intimate, for example, I miss you very much, you love you very much, you want to protect you for a lifetime, and each other extends from good feelings to feelings. With the above process, the two are considered to be in a couple's relationship, and then they take their girlfriends to see their families and go to their girlfriends' houses, and then the relationship is sublimated to a further step, and then the two and their families are engaged after reconciliation, and then it is to announce to everyone that the two have found a partner to spend their lives with, and finally get married.

When the relationship is improved step by step, the feeling of the two people together will be different, there may be some shyness and nervousness when dating and holding hands, and the two will have a very happy feeling when they reach the stage of hugging, and they will be super happy when they reach the stage of kissing, and they will be very relaxed together in the future, and the physical contact will be very frequent, and the relationship will get better and better with frequent physical contact.

First, the basic material conditions.

Living for two people, the basic life of firewood, rice, oil and salt needs to be guaranteed. Thinking higher, I have a house of my own and a car. Wouldn't it be nice?

You can live a comfortable life. Because I don't have to be urged by the landlord to rent every month, I think about how to save money every day. You don't have to get up early every day to squeeze the bus, sweat and live so hard.

If you prepare these basic things, will this relationship be more relaxed? However, you don't have these conditions, just fall in love emotionally, and this kind of love will not last long.

Love is all about bread. If you can't even guarantee the basics, how can any woman be willing to follow in your footsteps? It's not that women are material, it's that this world is too realistic.

2. A decent job.

There is also a job that pays well, and the benefits to the family in the future are unlimited. The wife has benefits for giving birth to a child, such as housing provident fund, medical insurance, etc., and the child will not have to suffer in the future.

Nowadays, there are many only children, and after marriage, two young people have to face several old people and at least one child to take care of, such pressure you can imagine, if your parents are not in good health to help take care of the children, and there is no medical insurance and pension insurance, then the future can be imagined, which will inevitably discourage many women.

Conversely, if you have a decent job, there will be less pressure on you. Isn't it emotionally better to communicate?

3. Sense of ceremony.

Some people may think that falling in love is just casual, as long as the relationship between the two is good, nothing else matters. But in fact, falling in love is also about rituals. Just like the festival in my country has the grandeur and atmosphere of the festival, there is also a sense of ritual when the meeting is held.

Whether at home or abroad, there is a need to maintain a sense of ritual about the beautiful things in life, and the same is true for falling in love.

It is with the sense of ritual that these things will be more respected. A thing that can make you feel respectful, you will treat it with reverence, and others will also show respect for your love, then those who are in love will enjoy the process of love more, and will pay more attention to each other, because it is so wonderful!

In a relationship, if the other person can make me feel happy, satisfied, happy, and promote my own progress, I will think that I have found a good lover. Next, I will elaborate my point of view through the following points:

1. The other party can notice in many small things (small details).

2. Have a good reply to everything, such as eliminating a visual wisdom that you think is funny before sharing it with the other party, and the other party can reply well, not a simple "um" reply.

3. When you are in need, the other party can arrive in time.

4. When you are unhappy, the other party can say some happy things to yourself, such as telling jokes or other ways to divert attention.

5. The other party is a person who is good at talking and will not let himself feel awkward moments.

6. When you have a conflict or quarrel with others, the other party first believes in yourself unconditionally, and then solves the matter together.

7. When you do something wrong, the other party should not solve it by reasoning, but directly analyze and explain the matter.

In short, as long as you feel happy and happy in this relationship, then the other party is a good lover.

The so-called good lover is to know how to cherish, treat each other, care for each other, tolerate each other, and protect each other's love wholeheartedly.

An effective accompaniment, of course! And then there are the three views! Be willing to communicate and take care of each other!

How to be a good lover, then the dust crack depends on how you treat your feelings, so as to determine whether you are a good old man of love. I often have to care more about each other in my life, so that each other can feel the warmth of the family.

Dear, hello, Lao Lu Huishi thinks: First, you need to have independent ability and courage. First of all, I have to ask myself a question: Can I survive if I have been starving since I was hungry and left him; The second is spiritual independence, as an independent woman, first of all, you have your own interests and hobbies, you have your own goals in life, and at the same time you have your own social circle, you have your own friends, instead of relying on each other, you can give each other space.

Third, you can become people who understand each other and rely on each other. The fourth is that both parties should be self-motivated, which is especially important.